Well I am roughly 5'10" so my weight HAS to be in double figures for me to be healthy...a couple of years ago I was ill and didn't eat much (this was not an eating disorder) and lost a lot of weight. One of my friends commented that wile I was still recovering, at one point I looked too thin - I was not that much more than 10 stone. I did end up putting on some weight once I was completely better, but not all the weight I lost to begin with.
Since then, my weight has fluctuated due to how busy/stressed I am, and at a few points while my weight went down, a few people expressed concern and asked me if I was eating properly...
It is true that other people can have more objective opinions about us (how fat/thin we look, but with other things as well). At the end of the day, as long as we aren't an unhealthy weight (too fat or too thin)and as some people have already posted, our BMI is in the right range, we have no cause to fret.
I have never been anorexic or bulimic, although have at times been insecure about my weight. But if someone rejects or dumps you on account of you not having the figure of a model,(or in a guy's case, losing your six-pack), they're shallow and not right for you!
Also, apparently Colin Firth was asked on which Renee figure he preferred, and he said she looked better with curves!
Even people who are seriously overweight need support and encouragement, not put-downs and being snubbed.
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