Now there's a thought-provoking question! I aggressively avoided You've Got Mail for years, but then I finally relented and watched it, and was totally won over. After much thought, here's why I would recommend it:
1. It's an unabashed, unapologetic romantic comedy, and a prototype for Hallmark Channel.
2. Its paradoxical world-view. It's BOTH very nostalgic for a long-vanished past, yet also very forward-facing: "the future is now".
3. All of the actors give excellent, believable performances of nuanced, quirky characters.
4. No anger, violence, hysteria, screaming.
5. It's a time capsule that perfectly captures what the late 1990s were like in a big American city (in this case, NYC).
6. It's not role-model movie: there's no affirmation, validation, or empowerment lessons. It simply tells the story it has to tell, and moves on.
7. The premise sets up a wide-open horizon of potential futures. There was never any sequel, but it's fascinating to think about how the characters would have gone forward with their lives after the end of the movie and where they would be today if they were real people.
You've Got Mail is not without its faults, and I realize not everybody will appreciate what I see in it, but the above is the best answer I can give on this particular day.
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