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flashing and rape scene


So, just to comment on the 2 scenes which have received the most attention, I think some obvious points were missed.

The Flashing:
Her husband acted like an irrational jerk regarding her being stared at. He was right that men will look at a woman dressed as she was when they look as she does...but, staring and eye-screwing is different than looking. He should have man upped and said something...not blamed his wife and then claimed he didn't get turned on by her because he's already seen her naked. Women..and men, want to be desired...he left her feeling as if he'd seen everythingher and it didn't do anything for him to see her dress sexy. It was well written as this is something that would occur in a relationship...and, men are screwed because saying something makes us jealous fools..not means we don't care...but, he still acted like a jackass. She flashed for herself, to spite her husband and them....to show them it didn't get to her.."you wanna see...here I am" type deal...and to feel desired..since her husband did not act as if he desired her.

On the Rape:
While it was rape, and she did not deserve it, there was a part of her that enjoyed it with Charlie. She wrapped her leg around his and grabbed his hand during it. She was as disgusted with herself as she was with him, IMO. You could see the contrast in her reaction when the second man came in and raped her. Initially she snapped out of it and told Charlie to get off her...she didnt act as a victim...then..she acted as a woman who realized what she'd done. Then, when raped by the friend, she screamed no and stop the whole time and crying, unlike what she did with Charlie.

Both were rape...but the first was wanted by a part if her, IMO. I wouldn't call it cheating...she lusted for him...used self control to prevent it as best she could..but, once it happened, she didn't hate it. IMO.

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It was such a poor movie and the plot/writing was beyond terrible. The only reason I managed to watch through this train wreck of a movie was because of Skarsgard.

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husband knew that his wife is bit slow to think (being blonde perhaps), thus making the remarks on her dressing. an intelligent lady would not be appearing partially nude outside of house while knowing bunch of rednecks would be arriving soon

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lol, you're insane. She didn't want Charlie to rape her, not even part of her. She knew him and while in shock that he was raping her, recognized that he's f^cked in the head, thinks she's into it, and isn't "hurting" her. When he passed her off to his POS friend that BRUTALIZED her, she was terrified. That's why there was a different reaction.

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You are so dumb! You seem to live in a fantasy world where everybody is decent. Open your eyes lady, come back to the real world.


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And you're, at best, a rape apologist and more likely, a rapist yourself. Creep.

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While it was rape, and she did not deserve it, there was a part of her that enjoyed it with Charlie. She wrapped her leg around his and grabbed his hand during it. She was as disgusted with herself as she was with him, IMO. You could see the contrast in her reaction when the second man came in and raped her. Initially she snapped out of it and told Charlie to get off her...she didnt act as a victim...then..she acted as a woman who realized what she'd done. Then, when raped by the friend, she screamed no and stop the whole time and crying, unlike what she did with Charlie.

Isn't this basically what Robin Thicke's Blurred Lines song is about?!

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It was a rape it is obvious from her face in the end. That maybe she wanted him , she found him sexy but this did not mean that she wanted sex with him in this setuation and time. And he understood that and he felt rejected..

