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Post Here Only If You Were Alive During JFK's Presidency



I'd like to hear from older people who remember JFK's Presidency. There are many who remember when he was shot and his death was big news for America. I have older friends who are in their 60's who were teenagers or age 18 when JFK was shot and remember where they were when it happened. My neighbor was at the time a 17 year old in a rock band practicing for his next gig when he heard it in the news on TV.

So whether you were a kid, teenager or adult during JFK's Presidency, what was it like ? What are your memories of this time and of his death. Do you feel that they portrayed that time period and JFK's Presidency accurately ? I think that it's very hard to recreate any time period to perfection but I have a feeling that this mini series didn't really do that good a job of making it look like the early 60's and of portraying what it was really like during the JFK era in America. They mostly looked like they were more interested in having actors dress up to look exactly like JFK, Jackie and Bobby and showing highlights of his Presidency - Bay of Pigs Invasion, Cuban Missile Crisis, Marilyn Monroe's death, his affairs with other women and his assassination in Dallas.

Anyways I was born in 1980, so the 60's and JFK was long before my time. At this time my mother was around 12 or 13 years old, but she was not living in the US. She heard it over the news in Spain. I can only use my imagination and look at photographs and video footage of this time period to get a sense of what it was like; but for those who were really there, it must be an entirely different experience altogether. Share your story. Thank you.

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Born in 1954. I was walking home from school and another kid said, hey President Kennedy was shot. Having seen PT 109 a month before or so, I said, yeah in the war right? He said no, this morning. I went home and watched it on tv for the next few days. That's my, where were you when you heard the news story.

I was too young to really understand politics then, and I lived in Canada. But my sense was that he was a great man, and it was a great loss. My parents were pretty liberal, and supported the civil rights movement going on in the US then so I was influenced by that I'm sure. Like a lot of young people then, he seemed like a new generation of politician that young people could relate to.

I was 14 in 68 when RFK was killed. That also made me very sad. I thought then he would have been a great president, and with hindsight I still think so, even better than his brother.

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Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight.

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I was 10 when he was killed.

I remember being in school, and an announcement that he had been shot coming over the PA system, and being sent home.
I also remember the mail that day, and we received an issue of "Life" Magazine in the mail with JFK and JFK, Jr on the cover. It was a few days before Jr's 3rd birthday and I believe that's why they were on the cover.

We had the TV on the entire weekend and Monday the day of the funeral.

We were at my aunt's on Sun of that weekend, and I will never forget watching LIVE the shooting of Lee Harvey Oswald.
To be honest, I don't know which one I was more stunned by, but I think it was Oswald because we actually saw that live, whereas, after the fact we heard about the shooting and death of JFK. Not that I EVER would have wanted to see JFK shot dead live, but I guess you know what I'm trying to say, at least I hope so.

Monday, the day of the funeral, I remember that too.
All the foreign leaders walking behind the Kennedy family.
I can still hear the non stop drums.

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I was 14 and in 9th grade. We had all been at lunch, it was right before Thanksgiving vacation time so everyone was relaxed. Our teacher ran into class
and said "Did you hear the news?" Someone said "Are we let out for Thanksgiving?"

That was what was on our young minds. He said "NO the president has been shot in Dallas." OMG. The school day ended at 1 pm for all of us and we were called into the auditorium to listen to the news and teachers and principal spoke to us.

By then we knew he was dead. Of course being young as I was, and Pres Kennedy being so cute, and all us teenage girls had a crush on him, so we were just devastated.
I didn't really understand it or realize any of the politics of that time. I remember thinking that war was coming.

During the Bay of Pigs and Cuban Missile Crisis, we were all very afraid. It was quite possible we would have gone to war and my family and I lived in VA so we were on the East Coast.

Anyway, for days afterward it was on tv and of course Thanksgiving was ruined. My little brother had been born 2 weeks before, and I always think of the President when we celebrate my brother's bday.

