This movie is crap
This movie does not deserve the rating it got on Rottentomatoes or on IMDB. The dialogue was dry and the plot was linear to the point of boredom. The guy who played Shaun was not convincingly gay either. All the other 'gay' movies that I've seen, of which include Brokeback Mountain, Get Real, and Beautiful Thing, were better than this film.
However, I can see why this movie would be lapped up by the mainstream crowd. It was formulaic and generic enough for the average gay Joe to enjoy which is surely why it is popular. The soundtrack also had me thinking that I was watching a bargain bin rom-com, I hear the same thing in every beachside California film.
To think that this film is groundbreaking in any way is insulting to films like Brokeback Mountain which actually contribute something new to the genre instead of the standard 'coming out' fluff.