First installment!!!
Sorry for being so diliatory in my response.
OK, I've read Ch 27, but I think my conclusions about what Bronte is describing doesn't match yours...or even Bronte's for that matter! OF COURSE he's had a miserable history having been deceived by his father and brother and hooked to a known demented woman. BUT he married Bertha of his own free will. He was coerced but not forced to become her husband. That her mental state became obviously worse after the marriage should NOT have changed the fact in his mind that he did, at one time, believe himself attracted to her. Why should we not expect a man to respect that decision, even if he's unhappy about the consequences? When Jane asks him, very astutely, if he would treat her the same way as Bertha if SHE went crazy. He vows no, he'd embrace her while she's cursing him, biting him, acting an intemperate, sexually permiscuous, demented creature. But given how he's behaving, that rings hollow. IOW I don't believe Bronte when she has her Rochester say that. He's selfish, lacks introspection and except for apparent humane treatment of his staff, has no respect for women. Consider how he's used women for his pleasure after he was [unhappily] married. Is this what good folks are led to believe connotates moral, considerate, respectful behavior? Is this the behavior of a basically "good" man who just...blunders, as Bronte apparently thought she was describing.
The problem is NOT that Bronte has him tricking her into jealousy, forcing her to endure the humiliation before Blanche et al and then offering illegal marriage to her. That's bad enough, it's how he behaves AFTER he's been found out that really tips the scales. That is the part that stands out to me, and (it seems to me) apparently didn't register with Bronte as she wrote it. I note two things about this exchange Bronte is presenting. I note how LONG it is given the weakened state Jane is in AND how selfishly he comes across. Did Bronte not think of that as she was writing? Did she not reflect...wait a minute, everything I have him saying is about him, how miserable he will be, how sad his life has been, why HE's not really married, how much HE needs this and that to make HIM happy. Despite describing her as exhausted, she doesn't give Jane a break. She gives Rochester essentially complete control over her when she has Jane in a weakened state, emotionally and physically.
It's an entire chapter! Bronte has Rochester coming at her in every way he can think of and she has to endure it. And Bronte makes it clear she's physically exhausted and her emotions assaulted. And why should she not be. I believe she has endured just as much misery in HER short life as Rochester has in his. And the readers seem to relish her suffering as making her a better person and his suffering as justifying a manipulative, dishonest character.
A man in his situation, understanding of the misery he's felt at the hands of his father and brother, SHOULD have been mindful of the misery she has felt and was feeling AT THIS TIME. Yet Bronte has him yammer on and on trying to find the crack in her armor. Bronte forces her to endure this after she's had the rug pulled out from under her time and time again. First when she's two, her parents die. That's the first rug before she's even... aware. Her uncle would love and care for her AND THEN HE DIES, leaving her to his evil wife and children. Another rug jerked out. Then she's sent to Lowood where she hopes to be treated at least as an equal to the other children but when she arrives the rug is again pulled out as she endures the hypocrisy and abuse of Mr B. Then she goes to Thornfield, is treated well, and seemingly gets her feet under her, only to have the rug pulled out from under her again, and this time by an older man who she is led to believe is honest and caring and someone she loves and even worships. I do NOT see true love in Rochester, only selfish desire to satisfy his emotional and sexual needs/wants. Is this what some women secretly want? Someone to cast aside all that is right to fulfill his pleasures because his needs are SOOOOO great? It sounds dangerously like how Bronte seems to describes how Blanche describes her ideal man. I read this script:
“Do you know,” said she, “that, of the three characters, I liked you in the last best? Oh, had you but lived a few years earlier, what a gallant gentleman-highwayman you would have made!”
“Is all the soot washed from my face?” he asked, turning it towards her.
“Alas! yes: the more’s the pity! Nothing could be more becoming to your complexion than that ruffian’s rouge.”
So Blanch seemed to want a man of low character and dangerous personality...exactly as Rochester comes across IN HIS ADDRESS to Jane in Chapter 27. Selfish and dangerous.
