Thanks for asking this, because I wanted to get some other's opinions as well as I haven't seen this one yet.
And thanks to all the posters for your opinions! Very helpful and appreciated.
When it comes to this topic, I lean to the side of "depends on the child". My son is a very precocious six year old, and I've always talked to him as if he is older than he is since day one. My parents were very heavy with the shielding and over-protection with me, up until two months before my 18th birthday, then bam! All of a sudden no rules at all. Screwed me up big time. I feel like helicopter parenting and over-protectiveness can be more damaging than tv blood and death. This is where we as parents have to make decisions regarding our child, and our child only, as only we know them and what suits them, what they can handle, what they can't, etc.
When it comes to mild nudity (not sexual), animated blood, even harsh language in small amounts, I see no need to shield him. After all, it is just the human body, the liquid inside of us which carries life, and letters strung together. It's society who makes a big deal out of all of this. I teach him that film & tv isn't real, it's all makeup and CG. That just because he hears a bad word doesn't mean he can repeat them - yet. Once he's an adult he can all he wants (which still gets to me - that society has deemed words "bad". Words! I can understand the harm when calling people names or verbally assaulting someone, but outside of that, curse words are a problem because at some point society deemed them less than stellar and that just picked up momentum to where people get in trouble for saying "sh*t" when they stub their toe. Yeah, it's not classy, but only because society says so and has given so much power to those words. I hope someday we can evolve past this. I'm usually the cleanest mouth in the room, BTW). Of course, there are lines, too much violence, sexual scenes, and excessive cursing lies on the other side.
I do have to strongly disagree with the idea of keeping it from them just because the message will go over their heads. Of course it will! But that doesn't mean they can't enjoy it. Especially to whoever was telling the parent who let their 2 year old see it "I hate to burst your bubble but they won't get it". I'm pretty sure that parent understands that. At that age they hardly get anything except for Baby Einstein. I'm guessing those who said that don't have kids. You don't sit them in front of a tv to teach them deep life lessons. It's pure enjoyment, and if there's a film that both parent and child can get something out of it, no matter how polar opposite that something is, awesome! IMO, there's not enough films that fit that qualification.
My boy loves Tales From Earthsea and Spirited Away. I haven't made up my mind about this, but I'll probably let it happen. I do feel he's ready, and when we are watching other films I ask him lots of questions to get the best idea of what he can handle. Really, only the parent can make that decision based on their child's personality. And if worse comes to worse, oh well! It's a movie, it won't scar them for life. Life is tough, we can't shield them from loss, suffering, and heartache. It's an inevitable part of life. Trying to pretend it isn't will cause more harm than good.
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