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I watched the movie 10 minutes ago and it was rape. 100% verbally saying no, crying tears and hitting Charlie as he advances and violently throws her onto the couch. She continues verbally saying no, crying, physically trying to stop Charlie while he overpowers and strips her. He is then on top of her, pinning her down and tells her in a tone of warning to not move. She is frozen and looks terrified as she knows he is attempting to rape her; during these 2 seconds Charlie removes his shirt while he has her pinned under him. When Charlie's shirt is off she is no longer frozen in fear/shock and she begins physically (shoving, hitting, pushing away, trying to get away) and verbally saying no again as he removes his pants. 100% of the rape she is in distress: her eyes are closed, she looks lightheaded/dizzy, her body is tense, she trembles/shakes, she sweats, she appears to have shortness of breath - everything about her body language says no, you're assaulting me, I don't want this; she is not responding to his requests, questions, what he says and it looks as if she is trying to block the rape out. The last few seconds where you claim "she wrapped her leg around his and grabbed his hand during it" did not happen, Charlie was having an organism and moved around and she moved with the force and to steady herself, all the while still in high distress. And after the rape she did not react "disgusted with herself" as you say, instead she doesn't move, her eyes are still closed and she moves her head like a delirious/sick child, as if she isn't entirely there. What brings her back from the trauma her mind is going through is that she is now aware another man is in the room and that he is also going to rape her, setting her off into a panic. She returns to frantically trying to get Charlie off of her both verbally and physically. Charlie now realizes she 100% was not trying to seduce him (he made a comment about it to her husband outside of the church) and that he raped her. Charlie moves off her and his friend grabs her, and Charlie lets him rape her, watching, looking upset that she did not want him. I think If Charlie did not think it was rape he would have prevented his friend raping her; he allowed his friend so that Charlie could teach her a lesson and try to regain control over her so she would want/need him, as he states at the end of the movie that he will protect her.
Even bios all over the interent call CHarlie's assault on Amy rape. At the football game Amy has begins having flash backs to the rapes and asks her husband to take her home. It doesn't matter that Charlie and Amy had history, were attracted to each other; that she showed off her breasts, provoked by her husband telling her to wear a bra to be given more respect after complaining that she did not like the way the group of men (including Charlie) looked at her.

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I never, ever claimed this wasn't a rape. I stated numerous times, regardless of my reading of the scene and her own turmoil, that it was, without a doubt, still a rape. Some of your take on the scene I agree with. However, if you did not see her wrap her lag around him and pull him in, you didn't watch the scene closely enough. She wasn't frozen following the rape. She was looking at pictures of herself as a child and family pictures. There was a meaning and significance behind her doing so, imo. Even though she was forced, part of her was into it. Grasping his necklace, gripping his side, etc. she was ashamed for the part of her that let go, imo. It's actually common among rape victims and many hold more guilt following the incident than they ever should because....they were still raped and shouldn't hold themselves accountable.

You bring up other scenes to back your point of it being rape, when I never claimed it wasn't. Tell me this, what was the purpose of them sequencing between her husband and shooting the deer, (which was clear by his actions and expression that he didn't want to), and her getting raped by Charlie. What was the significance and commonality between those two scenes/characters?

As I see it, both Amy and her husband were in situations they did not want to be I but a part of them gave in. Her husband clearly had more control over his own situation than she did, but it was more about how they both felt conflicted by the situation and guilty following it. Her guilt demonstrated by her looking at photos from her past and his by his interaction with the now dead deer.

I'll close with, the scene was left open to Interpretation. I added "imo" numerous times because what I posted was "in my opinion". You speak matter of factly as if you're 100% correct and there is no room for an opposing view. It's ignorant to do so. I strongly disagree with your reading of that scene and think you missed some key elements to it. But, we don't disagree on it being rape and I never stated otherwise. If you think I had, much like this scene, you've misinterpreted what I wrote,(even though I clearly stated "it (still) was rape" more than once).

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Amy is upset during the entire rape and when she is looking at the photos of her childhood at the ending of the rape, the tone is emotionally sad. She is not thinking "ah, memories of my childhood, I feel guilty about experiencing pleasure and conflicting emotions while Charlie raped me."

"There was a meaning and significance behind her doing so, imo. Even though she was forced, part of her was into it." Amy is upset during the entire rape and when she is looking at the photos of her childhood while she is raped (the ending), her face and the tone is emotionally sad. There is sadness after the assault as she looks at the child she was, the happy child who hadn't been assaulted. A person sadly looking at photos of their childhood in the ending of being raped does not signify feeling guilty or having feelings for their assaulter, that is absolutely crazy, they are focusing solely on them-self as a young, happy, innocent child; how they use to be as a child, safe, happy, innocent and not hurt. She is in mourning for herself, she is not involving anyone but herself.

