Mine was a couple weeks after I turned 16. I remember being pretty pleased the whole next day at school and telling my buddies as we were running laps around the football field. But to be honest, getting my first BJ at 15 made me happier than losing my virginity for some reason.
At what age did you first have sex? I'm assuming the average age is probably around 17 and curious to see if that holds true.
Haven't to this very day. Not expecting that to change either, by the way.
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At 18, like more then a month a go, with my bf. I was waiting for the right person, but I think he's worth it.
shareAt 17, I think...
I was saving myself for someone special - meaning basically any girl that would have sex with me. :)
That first time wasn't all that much to cheer for, as in not very memorable at all. But it was an experience that made any follow up less intimidating.
Also, this was so long ago (1992) just thinking about it makes me feel incredibly old!
-If made by George Lucas, this would be re-released 3 times - and by now be mostly cgi.
At 17, I think...Were you hot for her, or did you just go for it because she was willing? I ask because after reading these responses on this thread, I am surprised how many people say their first time wasn't great. But, that makes me think that they must not have had the hots for the people they slept with, because I can't imagine the first time being anything but great if it was with someone you were at least hot for, cause then the chemistry of attraction would take over and make it feel great despite any awkwardness, it seems. I speak as the voice of inexperience, but that's my theory.
I was saving myself for someone special - meaning basically any girl that would have sex with me. :)
That first time wasn't all that much to cheer for, as in not very memorable at all.
Sitting here trying to figure out how to answer your question...
I'm 42 now, so the loss of my virginity at 17 was SO long ago I actually can't remember every little detail.
But as best I can remember - here goes;
I didn't really have "the hots" for her, meaning I was neither in love with her or particularly sexually attracted to her (not a lot anyway). But I wasn't really much to look at back then, at least not according to myself. I was a slightly overweight kid with a downy moustache and glasses. My one saving grace was probably the thick black hair, but what do I know - I didn't really care much about my hair at the time.
I was painfully inexperienced. I had hardly even kissed anyone at that time - definately never with an open mouth.
She on the other hand was very experienced. She was two years my senior and experimental as hell. So when she decided (because that is exactly how it happened) that she wanted to have sex with me - we wound up having sex, there was never any question about wether or not this would happen. And even though it in hindsight wasn't all that memorable, I can't say that at the time I wasn't in to it.
I may not have been in love with her, and I may not have had "the hots" for her, but when you suddenly, for the first time in your life, find yourself naked in bed with a woman who for some reason - no matter how inexplicable - wants to have sex with you. You tend not to care about things like love or attraction.
Now, 25 years later, in a long term relationship with a woman I love more than I could ever describe, I reason differently. But back then, not so much. :)
Hope that explains it a little bit at least.
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