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Misogyny becomes a 'Romantic comedy'


This was also a time when women were told to strive to be thin and beautiful, demure, obedient wives and virginal daughters. They were told they couldn't enjoy sex, but must offer themselves to their husband's pleasure. It was a fairly miserable and confusing time for women. In fact, centuries later women still haven't recovered completely from that era.

Suffragettes had to work their butts off just to be able to work and vote. The rise of feminism hasn't changed the fact that most men will screw anyone (guilt free!), but only marry a "Respectable" (otherwise likely 'innocent' virginal) woman, and that woman are trapped in that "lady in the street-freak in bed" syndrome.

Now movies and plays are being written in a way that women somehow benefited from the Victorian Era. If anyone benefited, it was men.

Women are still conflicted and guilt-ridden keeping count of lovers and boyfriends trying to remain innocent and maintain their reputations, like bargaining their bodies will make them more marketable for a husband. It's pathetic.

The fact that this is a romantic comedy makes me feel frustrated. This satire used to be the source of guilt and depression for so many woman.

I'm glad hysteria has been discredited.


Sorry for the mini-rant, and thank you for reading it.

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Please run for president, you're brilliant and said it better than I ever could. That's all.:)

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Wow, thank you! You're one of the first people to not call me an idiot...

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I wouldn't have put it so eloquently, but the movie did make light of the troubles of women. Their second class status, inability to speak her mind because of any male in her life, made us take notice. Much like the name of the sexual dysfunction. But I did laugh, especially when the doctor failed at his manual masturbation and women complained. The delivery of the lines worked some of the time. That some men were also manipulated by more powerful men was refreshing. That love gives you strength to fight.

You are right about the men of the time. Were they afraid to share the joy of living? Were they afraid to lose us due to their perceived shortcomings? Did they think that we could lose control? This movie lightly counter-balances the I'm happy everyday to be told what to do for you image. I believe the women portrayed knew that it was sexual gratification, but were afraid to acknowledge it, for fear of being locked up.

I gave the movie 6 stars out of 10, because it did trouble me.

"...as long as people can change, the world can change"

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Thank you for the feedback! I may have given a higher rating if it wasn't presented nearly trivially.

I wonder about men now and then. I think women knew as well. Its almost like the invention acknowledged the equality of sexual gratification. 'Close your eyes and think of England' just wont do, haha

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