'women-love-vibrators ' is a male fantasy

Lying unused, that you know of. ;-)

As a female I would not presume to know everything about male fantasies yet the OP has presumed to know about female fantasies based his wife. Having known many many women I can say without a doubt that a lot of them use vibrators. Some because they are not in a relationship, others because their partners are either not able or willing to bring their women to orgasm. Others use them because they are unable to orgasm through penetration alone. There are many in this category. All those without even mentioning lesbians.

I myself have one but very rarely use it as I have a great sex life with my husband and don't need one right now. That is not to say that I have never used one.

I am therefore of the opinion that the OP has not "interacted with real women" much or that the women he has interacted with did not feel comfortable disclosing the fact that they use one. It is not even something women tell each other often.

So for all those guys out there wondering.....women do use them but not all the time. Most women prefer a man over a vibrator but not all. A lot has to do with circumstances.

I also smiled at the "unused for 8 years" as there are women who are married and use vibrators but don't tell their husbands. I am not saying that the OP's wife does but it does happen. Most women are sensitive to their husbands feelings and would not want their husbands to feel inadequate.

As a female I would not presume to know everything about male fantasies yet the OP has presumed to know about female fantasies based his wife. Having known many many women I can say without a doubt that a lot of them use vibrators. Some because they are not in a relationship, others because their partners are either not able or willing to bring their women to orgasm. Others use them because they are unable to orgasm through penetration alone. There are many in this category. All those without even mentioning lesbians.

I myself have one but very rarely use it as I have a great sex life with my husband and don't need one right now. That is not to say that I have never used one.

I am therefore of the opinion that the OP has not "interacted with real women" much or that the women he has interacted with did not feel comfortable disclosing the fact that they use one. It is not even something women tell each other often.

So for all those guys out there wondering.....women do use them but not all the time. Most women prefer a man over a vibrator but not all. A lot has to do with circumstances.

I also smiled at the "unused for 8 years" as there are women who are married and use vibrators but don't tell their husbands. I am not saying that the OP's wife does but it does happen. Most women are sensitive to their husbands feelings and would not want their husbands to feel inadequate.

as a woman, i can assure you we really do love our vibrators.
does it scare you that we can so much satisfaction without the help of a man?

well, i hate to burst your bubble there, but after more than 5 years of working in an adult shop, and my wifes 18+ years there, i can state that you are incorrect.
MOST women will find pleasure from a vibrator, but they might not want to do so WITH you. usually this is because they fear your reaction to it. Also, they might not be interested in having you watch them masturbate, or having you manually stimulate them with a device you do not know how to operate. or maybe she just felt like you expected her to put on a show, and was not at all into that. or maybe, she really wasn't into it. but i tell you, that is the LEAST likely answer out there.


I have sold Thousands of vibrators, to hundreds of VERY satisfied women; many of whom returned for replacements when theirs wore out.

It could be that she didn't like your super expensive vibe, i would assume a rabbit style, with a bunch of different vibration patterns. Shocker, the cheaper standard "2 c cell battery" vibe is far more popular, and versatile than those rabbits, and far less costly too. If you foolishly let a sales person talk you into an expensive vibe, and your partner didn't like it... maybe you should have, oh, i don't now, talked to her about it first. she probably has a standard vibe someplace you don't know about already, but clearly isn't willing to share that with you.

yup, soundz like da ostrich wid his head in da hole

I live, I love, I slay, and I'm content

I hate to burst your bubble, but I am a 42-year old male, and my experience is different than yours. It's not just a fantasy, although I will not go to the extreme and say "all" women are either way. Most I've met definitely enjoy their toys.

I to am too sensitive for vibrators. It actually hurts! I got one, nothing fancy called the bullet and I tried using it and my husband tried using it on me and I'm just too sensitive I guess. And I got it cause my husband wanted me to try it. I orgasm with my husband through oral and penetrating stimulation although some positions work better for me than others, and thats ok. I think what helps me orgasm the most is that my husband and I really love each other. That's just us. But the movie looks funny!