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'women-love-vibrators ' is a male fantasy


Though this movie is just a light comedy, I am sure most of "young males" will take home the message that -"All women love vibrators and its like a god's gift to them". This is not true at all. When I was young (I am a 39 year old male now), I used to believe the same. Its only when I interacted with real women I realized the difference between fantasy and reality. The expensive vibrator that I bought for my sex-loving wife got "tried" only once and has been lying unused for past 8 years :-)

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Sorry OP, but most women do like their vibrators. It's not a "young male fantasy"....it's got nothing to do with them, in fact. My first one died a few months ago and I remember thinking sadly, "wow, 10 years and you've never once let me down before. This is the end of my longest sexual relationship".

I also love my fiance and we have a great sex life, but sometimes with or without him I still use a vibrator. Sometimes you just need a little "me" time.

To the girls who didn't enjoy theirs, I will recommend trying different types. I bought an expensive rabbit-style a while ago and there was just too much motion in the wrong places for me. I've also had bullets and other types with varying success (yes, I have a toy drawer). The simple $50 one my friends bought me as a gag birthday present in college has always been my favorite (that's the one that died). Good shape, size, texture, etc for me. I found it on the first try, but you might have to go through a couple to find what works.

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to all the women who say they are too sensitive for vibrators, my advice is this: get a dildo instead. it doesn't vibrate and so it doesn't have a hard inflexible core. just silicon all the way through. that worked for me. i hope it works for you.

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I like vibrators but they are best to use with lubricant unless you're really turned on. In my experience they keep breaking and they are expensive especially when my finger works perfectly well.

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Hitachi, m'dear, Hitachi!

Last for years, no batteries to give out, and a whole different animal to any human's finger.

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Speaking openly... I could never orgasm through penetration alone. So my husband and I incorporation the vibrator and other fun stuff. He was cool with it and that made me comfortable and sex was the best!!!

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This is actually quite a problematic generalisation you are making!

If I were to say, "young ladies, don't be fooled, don't live in a fantasy world.... men don't actually like whacking themselves off as often as you think" people would LAUGH at me!

Maybe you just know what buttons work for your wife, congratulations. But trust me, there are MILLIONS of real women in the real world who are either happily single or in very happy relationships who ADORE their vibrators.

This idea is counter-intuitive to a young man's mind-set from my experiences anyway. Why would young men find the idea of a sexually independent woman more of a turn on than a woman who needs a man to achieve sexual satisfaction?

Not a logical argument!

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Actually the stereotype is that wanking is pathetic for men, and they'd much rather have a woman. Not sure if I'd call women's vibrator-love a male fantasy, but it does present an image of women as being insatiable and emotionally dead, as if they were sex robots themselves.

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How would a male know this? I'm a female, happily married and more than content to take myself from 0 - 60 in about 15 seconds. Sometimes when hubby is in the den watching his TV, I'll head to bed and just prior, have a little fun with myself. It's not that I don't love hubby, but sometimes you want the end result without all the extra effort. I highly doubt I'm alone here.

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Haha, wow. Glad I'm not sex-obsessed.

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Somebody is getting rich selling devices that lie unused...


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It would appear from the responses here that you do not know women as well as you think you do.

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Having just watched this movie, I rather thought the message was 'Women like sexual stimulation and orgasms, too, and they should not be made to feel ashamed for it.' Different women like different things, there is no absolute truth.

But hey, I'm just a sex toy reviewer and erotic website moderator who thoroughly enjoys her (sideline) work, so what do I know?

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To the OP. Women hate vibrators as much as men hate masterbating. Women wank just like men and it is often better than sex.

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