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Seriously - what IS WRONG with Farrah?


I have never liked her, and she is the main reason I stopped recording the show to watch. However today I have been sick in bed and I got caught up on the last few episodes. Farrah has just gotten worse over time. She is so mean and angry ALL THE TIME. Does she even have any real friends? I get that her parents probably weren't great parents, but does that mean you have to be such a miserable person all the time? You never even see her smile.

Obviously she wants people to think she's happy and in charge and has it all, but I wouldn't want to be her for ten million bucks.

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I know plenty of people that have grown up in households with bad parents and they are not as evil and vicious as she is. Her issues are deep and she's only fooling herself pretending like she's happy, wealthy and well established. I've said this before, her segments are really hard to watch, I never cared for Deborah but to some degree I really feel bad for her this season. She's become a punching bag and I hope she only puts up with it cause she wants to maintain a relationship with Sofia. MTV should re-evaluate what Farrah brings to the show, she's not entertaining and boarding on elder abuse

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I wonder what her secret is that happened to her as a child. She said something horrific happened but won't say on TV. I think maybe that's why is acts the way she does. But it shouldn't entitled her to act the way she does.

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I wonder what her secret is that happened to her as a child. She said something horrific happened but won't say on TV. I think maybe that's why is acts the way she does. But it shouldn't entitled her to act the way she does.


The way she acts, I'm guess the horrific event was she was probably spanked once as a child and she has never forgiven her mother for not getting her way that one time. For her it's pretty traumatic to not get what she wants. What an entitled little brat. It's so bad I almost wonder if it's an act for the camera, bc no one should really act like that. Her mother has no clue how to raise her besides just giving in every time Farrah throws a tantrum. This is what happens when you are concerned more with being a friend than a mother. I do feel bad for her though, bc Farrah is out of control.

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I look at Farrah and instantly Im reminded of The Hills. I believe some of the TM people also worked on TH's as well. I think of how they made us think it was real and really it wasn't. Heidi and Spencer have long since come forward admitting that they were paid more to behave that way and as ridiculous as it seemed, it was what production wanted from them. They have since regretted all of this behavior on and off camera because they claim, that's not who they really are. I wonder that about Farrah. She was always a pill but tolerable. Now she is on this disturbing level of negativity that almost seems unfathomable.

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You bring up a good point, however I don't think she's that good of an actress

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I'm just watching the episode where she's calling her mum a *beep* face, I seriously can't believe how nasty and cruel she is. I really hope she's fired or leaves soon because she's putting me off the show altogether.

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Ok...so I'm totally playing Armchair Psychologist here, but during her last freak out she said something about Debra bringing a lot of men home when she was a kid. It was an odd comment, because Debra and Michael only recently separated, so was she implying Debra cheated?

Anywho...I wonder if perhaps Debra was cheating on Michael, bringing a bunch of random men into her home, and maybe one of Deb's men could have molested Farrah?? That might account for the intense hatred and rage Farrah has for her Mom. Or, she's just a nasty tw*t.

My feet have wings, barf bag.

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Did Farrah say her mom paraded the men through her home when Farrah was actually a kid? I felt like Farrah was jumping around throughout the fight. She just never has a linear train of thought, so I couldn't tell if she was talking about her childhood or more recently or what.

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The fight was highly edited. The comments and responses didn't match up, like other things were said that could have made sense but were edited out.

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This is the vibe I get too. It's the only thing that could account for the intense hatred she has towards her parents. Plus I'm sure Debra would never admit to anything which would only as insult to injury.

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Farrah has a laundry list of issues and it's so sad. Issues from childhood plus she was a pregnant teen and the child's father passed away before the child was born. That must be tough.

She needs help. And I believe it's deeper than therapy.

She needs someone who loves her enough to help her change. Someone who won't enable or condone her behavior (Her parents) but someone who will stand up to her and isn't afraid to say "YOU ARE WRONG" (Simon).

Debra doesn't love her truly, Debra just walks on eggshells so that she isn't verbally attacked and insulted. Pretending your loved one doesn't have a problem IS a problem!

Too bad Simon is only in it for the paycheck. Farrah could really benefit from that kind of tough love. He's the only one with enough balls to tell her bratty ass "No" from time to time.

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I agree 100 percent. Honestly, I was rooting for her in seasons 1-2. She was going through grief, loss of love, depression, raising a baby, getting through school, all while cameras film you. All she wanted was to make a better life and a happy life for So and herself. She was a good mom then. She put in honest days work at the local pizza shop, went to school, and took care of her kid. I don't know what happened to her after that. She's just bizarre in every way now. She needs real legit therapy from a real doc, not one on a tv show.

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Hey: Honestly, I was rooting for her in seasons 1-2. She was going through grief, loss of love, depression, raising a baby, getting through school, all while cameras film you. All she wanted was to make a better life and a happy life for So and herself. She was a good mom then.


What show were you watching? I remember Debra watching Sophia, and I know Debra allowed Farrah to live in their rented home, which became not good enough for Farrah. Then, Farrah headed off to Florida w/Sophia and it was more of the same stuff.

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I agree with you. She was always had that nasty snobby attitude but she really was functioning in every other way.

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I'm sorry but she has a severe personality disorder than can't be cured with "love". Everyone is looking for some deep rooted cause to her behavior when it's becoming increasingly clear she has something along the lines of narcissistic personality disorder and unfortunately that can't be cured and can actually get worse. Farrah doesn't think she has a problem and never will, there is no helping someone like that and nobody is ever going to love her because of how she is. In her mind it won't be because of her attitude, it will be because she's just intimidating being a "wealthy twenty-something".

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I'm sorry but she has a severe personality disorder


Exactly, Madamme!

Too bad David Viscott and Freud are dead, because she will team of doctors to help her.

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She smiles and laughs when people kiss her butt like Michael helping her organize her garage instead of paying day workers to do such a job.

Her happiness is making other people her slaves & making others miserable. Farrah is a complete monster.

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I believe she has borderline personality disorder. She has many of the traits.

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I honestly think it sounds a lot more like she has a narcissistic personality disorder

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How do you explain her raging anger and giant mood swings then?

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You mean like some illuminati type stuff?

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Farrah has never been the same since the sex tape fiasco.


No, she's been worse, because she was expecting Kardashian-type fame, and it all backfired. She was trying to tell everyone it was a leaked sex tape, but anyone in their right mind knew that thing was a porno she willingly created.

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That right there is one of the reasons why Farrah isn't this great business woman she thinks she is. Anyone with an ounce of common sense knows if you're trying to pass a staged porno off as a leaked amateur sex tape, you can't make it with a well known porn star.

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