Shooting the deer and Charlie raping Amy signified a predator/assaulter and the prey/victim - the shots mirror each other as predator and prey and catching/destroying the prey.: when Charlie first advances and forces to kiss Amy while she tries pushing him away the scene intersperses to David finding the deer; the scene intersperses to Charlie who pins Amy on the couch, disrobing her while she is pleading with him to stop; the scene intersperses to David raising his gun and considers whether to kill it; the scene intersperses to Charlie unbuckling his belt and Amy screaming, Charlie tries to calm her questioning if she thinks of him while having sex with David; the scene intersperses to David lowering his gun until lifting it, shooting the deer and it falls to the ground; the scene intersperses to Charlie raping Amy, Amy eventually stops physically fighting but she remains frozen/still, refusing to kiss, talk or look at Charlie, Charlie finishes, laying on top of Amy and the record player begins playing startling Amy and Charlie. Norman walks into view, Charlie gets of Amy and does not intervene with Norman grabbing and dragging Amy towards him; the scene intersperses to David walking towards the deer and crouching by it in awe; the scene intersperses to Amy bent over the couch being raped by Norman while Charlie watches in a haze. Norman runs his hands over Amy's body; the scene intersperses to David running his hands over the deer.

"As I see it, both Amy and her husband were in situations they did not want to be I but a part of them gave in. Her husband clearly had more control over his own situation than she did, but it was more about how they both felt conflicted by the situation and guilty following it. Her guilt demonstrated by her looking at photos from her past and his by his interaction with the now dead deer." Literally no. Predator and prey mirrored, read what I wrote over and over again or re-watch the movie and understand Amy is the prey/victim of Charlie and Norman mirroring the deer being the prey/victim of David. There are shots of Norman running his hands over Amy's body while she is his victim which intersperses to shots of David running his hands over the deer's body, it being his victim. This is not Amy having no control over a situation she did not want to be in and enjoying it, or David having more control over the situation he did not want to be in. The shots mirror each other as predator and prey and catching/destroying the prey.


The scene was not left open for the audiences own personal interpretation, it is to be interpreted correctly, this isn't a book that allows you to "choose your own ending, plot". There was no missing key elements as I spoke of why it was rape and why she did not enjoy it, I didn't analyse the camera effects because it wasn't needed. Do you want me to analyse the scene more, as I did with the interspersing shots and Amy's sadness viewing pictures of her childhood? There is no "guilt demonstrated by her looking at photos from her past" - it is sadness; there is no "guilt in David's interaction with the now dead deer" he looks at it with awe and runs his hands over it, which occurs while Norman is "interacting" with Amy, running his hands over Amy's body while he rapes her. Amy is not feeling guilty when Norman is running his hands over her body and raping her while in the mirroring scene David is not feeling guilty as he runs his hands over the dead deer in awe. If you think I have misinterpreted the scene you need to re-enroll yourself into high school English and learn how to analyse texts.

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Out of all the issues within your post, your inability to accept that... YOUR INTERPRETATION OF THIS SCENE MAY BE WRONG is the most frustrating. Your unnecessary insults are certainly a close second.

Your reading of that scene is utter nonsense. As stated prior, you clearly missed (or ignored) key elements. But, your take must be right because...it's yours(sarcasm).

There are few who know less than those who believe they know it all.


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You criticize me and vaguely mention "key elements" that you "stated prior" (you do not state any) that you claim I ignore or miss, instead of offering a rebuttal to my interpretations? If you offer a rebuttal to my interpretations that you say are wrong maybe I'll humor you and question what "key elements" that you "stated prior" I missed or ignored in Amy's rape?
And I insulted you once, there were not numerous insults, unlike your short reply.

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"Out of all the issues within your post, your inability to accept that... YOUR INTERPRETATION OF THIS SCENE MAY BE WRONG is the most frustrating. Your unnecessary insults are certainly a close second.

Your reading of that scene is utter nonsense. As stated prior, you clearly missed (or ignored) key elements. But, your take must be right because...it's yours(sarcasm).

There are few who know less than those who believe they know it all. "

Where did I say "numerous"? I did use the plural form. I suppose the condescending tone of your entire post may have led me to feel there were more than just the one direct insult, but I still didn't say "numerous insults".