It was such a sad time. I don't think our country has ever felt so sad since.
Even 9-11 didn't seem to have the impact that the assasination had.

Maybe because after Pres Kennedy was shot like that, we lost our innocence.

It has been said that our generation was shaped to be different in so many ways, having witnessed such a death.

And then Oswald being killed too, it was just too much to take in. I do think that Baby Boomers have a feeling that doom is around the corner so get what you can and live life to the fullest.

Cuz it can end so quickly.

It was reported that the Dick Van Dyke show went dark and they had a hard time filming the shows the first few weeks after it happened.
Rob and Laura had been viewed as similar to Pres and Jackie Kennedy. Young, in love and attractive.

I think this mini series was great because it was as close to being what I remember about them as you can get. 13 days was also a great movie about that time.

But The Kennedys captured much of what was secret about Jack and Jackie and the White House. I have NO problem with any portrayal.
Remember these are actors trying to pretend to be extremely famous REAL people.
I thought that Greg Kinnear captured Kennedy more so than anyone has in years.

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I was a young teenager when Kennedy was elected, and he provided my introduction to politics, which has become a lifelong interest.

For those of my age, Kennedy represented a sense of hope, inspiration and excitement - we believed that he, and we, could change the world. For all his human failings, I think he was a highly intelligent man and, after some early sabre-rattling, he genuinely tried to pursue peace with the Soviets, while reamining opposed to their idealogy. For him, as he said, it was a matter of the survival of the human race. I think he had the potential to be one of the greatest presidents the U.S. ever had (I'm not American BTW), but his overtures towards peace didn't sit well with the military of the CIA, or with the industrialists who made lots of money out of war, and they decided he had to go.

Like so many of my contemparies, I was devastated by his assassination, and later on by Bobby's death as well. Although I don't think Bobby had the intellect of his brother, I think he was more passionate, and a genuinely caring man in his last years; I do think his brother's death changed him for the better. Whether he would have made a good president is something we can't know, but I have no doubt he was killed because of his anti-war stance - he was too influential for those with vested interests, and his passion was too contagious for some to tolerate.

It is an indisputable fact that no president since Kennedy has ever tried to stand up to the military-industrial-intelligence complex. Not one, on either side of American politics.

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I was sick that day and didn't go to school. I was in the bath tub taking a shower and I had the radio turned on, my mother was outside. It must have been warm for late in Nov in NY because I remember I could see my mother outside talking to a neighbor over the fence as I stood in the shower. When I heard on the radio that he was shot I opened the bathroom window and yelled out to my mother to come in, I don't remember the exact words I used. Everything stopped on TV after that for the rest of the day the only thing on TV was news about the shooting.

Before he was elected he made a trip to Long Island for a campaign stop, my mother and father drove about 10 or 15 miles and we stood in the street for a long time to get a glimpse of him.

I like most people was an admirer of him as a kid but changed my opinion when I grew up.



I was trying to find out what the temperature was that day and found this blog which I found to be informative and interesting

http://blog.nj.com/njv_robert_a_hayzer/2008/11/november_22_1963_the_ni ght_no.html

Of all the things I have lost I miss my mind the most

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I remember being in school and the principal sister came and talked to the teacher sister at the classroom door. By the look on their faces I knew something was wrong. The teacher sister came in and told us and lead us in prayer. It was a strange day. We went home early.

Going to Catholic school during the presidency of the first Catholic president was memorable. They acted like he was a saint. Details of his personal life came out later.

I've thought about JFK quite a bit lately. How "ask not what your country can do for you...." has changed to everyone wanting everything from the government.

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I was in the sixth grade and the principal asked me and another girl to watch over the Kindergarten class because their teacher, who was pregnant, was not feeling well. When the Kindergarten teacher returned, she told us Kennedy had been shot. We returned to our classroom and about 30 minutes later the principal entered the classroom and whispered to our teacher, who gasped and clutched at her chest (I can still remember that scene vividly). Our whole class seemed stunned....the rest of the weekend was filled w the TV going constantly (uninterrupted by commercials)with terribly sad images and further horrific drama when Oswald was killed on LIVE TV. I still remember the thump thump thump of the drums as the casket was brought to the cemetery.....

