Jackie attracting so many men isn't even realistic.
Edie Falco at her BEST, when she has long hair and the right makeup, is an average looking middle aged woman imo. There's nothing wrong with that; most of us are average, right? But it becomes a problem when you cast her as a character who:
a. has her looks played down by giving her a short, cropped butchy haircut and
b. apparently attracts men like bees to honey.
It was really hard for me to believe that she's got this smokin' hot younger husband (who IS younger and looks even younger than his actual age), and then she's got a boyfriend on the side, and then they really went too far was when even COOP got all goofy over her and dumped his gorgeous girlfriend to pursue Jackie! What the heck! It's like they had some other actress in mind when they wrote the script, but then decided to star Edie at the last moment and it was too late to change the script.
I'm not trying to be mean but I just think they should have either gone with someone else, or wrote in other drama that didn't involve sex with multiple men who in real life wouldn't go for her.