As for a rebuttal, what point would there be in offering one? If this were a conversation with someone open to the possibility that they were wrong, it might make sense. You are not. You word your responses as if you wrote the screenplay, directed the movie and played the role. You somehow feel it is impossible for a movie to be made with aspects left open to interpretation. You also seem to feel your "superior intellect" has allowed you to perfectly decipher every feeling, emotion and thought of each of the characters. Any opposing view must be wrong because it's a movie and, therefor, all elements within it are completely black and white. We should all just see it as you do or piss off.

As far as the key elements, you certainly touched on most of them. However, your interpretation of a very complex, emotional scene is rather simple. Personally, I'm going to follow your lead here and say..you're wrong. That said, I won't waste anymore of my time trying to reason with you. You've made it abundantly clear you aren't interested in what anyone else has to say.

Lastly, if your ability to properly analyze text is so superior, how is it that you interpreted my numerous posts as stating this wasn't rape? I clearly stated it was, numerous times and in multiple responses.

Doesn't matter, really. I'll consider the source and laugh it off. Thanks


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Where did I say "numerous"? - here: "Your unnecessary insults." I have no idea why you think I am under the impression that you used the word "numerous" as I was not quoting you and I did not use quotation marks. I'm not insulting you but reading quotations where there is none demonstrates improved English is needed.
Again you offer no rebuttal and only more insults (I am not quoting you on the word 'more' as I have offered no quotation marks). You only insult me, even when I ask for a rebuttal you defend your lack of a rebuttal with insulting me; asking for a rebuttal demonstrates my willingness to hear you present your evidence to contradict and invalidate my evidence.

"As far as the key elements, you certainly touched on most of them. However, your interpretation of a very complex, emotional scene is rather simple. Personally, I'm going to follow your lead here and say..you're wrong." Again you offer no key elements and vaguely say I "certainly touched on most of them", failing to discuss how I "touched on most of them." You contradict yourself, saying I "touched on most of them" when you previously said I "missed or ignored key elements."

I find it interesting that while you refuse and insult me instead of offering a requested rebuttal, you gave an unsolicited rebuttal for my interpretation of your posts; to reply you a rebuttal: I never said you stated it wasn't rape, I argued against Amy partly enjoying Charlie raping her and feeling guilty about it. In my first post I stated that it was 100% rape similar to your first post where you stated she was raped - there was never an argument on whether or not she was raped.

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"You criticize me and vaguely mention "key elements" that you "stated prior" (you do not state any) that you claim I ignore or miss, instead of offering a rebuttal to my interpretations? If you offer a rebuttal to my interpretations that you say are wrong maybe I'll humor you and question what "key elements" that you "stated prior" I missed or ignored in Amy's rape?
And I insulted you once, there were not numerous insults, unlike your short reply."

While you're right, you did not use quotation marks, it certainly implies that I accused you of "numerous insults". I don't see how anyone reading your comment (quoted above) would not have drawn that conclusion, with or without quotation marks. This is a thread on IMDB. I find it sad when people choose to insult one's spelling/grammar, (especially when done without merit), in order to deflect from the substance and content of what was actually written. You've done so twice. You may say once more that I've offerred no rebuttal. excuse the hypocrisy, please. I'll state why I "refuse" to offer a rebuttal in even more detail:

This is a discussion, not a debate. I do not wish to have a (one sided) debate with you or anyone.

Even if I did feel the desire to debate, you are not one I would choose to debate with. Not because I find the thought of it intimidating but, because I find it useless. You have posted in such a manner as if what we are discussing is fact and claim there is no room for Interpretation. It's a film. It's an acted out copy of a screenplay/script with influence given by the author, the director, the producer and the individual actors. Saying there's no room for interpretation on a piece which deals with such an emotionaly complex situation is, imo, as ignorant a statement as one can make. Therefor, arguing with you is not worth my time.

Your responses simply contradict everything I've stated based on how I interpreted the movie. Further rebuttal would simply be as juvenile as us sayig "Nuh-uh" and responding "Uh-huh", until one of us gets too damn tired to bother any further. There is no productive outcome. I will learn nothing from what you're offering and you refuse to even consider that you might be wrong.

My take on the scene is peppered throughout this thread. I don't agree with yours, which is obvious by my many posts stating the opposite of what you have, other than us agreeing that it was rape in both instances.

