Three thoughts
1. Why didn’t Ennis advance in his career? The movie clearly depicts a substantial economic boom in this part of the US, Ennis doesn’t seem overly unintelligent, he is handsome and tall enough. He is shown to be prioritising work throughout the movie. I understand that his sexual orientation and lost love are weighing on him but I imagine it would be hard work to not move on from being the simplest poor farmhand over 15-20 years while having few other responsibilities (especially after the divorce).
Just an added comment: the rural US is always depicted so poor, lonely and sad in movies and TV, I don’t have the slightest clue why anyone would stay there.
2: The fact that Ennis didn’t do anything to be closer to Jack seems almost like a cop out. I didn’t notice this until after I’d watched the movie and couldn’t sleep. The inability to close the distance feels similar to the way nearly every long running TV show with a romantic duo in it finds bullshit ways to keep them apart for another season.
When you have found your true love and it is all you seem to live for (except maybe your children), wouldn’t you find a way to see each other more often?
After the divorce when Ennis sees his kids once a month, why wouldn’t he move closer to Jack (or in the middle) and drive back to pick up his daughters?
Or even when he was with Alma, he could have convinced her to move to Texas?
I find it hard to believe there was no arrangement to be made where they could see each other more than a couple of times a year.
3: I knew about this movie for years but was putting off watching it because I didn’t like the idea of seeing too much male on male romantic contact. I needn’t have worried. Incredible film that I think even homophobes would have to agree depicts beauty more than rough gay sex. I think it is only the one scene and I didn’t even have to look away.
Let me know what your view is, especially on 1 and 2.