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deeply effected by finale....


im a 20 year old female whos been a fan of the show since day 1. i feel like im over-reacting but im extremely saddened by the finale. I finished watching the series about an hour ago, had been watching it from the beginning several weeks ago. i watched the first 5 seasons when it was on tv, missing several episodes here and there so i thought i'd start again.

ive been crying for the past hour. i know its just a tv show, but it makes me so depressed to think that all the hundreds of people dead and alive allison has helped wouldnt insure her enough good karma to grow old with her husband. the dubois family was the most convincing tv family ive ever seen portrayed and im sure all the avid viewers grew to love them and feel like part of the family like i did. I just feel like its cruel and unusual to end such a great show like this. im legitimately saddened, i dont know if ill ever get over it

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I've never been a person who watches TV shows but I happened to stumble on to this show one day while browsing through Netflix. I had never heard of the show yet I was hooked almost immediately. I had the same feeling as many people here, the family was just real. I found myself being jealous of the characters wishing my family life could be like theirs. The premise of the series was actually secondary to watching the family grow together. Joe and Allison were a wonderful couple and their kids grew up before our eyes. I found myself feeling like part of the family. The fortunate part about watching it on Netflix was I didn't have to wait till next week to watch the next episode, the problem with that is I found it difficult to turn the TV off.
I had mixed feelings about the final show. First of all it was all ending too soon, I wanted more. I feel the same as some other posts where I wish someone had picked up the series so it could continue. As far as the ending, having Joe die was just unnecessary. I liked the guy, how could they just kill him off. How could they leave us with 41 years of unknowns, what happened to the family during those years. Having Allison sitting alone in a nursing home when she died left me sad, how could they leave her like that after showing us 7 years of wonderful family life. It's not often that I get hooked on something as much as I did this show. I will miss it.
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I hear you. Felt the same way.

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I have wanted to rewatch the whole series for the last two years but knowing what happened in the finale has been stopping me. Every time I see something about the show for just a second I think "That would be a good show to binge through" then I remember Joe.

With a few special exceptions I just don't like it when a show kills loved characters in their finale. It's emotional blackmail.



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Just finished watching it on Netflix (been watching the whole series for the past month or so). My eyes are wet. I was trying not to cry, but it just happened. I do feel that the episode was a bit rushed at the end, could've been a two parter, but we all should be happy that it did get the chance to have a proper send off. There are shows that have been on that didn't get the chance. I do like how they showed the cast at the end, thought that was a neat little send off. Overall this was a very good series, and I have a few favorite episodes.

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Least a better "ending" than some that just dont and at least there were more than just 1 season as some great shows just vanish, because "they" are shoving reality crap, that and really do wish people would wake up and realize that the so called ratings are null and void, and that is from 2 people who have worked within, could add more to why ratings are the "inside joke" but would get to "wordy".

Will re watch, as I own the show and refuse to watch reality crap and dont see the point in spending a lot more for more tv channels unless could really choose what ones and not be forced to have one more that do not want, that and wish the reality crap would have its own channel or 3 like sports or movies or even old time tv show channel have...hmmm guess if they did that then the truth would be revealed...

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What I remember about the way the show was cancelled. I believe the producer knew in advance that the series was ending year 7 (or 6 and half years). They learned that the series was ending when CBS only ordered 13 episodes instead of the usual 22. That was clue 1. Sofia the actress who played Ariel, was living in NY and going to Columbia University, she wasn't coming back. There were some rumors on the internet that Jake Weber didn't want to return. His 7 year contact was up and he had grown tired of the part, actors want to move on and find new challenges and expand their craft. Everyone's contract was up. I know Patricia was making the most of the cast something close to $250,000 per episode. That ratings were down I believe because The Ghost Whisperer ratings were way down because they killed off a beloved character of Jim, Melinda's husband, played by David Conrad (who coincidentally is best friends with Jake Weber in real life). Since the Ghost Whisperer was the lead series on Friday nights. CBS cancelled the Ghost Whisperer (they also knew that the series was ending). They had hope that by putting Medium as the lead series for the next year would bring in higher ratings and that just didn't pan out well for the series. I thought it was a big mistake to put two supernatural series back-to-back. Two unique series about women who had special gifts, too much on a Friday night.

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I just thought it was ironic that a family who has 4 sensitives/psychics couldn't have foresaw that his planes would crash. What good is a "gift" if you can help the ones you love the most?

It was sad, very sad to find out that Joe really did die. I don't like being teased like that, give the audience hope to just pull the rug out from under us. I thought since Joe never entered any of his children or wife's dreams, which I think the teenage Marie was alluding to and why she was so mad at her father, I thought he was still alive. I think what Joe did was really mean, give his wife hope that he survived the plane crash to then discover that there were no survivors.

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I just finished watching the series on Netflix. I was unaware of this show when it was actually on tv and was not sure I was going to like it at all. However, all the characters were so real. I loved the family. I loved the humor and I loved the unique set ups (such as the white room with the two neurons in red and the Bad cells in black when Joe's mother was dying. It truly was a unique show. Very touching many times. I cried with many of the episodes.

I watched the final episode last night. I am haunted with sadness today by the end of the show. Yes, I was happy that Joe and Allison will be together forever and I was happy to see that Marie went on to have a husband and children and Bridgette went on to be an author but that Joe died and they had to go on without him for 41 years that is just too sad to bear.

The one question I had about the finale is Why/How when Allison died, did she get to be young instead of her current age and appearance? And how did she get to wear different clothing?

For the series there were a few errors I noticed such as in one season Ariel drives her father somewhere and then at the beginning of the next season there is an episode that is based on the premise that Joe wants to teach her to drive.

Over all however, I loved it and will suggest it to family/friends. But for now I am sad.

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Yep... The ending was sad.

I can't say the end made me feel better in any way what-so-ever.

The way the show was told was that she could always see something coming but I felt for all the people she helped there was nothing she could do for her own husband. I really can't help but sort of hate the finale but it did bring people some actual feelings associated with it. If it was a happy ending people probably wouldn't have even talked about it as much.

She lived her whole life alone... well, that sucks. Just can't be happy with that, sorry.

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I just finished watching the whole series straight through, and all I can say is that last episode jumped the shark big time.

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