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Like another posting, I was also home that day, so I must have been sick. I remember sitting in the living room, reading, my mother was either folding laundry or ironing - and our neighbor ran in from across the street to tell us "The President's Been Shot!" We turned the television on - and my mother was very upset. My father had already left five months before to move to Indiana (from New York suburb where we lived) to start his new job and look for a house for all of us. My mother, brother, sister and I were in the small Long Island town, as she tried to sell it so we would join him in Indiana.

I don't remember being that excited/upset about the assassination - perhaps I saw too many westerns (dozens shot every day on MY TV watching!). I do remember enormous attention from adults toward my brother (age 6) and myself, which made me feel awkward.

And of course for days, the events of the lying in state, the funeral - consumed every moment of television - and this overlapped with Thanksgiving - so all were home to watch endless hours of the funeral. (Without dad there, we went for Thanksgiving to my aunt/uncle/cousins' home in the next town). To me at 8 years old, the loss of the TV programs I liked to watch - was a bitter one. I found the TV spectacles of a coffin being observed by the TV cameras in the Capitol rotunda for 7 straight hours on TV, or on a later day, horses moving at a slow and steady clip for miles on miles on miles - until they reached a cemetary where soldiers would fire their rifles at the rehearsed pace in unison - extremely boring. And adults just kept telling me "You understand? The President's been killed. Lyndon Johnson is our new president" and I'd nod my head, and say, yes, I understand. (My poor little brother cried for the TV programs lost to him for the days of the non-stop coverage - the adults were unsympathetic - they apparently liked watching unmoving coffins and slowly moving horses - for HOURS and HOURS!).

I think the series did well to copy the clothes and houses and cars - and I thought the accents were pretty well done. But the series is just written poorly. I feel sorry for the actors who seemed to have really put a lot of effort into it.

A good contrast is the series about Winston Churchill's decade out of power in the 1930s. It was also about 8 hours - but was fascinating, brilliant. I think part of the reason is that they chose several large political issues to follow over the course of that decade - and they weren't THAT interested in the personal side of Churchill's life (the personal can make a series seem a soap opera).

I'd bet that those who were alive then - have over the years read SO VERY MUCH about the Kennedys, their ancestors, the anecdotes, etc. that the series was not a good idea. There have even been TV series just about Joe Junior! I must have read at least a dozen books about the Kennedys - probably two dozen - beginning with the Salinger, O'Donnell, Schlesinger, Sorensen books that came out shortly after JFK's death - and continuing along the roller coaster of atttiudes about him and his administration since - from Navasky's biography to those such as Nigel Hamilton's or the joint family books by Doris Kearns Goodwin's or Collier and Horrowitz.

Overall, I think JFK was very bright, ambitious, extraordinarily charming - and charming in a way that I havne't seen in politicians recently. E.g., I think Clinton was charming - but Clinton tried to be - would go to people and seek to charm. JFK was one whom others would approach and want to be near and WANT to report wonderful things about. Part of it was his youth - remember that he was still having kids in the White House. And Caroline and John-John were VERY young when he entered the White House. That's appealing, and hadn't happened in anyone's memory. Part of his appeal was good looks (particularly those of Jacqueline), part of it was the very large happy family background he seemed to come from - but he was also rather well-read, and very cosmopolitan even as a 30 year old. And he was witty - and a handsome, wealthy, witty, young, cosmopolitan war hero will always do well in politics - especially if he's relatively cautious about taking any substantive positions out of the mainstream, and yet manages to seem very much that he wanted change. That he was then assassinated - of course pressed a kind of sealing wax on a favorable impression, as youthful death always does.

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I was only a baby when Jack was killed, but I do remember when Robert was killed. Even though my family were British, I remember that my mother cried -- I have a clear memory of her sitting watching the TV, crying over Robert.

