This is in no way a chick flick. Maybe you're thinking of My Best Friends Wedding?
This is a masterpiece. The way their relationship deteriorates - the selfishness and spite on show throughout - doesn't make for a comfortable ride. As it draws to its ultimate and unavoidable conclusion you can't fail to be moved because the characters are completely three-dimensional, and the screenplay is not manipulative (your sympathies cannot lie completely with one character over the other). The book comes from the days of the all too common "Love in the Time of Cholera" trash, and tries to get as far away from that nonsense as possible. You could call it "Hate in the Time of Cholera", I suppose . So it wasn't even a chick-book.
I too wonder who is giving this film less than an 8. It's not pleasant, that's for sure, but is Taxi Driver pleasant? The Godfather? City of God? I suppose it hasn't got much action in it and it's more about the human condition - maybe some people find it gets them down. Perhaps people still can't get used to painfully tragic films (Di Caprio's heroic sacrifice in Titanic was the kind of tragic end that's acceptable in Hollywood, and wins the ladies over - I mean at least he didn't s**t himself to death). Naomi Watts character matures dramatically, but at enormous cost. You're moved, but you're angry with them both at the same time. This will make people feel uncomfortable. You really feel the loss and the sense of regret and maybe people just don't like this aspect of the movie. The direction, acting and cinematography are surely beyond reproach - but there are some people who just can't take this kind of ending. Then there are others who probably find it hard to empathize with the characters, perhaps it even leaves them cold. That probably loses it three or four stars for a lot of people.
There are many movies that I love that, even before I look them up on IMDB, I just know they won't get 8+, because they are either too painful, too messy, too controversial or too cerebral. It's too much to expect for people to really get these types of movies.
I'm just grateful that this screenplay is honest and unflinching. Too bad if it doesn't make the IMDB top 250 or win Oscars - neither are that important in the grand scheme of things.
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