What point is there in debating this further? It's a complete waste of time. Though, I did find humor in how amazingly full of yourself you are, I'm now bored of it.

Here's my interpretation of your post:
' I saw the movie and (in my extremely closed-minded opinion) this is what happened and what was being felt and you can't argue with me because it's a movie and everyone knows only books and art are open to interpretation so my opinion is fact and you are wrong"

Not even trying to be insulting. That's exactly how your post comes off to me. So, continue with any further rebuttal? Thanks but, no thanks.

By the way, the run-on sentence was purposeful, in case you were ready to pounce on that, too.

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"it certainly implies that I accused you of "numerous insults"." It doesn't imply, It does say. You wrote "Your unnecessary insults are certainly a close second" which I responded "I insulted you once, there were not numerous insults."

Next you reply "Where did I say "numerous"?" and I answer "here: "Your unnecessary insults."". Your lack of understanding with sentence structure displays how much you don't care about grammar, you don't even understand what a sentence communicates. If you knew basic grammar you would understand that your wording "your unnecessary insults" literally refers to more than one insult. There is merit in informing a person that they misunderstand what their or other peoples texts communicates - what is the point of writing to one another if no one can understand what the other is communicating. I never insulted your spelling/grammar to deflect "from the substance and content of what was actually written", but I have criticized your lack of understanding what you are communicating with your wording (insults = more than once insult, which you cannot grasp) after you accused me of "insults" and then claimed you didn't; I am 100% going to call someone out on accusing me of things I didn't do.

Your understanding of words is devastatingly appalling. A discussion is a play-it-nice debate in which people advocate their opinions and challenge the opinions of others. The dictionary meaning of discussion: a conversation or debate about a specific topic. I think you are looking for the word 'dialogue', no challenging the opinions of others what so ever. Dialogue is used to build a collective point of view, listening to others for further understanding of the topic.

As I said before there is no room for interpretation in the following scene: where the director uses intersperses to communicate the predator and prey scenario, he doesn't offer you to interpret it differently:

"Shooting the deer and Charlie raping Amy signified a predator/assaulter and the prey/victim - the shots mirror each other as predator and prey and catching/destroying the prey.: when Charlie first advances and forces to kiss Amy while she tries pushing him away the scene intersperses to David finding the deer; the scene intersperses to Charlie who pins Amy on the couch, disrobing her while she is pleading with him to stop; the scene intersperses to David raising his gun and considers whether to kill it; the scene intersperses to Charlie unbuckling his belt and Amy screaming, Charlie tries to calm her questioning if she thinks of him while having sex with David; the scene intersperses to David lowering his gun until lifting it, shooting the deer and it falls to the ground; the scene intersperses to Charlie raping Amy, Amy eventually stops physically fighting but she remains frozen/still, refusing to kiss, talk or look at Charlie, Charlie finishes, laying on top of Amy and the record player begins playing startling Amy and Charlie. Norman walks into view, Charlie gets of Amy and does not intervene with Norman grabbing and dragging Amy towards him; the scene intersperses to David walking towards the deer and crouching by it in awe; the scene intersperses to Amy bent over the couch being raped by Norman while Charlie watches in a haze. Norman runs his hands over Amy's body; the scene intersperses to David running his hands over the deer."

Understanding what a scene communicates is the opposite of ignorant.

"Your responses simply contradict everything I've stated based on how I interpreted the movie." And then you do not discuss my contradictions, in basic English you do not say you will speak of something and then not. Introducing a point/evidence requires an example as evidence, not giving an example means you have not spoken of it - you've only given the introduction. You're offering introductions to arguments (dictionary: a reason or set of reasons given in support of an idea, action or theory.) and then offer nothing further to support your idea. Your understanding of written English could not be worse.

I'm glad you find humor in my arrogance in challenging your ideas with my own (the definition of a discussion) so I will add the following arrogantly: the use of the words "in my opinion" is improper and pointless in a discussion. I couldn't imagine a reason for it past self-consciousness or modesty. Everything I write is "in my opinion", everything you write is "in your opinion" - not mentioning those words do not make you arrogant and those words do not protect you from a person challanging your views.