Just for the record, I'm female.....at least, last time I checked...

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Born in 1942...and marched in JFK's Inaugural Parade [Univ of MD Marching Band]

It's a film...and no film can accurately portray the period [any period]...but can it "authentically" do so! -- Ahhhh...that's a different question.

My answer -- yes -- partially [Where was Ted!?!?!]

I wrote about this [and Kennedy as a symbol] in my book You Say You Want a Revolution: Rock Music in American Culture -- and it's still in my forthcoming Rock Music in American Culture: The Sounds of Revolution.

I watch ANY and ALL portrayals of the period, and have found much in all of them to be "authentic."

Bob Pielke

http://www.robertgpielke.com

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I was (approximately) "John-John's" age, so I don't really remember a thing.......which leads me to wonder if Jr. remembered anything at all about the time surrounding the funeral (for instance, the famous 'salute' he gave his father's passing casket):



http://www.nytimes.com/2012/03/05/us/stan-stearns-who-caught-jfk-jrs-s alute-on-film-dies-at-76.html?n=Top/Reference/Times%20Topics/People/K/ Kennedy,%20John%20F.%20Jr.?ref=johnfjrkennedy&_r=0&adxnnl=1&am p;adxnnlx=1390079460-qxoo5bqrw82J7+jaMPG8/g



Anybody happen to know if he ever commented publicly about what he remembered from those four dark days ???



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His election was a very exciting time, and usher in something new in the White House. . . a family that actually had fun and shared with the public. We always saw pictures of Jackie and the children. It was refered to as Camelot, because there seemed to be such joy and a bit of fantasy. I wasn't too much into politics at the time, but I remember the whole Bay of Pigs and the Cuban Missle Crisis events because people were very scared, and the store shelves started emptying. Jackie's wardrobe was a hit. She was very stylish! We didn't know much about Jack's infidelity, and I didn't know anything about his dad Joe Kennedy.

His assination was traumatic for the country. I remember exactly where I was, what I was doing and how I felt. I lived in No. Calif. at the time and my roommate and drank a bottle of wine, watched the tv reports, and went to a church and prayed.

I love this series!

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msdemos - During an interview John, Jr said he didn't remember anything about his father's death or the day of the funeral...too young.

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A (MUCH !!!) belated thanks, "marlene_1" !



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JFK was killed on my first birthday. So although I was alive, there are no memories, but every year on my birthday, he's remembered.

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JFK was killed on my first birthday. So although I was alive, there are no memories, but every year on my birthday, he's remembered.

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Welcome to the club - and happy birthday, almost. JFK was killed on my sixth birthday. I don't remmember anything about his presidency. but my mother told me that our TV ws broken, so we went over to the neighbors to watch. Mom told me (later that she cried while making my birthday cake, and everyone was saying it was the "saddest day in American history" and I was upset about it, saying "No, it isn't a sad day - it's my birthday!"

And like you, for years there were kennedy specials and re-living the tragedy every single November 22nd.

And what is really really weird is RFK was shot on my cousin's birthday!

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I was in grade school and we were dismissed early. The more vivid memory though, is the previous year when school was closed because of the Cuban Missile crisis. I grew up right outside DC in Virginia. My Dad was career CIA and it was supposed to be a big secret. But, when you had those emergency cards filled out in grade school, Dad's occupation was put down just a US Government. But, the phone number began with a 351 exchange. Since we lived just a few miles from Langley, a lot of kids had Dads in the CIA. We could figure out who's Dad was there because of the 351 exchange on the cards though we were were brought up not to discuss Dad's employer.

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Shouldn't the question be "who was grown up enough to remember anything", OP?

Anyway, very interesting personal testimonies. I love those!
I do find it sad, however, that people are letting details about his personal life to color their perception of his presidency. A person can be a philanderer or worse AND still be a good president.

I am not an American, BTW.
Not that it matters.







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