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It's one of THOSE films....


I've seen films like this several times, where they keep pushing it as a family/kid-friendly movie, when it actually isn't by any stretch of the imagination. Just because the story involves a family, is funny, and has Robin Williams in it, does not mean it's really geared towards the demographic they were advertising.

Case in point: within the first 10 minutes of "Mrs. Doubtfire," there is a TON of cussing; not something you want your kids hearing first thing in a family movie. Even worse, some of the kids in the movie start cussing, and children watching think it's okay for them to do it because the child on the screen is doing that.

This film also covers a number of uncomfortable subjects for kids, particularly if the young viewers themselves experienced what the kids did, or if there are dads out there that had something similar happen to them that Robin Williams' character had to deal with.

-A messy divorce where the dad gets almost nothing and the mom gets everything, including the kids --> dad just gets to have them visit for a few hours in his crappy apt.

(To be fair, the dad was very immature, like an extra child for the mother to have to take care of, had an unstable job situation as a voice actor, and apparently liked to spend his wife's money).

Cross-dressing --- now before you scream at me and call me transphobic, I'd like to point out that a.) I did understand that the dad was not a transvestite or a transsexual, and he never showed any traits that showed he was anything but a "cis" straight white dude. b.) He just wanted to spend more time with his kids, and had to pretend to be a demographic his wife would never suspect and would happily let him into the house. But the thing was, they had a lot of awkward situations that the dad had to deal with out of sight of his family, and jokes that aren't really suited for kids, and would force parents watching with the kids to have to make some serious explaining.

Unlike-able ex-wife - while I can understand where the mom was coming from, dumping her immature, irresponsible husband, thinking it was the best for both of them and their kids, she still is not the most sympathetic character in the movie, and keeps acting as if she's always in the right and her husband is in the wrong. If anything, this movie almost paints her as a villain in this situation, despite the fact that she was in a situation a lot of divorced mothers ended up in. In some ways, I'm glad they didn't get back together. The only nice thing she did was allow the dad to be himself and take care of the kids when she couldn't.

There are other problems I had with this movie, and it irritated the living daylights out of me when I knew kids in school who kept wanting to watch it during homeroom over and over again, when it wasn't that great of a movie.

Oddly enough, there was another movie with this trait that Robin Williams starred in called "Jack," that was a film that SEEMED like it was geared towards families, but really wasn't.

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People like you are the absolute worst. Who find a reason to be offended and cry about absolutely anything. This movie gives a realistic view at divorce and life. Good. Lots of movies don't. It's also rated pg13, so its definitely not geared towards young kids. If a young kid watches it, that's on the parent. But to act like this movie is sooooo dirty and dark is hilarious. Grow up. Turn off your fairytale lifetime movies. If you don't like this movie, that's fine. But to cry because they use a couple of swear words is pathetic.

Don't be such a snowflake.

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Blocked, troll.

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That person's a troll because they disagreed with you?! Wow, he/she is absolutely right. Grow up!

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No, the person’s a troll because s/he’s made a total of ONE post in 3 months, then vanished.

EDIT: In addition, a poster who chooses the username StinkyPoopyPants tells another poster to “grow up”? Really? Rolling on the floor, laughing at you hysterically.

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And that makes them a troll? I thought a troll was someone who continuously posts and disturbs conversations just to be annoying. One post hardly seems like a troll.

And yes please laugh at my name all you want! That is what happens when you let your 8 year old son pick your username. And truly, it does not bother me.

Cheers! :)

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haha yeah that troll was right people like u suck...

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At least she got to use the phrase ‘case in point’ lol.

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Unlike-able ex-wife - while I can understand where the mom was coming from, dumping her immature, irresponsible husband, thinking it was the best for both of them and their kids...


It's been years since I've seen this, but did they ever go for counseling? Daniel seemed the type to do anything to stay with his kids...

There were two divorces on my wife's side that included a husband abandoning my sister in law with two girls at home 2 and 7 so he could marry a pig. (the good news is that the pig embezzled money from work and they BOTH did time)

The second is my brother in law's pig wife served him divorce papers on Christmas Eve leaving a 12 year old son and a 4 year old daughter because she thought she could do better (she had a boyfriend on the side that she later married).

While there are legitimate reasons to divorce a person even with kids involved, robbing a child of his childhood comfort of having a two parent family for narcissistic reasons is pure evil.

In any case, I'm sure there are millions of women who would have been happy to have been married to Daniel, even if he was a bit scatterbrained and irresponsible. It seems that given enough time and motivation, he could have become a better husband.

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