Don't bother replying if you can't answer my request for a rebuttal - your opinion/ideas and your reasons that support them. There is no discussion if a person fails to challenge your views (which requires reasoning to support them, not claims with no support) and instead insults you and attacks you for having an opinion "full of yourself" instead of attacking your opinions.

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Amy continuously says "no" to charlie and tries to physically fight back. Charlie rapes her through physical force and intimidation and Amy is distressed during the rape. Charlie actually punishes Amy for not enjoying it by allowing his friend to rape her. "It's not rape if you enjoy it" is a dangerous, frightening mentality which rape laws strongly disagree with; I bet you thought Amy was "asking for it" as well. Newspapers all over the world when reviewing the movie call Charlie's actions rape - you think The New York times is wrong and you're right?
Straw Dogs is one of the worst films I have seen when it comes to titillating sexual violence (Charlie's rape). Making the rape scene erotic, sexualizing Charlie by having Skarsgard play Charlie similar to a romantic lead (he's chivalrous, stood up to a bully and respectfully calls people 'sir'), close ups of Charlie's naked torso throughout the movie similar to naked torso shots featured in romance movies.

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WOW two different movies with different rape scenes, that's why you think she wasn't raped, you're treating them as the same film! You're actually reasoning why it wasn't rape with a different film from 1971!
This is not the same movie: the original films Amy is like a teenager - incredibly childish and immature, she's demanding, needy, flirtatious, very sexual. Amy in this film is strong, intelligent and self-aware; she is too strong for David to handle unlike the original film were she is weak and David see's her as stupid and subservient.
It is common knowledge that in the original film Amy adapts to Charlie raping her and it becomes something more complex - the ending doesn't resemble rape at all.

The same can be said for this remake

You can't make a claim lacking reasoning/evidence for the claim. You've given your reasoning for the 1971 film but this is a different film and you've supplied none.

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Hey! jayscott27
I just finished watching this movie. And I totally agree with you and your interpretation of the scenes. Everyone else trying to wrong you is either plain dumb or acting smart. You Sir, described exactly what the scene implied. 👊👨


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I do not agreed. In this Remake, yes she physical enjoy and gave herself up to him because she had no other options. I can clearly see regret after that.

If you were writing about original version of Straw dogs i would support you.
In original SD is attempted rape with making love, kissing, whispering nice things to Charlie and hugs. End of sex is with cuddling and kisses. And than comes second guy and rape her. In the end of movie Amy is totally on Charlie`s side, and we see that she really loves and want Charlie. And that`s why David go away from freaking slut Amy.

So this remake is kinda ok. But in original, Amy is a fu*king slut!

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There's seriously something wrong with you if you think that a woman has every right to dress like a slut and it's her man's job to fend off guys drooling and eye-screwing her.

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Of course a hot sexy babe has a right to dress like a slut, just as long as she is prepared to get herself raped by any normal, hot-blooded guy that walks near her.

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The flashing scene represents the double standard women have to live with in this society because of men, I don't know how you people are not getting it.

We see Charlie wearing "revealing clothes"(cut off on both sides) and taking off his shirt as it is the most natural thing but when the woman character does the same she is "whorish" and "asking for it". You should think about why is it that men can take off their clothes in public and nobody makes a big deal out of it and why women always have to cover up from head to toe and feel nervous around men even if they are "fully dressed" by your standards. It's not because of how women dress, it's because there are still a lot of men who can't control their urges, so maybe they should work on that.

Is it the women's fault? No.
Are they the ones creating the problem? No.
Are they the ones who could do something against it? No.

In beginning of the movie the men leave early and tell that it's because it's so hot they can't keep working, so I think wearing a top with a short is totally reasonable. As for bra: another layer, also there are men with bigger breast than her and they don't wear one either.

Men (and women) who lack intelligence to realize this and don't follow through with their actions are the problem. You know women are raped in the winter too under three layers, so it's not a question about how much skin is too much, is about socializing people correctly. Even if someone walks by you naked on the street is not a mating call and people should reach the level of understanding this.

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