I see that in this chapter, Bronte is just using Jane as a plot device for her to 1) tell Rochesters sad history AND 2) as the voice of conscious which Rochesters tries every way to break. BUT, Jane is a real fictional character{: We have been led to see her as having feelings, a spirit, a personality with wishes and hopes and fears. Please read the chapter FROM HER STANDPOINT. It's NOT romantic, it's horrible. Why is this not viewed as abuse tantamount to the abuse she received at the hands of Aunt Reed and John, then Mr Brocklehurst? He keeps her in what someone who was in her place would feel was prison to browbeat and harass her. I'm speaking of her situation immediately after the attempted wedding and before she's able extract herself from his selfish whinings. She is trying to leave but he won't take that as an answer. There is almost zero concern for her, her mental state, her shattered emotions, her attempt to maintain purity in face of his wantonness. Listen to him. He chides her for her steadfast beliefs about what is right. Badgers her about how bad he feels and HIS state of mind and how miserable he'd be without her, with zero consideration for how miserable she would be. He does everything in his power short of physical abuse...which eventually he DOES apply toward the end by grabbing her and his voice, with the violence barely subdued, makes her stone-cold with terror. IN fact, I notice about three times when it seems she feels in peril due to his manic and barely subdued agressiveness and violence.
He complains that she'd leave him with a demented wife upstairs. Jeez a flip, he'd STILL have a demented wife "upstairs" (literally AND in his head) if she stayed...wouldn't he? It would just mean he'd have both a wife upstairs and this "mistress" at his breakfast table and in his bed fulfilling his emotional and physical pleasures if she was that sort of girl. BUT SHE IS NOT and she WOULD NOT be enjoying him or the situation even if she gave in. Why doesn't Bronte even have him notice that? Based on how Bronte is having Jane talk, Jane would NEVER be able to get this wife out of her head. Regardless of how HE feels it is mere social custom that prevents her being with him, it's what SHE feels that SHOULD be important. AND JANE TELLS HIM HOW SHE FEELS, OVER AND OVER. Why do folks not notice that Bronte doesn't even seem to have him recognize that. If Bronte was describing a man who really loved her, she'd realize that a "Jane" could never be happy with that state affairs and "he," her senior by many years, should have recognized that. True, unselfish, respectful love would have him helping her pack while apologizing profusely and recognizing the wickedness of what he'd done. A man who truly loved would be concerned with her welfare once she did leave, as she was resolved to do. Why didn't Bronte have him consider her safety after she left...no offer of money or supplies, nothing. But, instead of concern for her welfare, emotionally morally or physically, he wants to pull this young innocent girl DOWN into his web of selfish pleasures and emotional dependency. He seems to have NO internal compass of right and wrong, no character... and he'd be happy if she'd become the same kind of person. SHE sees character as adhering to social customs regarding marriage. So even if he doesn't agree, Bronte should have had him acknowledge this fact about Jane and had him act on HER feelings. If, that is, he's basically a good man who just blundered. I'm sorry, but I see similarities to the apology Austen wrote for Willoughby...in fact believe it or not, I see MORE remorse in Willoughby than in Rochester. Willoughby at least recognizes that he's lost Marianne for good because of what he'd done. He says, even if I wasn't married at all, I'd still not have a chance with Marianne. But Rochester just won't "give it up." He's harmed Jane every bit as badly as Willoughby harmed Marianne...worse even, yet Bronte has him go on trying to cajole this girl, half his age to "see it his way," when Bronte should have recognized HIS WAY is depraved and selfish, the path to destruction emotionally, morally and physically. She has Jane recognize and say that, but apparently Bronte doesn't embrace that strategy for how to live one's life. Otherwise she would not believe she wrote a basically good man who just made some mistakes. She wrote a man who made gross, inexcuseable assaults on a vulnerable girl who worked for him and he NEVER really acknowledges he's done wrong. Oh, he's sorry he hurt her, but that is NOT the same as being sorry for doing evil. He didn't learn from his mistakes. All I see is:
“Jane, I never meant to wound you thus. If the man who had but one little ewe lamb that was dear to him as a daughter, that ate of his bread and drank of his cup, and lay in his bosom, had by some mistake slaughtered it at the shambles, he would not have rued his bloody blunder more than I now rue mine. Will you ever forgive me?”
Bronte has him refer to what he's done as a blunder...A BLUNDER? He asks her to marry him when he's already married and then badger her to live a life of sin just to satisfy his needs and Bronte has him call that a blunder? A blunder is when you
-accidentally spit on someone's shoe,
-accidentally mention someone's dead wife in a derogatory way when you think they aren't listening,
-accidentally back over someone's dog (Doc Martin), or
-call someone a liar because you really think they are lying and then you find out they were telling the truth.
THOSE are blunders. I'm sorry calling what he did a blunder... that's crazy talk
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