You either don't have kids or you're impossibly naive.
It does matter what kids see and hear at what ages and stages of maturity. You can talk your face off after showing certain kinds of things to a young child, and it's not going to reverse or overpower the effects of what they've seen and heard. There are some things a child is just not going to be able to process or figure out at a certain age, no matter what you do or don't tell them about it. If you don't understand why, you probably need to do some reading about the development of the brain in childhood and adolescence, stages of psychological development and behavior, the overwhelmingly strong tendency toward raw imitation at some ages and with some stimuli, etc.
Still, I tend to agree with you about the scene in question. These "kids" aren't kids at all, and they're not the real children of the "mom" character, of course. This is a good case of comedy that pushes the line into discomfort for some people without actually being anywhere near as "wrong" as it appears to be (aside from the basic question of whether there's something wrong with stripping), and the audience knows that even as it's happening. It makes them squirm even as they know there's really not a reason to squirm, because the "family" is a total fiction. And as for the moral question re stripping itself, well...I don't think the story purports to be a defense of stripping as a job, since these are not exactly characters to be emulated, for anybody mature enough to understand that you don't emulate just anybody.
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