not applicable to all mid fortysomethings
If you're 48 and live in Brooklyn surrounded by hipster culture, you might feel this way. Especially if you're a filmmaker trying to stay relevant and if you don't have children. But picture this:
A couple in their late 40's. Two kids in their teens. Combined income of 350k/yr. Living on the UWS in Manhattan (not Brooklyn). He's a loan officer and she is an emergency room doctor. Or he is a hedge fund guy and she doesn't work. His hobbies are triathlons and car racing and her hobbies are translating French poetry and competitive swimming.