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Homeless man asking for money


This was one of my absolute most favorite scenes in the movie. It was so funny how the homeless guy was making up stuff just to get Bill Foster to give him a handout and how Foster was asking him to show him his driver's license!

Has anything like this actually happened to any of you? If so, how did you handle it? Many years ago, I was approached by a homeless/semi-drunk guy on the street who told me how he and his 10 year old son just arrived from out of town and how he's trying to round up enough money for bus fare to get back home. I wasn't quite in the mood for any of his BS so I said to him, "May I see your driver's license?"

"Huh?"

"Your driver's license. You said you and your son are from Phildelphia, so let me see if you're telling me the truth. Your Philadelphia home address will be on your state driver's license. By the way, where's your son?"

" . . . well, uh . . . ummm . . . ."

"What? What? Where's your license? I'm still waiting to see it."

"Well, uh . . . ."

"You made that up. You don't have a son. You're not even from Philly. You just made up all this to get a free handout. A guy five blocks back just told me the same story as you did, almost word for word. Do you think I'm that stupid? Furthermore, what makes you think I have any money to give you? How do you know I even have any money on me? Why didn't you approach someone else? Just because I'm wearing some nice clothes means I have money to give to you? How do you know I didn't just kill some Upper East Side debutante and her rich socialite mother and tore their fancy Prada suits off their still-warm bodies, huh? How do you know I didn't just kill someone for her clothes, huh? SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!"

He sure got the hell away from me quite fast.

And that was another urban reality tale from the mean streets of NYC (or however mean Fifth Avenue can get).



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I was in San Diego and there was a homeless man sitting next a 7-11 I stopped at, he looked dirty and tired. I sat in my car for awhile so I could eat something before a long drive back home.

I watched the homeless guy and he never once asked anybody for money, he just sat there and looked very sad. He noticed me looking at him and got up and went behind a dumpster where I couldn't see him.

I got out of my car and went over to him and asked "Have you had anything to eat?" He said "Yes, I'm just waiting for the bus so I can go home" I knew that wasn't true and I said "I want to give you something" and I gave him $20 and said "God Bless", as I was walking away he yelled "Thank you, God Bless You!" Something about him, I knew he really needed it.

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Sesame Street should watch this film and take notes. Nobody is hungry in this country! If there is than a big welfare check at the first of the month. If these bums are starving then how come they have food on them or already eating food. Tell them to find a job and they go furious. I was 14 when I got my first job and I wanted a job, but now 22 and haven't had a pay raise or a Christmas bonus in 5 years.


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I don't give bums anything. I just keep walking and tell them to get a job. Half the time these people are faking it and actually already have a job. They pan-handle to get extra money for alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, gambling and other things that aren't good for them. By begging for money, they don't use their money, so the wife or girlfriend they live with don't catch on. Still a lot of times these people aren't homeless at all. If you want to help them, donate money to homeless shelters and tell them to go to it. At least they will get shelter and a hot meal for the day if they truly are homeless.

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"I was approached by a homeless/semi-drunk guy on the street who told me how he and his 10 year old son just arrived from out of town and how he's trying to round up enough money for bus fare to get back home"

Haha, that scam of "I need a few bucks to get a bus back home to my son/daughter" (or some variation) has been done for YEARS. Personally I never give to such lying snakes (they always seem like career or professional beggers), but I do give to people who are just honest and down on their luck. A simple "I am going through a hard time can you help me out in any way" will work on me.

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That experience has actually happened to me twice this year. When I used to live in Arizona I worked at a Fry's Fuel Center (gas station) when a man
who appeared to be in his early to mid-thirties approached me. He asked if
I knew of any local church or shelter in the area where he and his six year
old daughter could sleep for the night. First off all I noticed that he
had just left the Taco Bell right across the parking lot from my place of
employment. He was eating a taco and carrying a TB bag of other food and
a large soda cup. So then I figured since he could afford to buy fast
food then he already had some cash in his pocket. And he was alone so
where was his child? I did not ask where was his daughter and his behavior
seemed really shady. I told him that I knew of no local church or shelter
where they could bed down for the night. He did not ask me for money
though as I continued with my daily duties he was approaching some of
my customers asking for money. And he also offered to fill up the bucket
I used for water to refill the window washer bins. I said "no it is my
job to do this and I get paid to do it." Then while inside the fuel center
kiosk I got a phone call from inside the store. Two women patrons had
complained about this idiot trying to panhandle from them! So then I went
outside and told him he needed to leave. He said okay and left and the
next day while I was at work he was seated outside the local Starbucks and
he even said hello. After that day I never saw him again as he moved on from
the area. The other time that I was approached was on my day off as I had
gone inside the Fry's Market Place to get my paycheck. I did so and got
back inside my ride and as I was exiting the parking lot I noticed a tall
black man in his late thirties to early fourties walking with two young
children who appeared to be his own. He saw me driving and waved me down.
I stopped and asked him what he wanted. He said he was poor and out of
work and asked for money. I answered that I had recently replaced the
transmission for my jeep to the cost of $1000.00 and so I had no extra
cash to give to him. I had told him the truth and even offered to show
him my receipt from the auto service place which was on my dashboard.
He said he did not need to see it and thanked me anyway. He and the
young boy and girl kept on walking. Now I do not know if this man was
truly poor and unemployed. Perhaps he was or he was a typical panhandler
who may have had money and was trying to scam shoppers from the store.
Back to the first person, if this guy was so desperate for a place to
sleep and for money then he could have gone to any local work center
and gotten himself registered for daily labor. Those businessess will
even pay cash to the registered workers at the end of the daily job
assignment. Though in my experience of living in Arizona and Florida
these low lifes and panhandlers are just too damn lazy to do an
honest day's work! And btw in Maricopa County, AZ where I used to
live panhandling is against the law due to a county ordinance. And
it is the same in Pinellas County, FL where I now live. Though with
the ongoing weak economy these people will go on doing what they have
done every day. Just wanted to share my two similar experiences.


Lorenzo In Sunny Florida

I'm James "Sonny" Crockett!

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After being back in Florida I was at my local laundrymat to wash and dry
my clothes. As I drove up to the place I saw a white man in his mid-30s
standing outside. I parked and brought some of my wash inside. Then I
went back to my jeep for the rest and he approached me and told me
how he had just fought with his wife. And would I be kind enough to
buy him a beer. I replied "you see the arizona license plate on the
back of my jeep?" "Well I just moved back here and I am unemployed and
trying to find a job." "Therefore I need every dollar and cent that I
have to my name." I also told him that I would not buy him a beer and
that I also needed to spend for the laundrymat. He said okay and walked
away. In my other trips over there I no longer see him and one of the
attendants told me how he tries to pull the same story and scam on
other patrons as well! What a scam artist and low life! Now how is
he having claimed to have fought with his wife have anything to do
with him not being able to afford to buy his own beer!? Did his spouse
take all of the money from his wallet!? Who really cares and I certainly
do not care! LOL, LMAO!


Lorenzo In Sunny Florida

I'm James "Sonny" Crockett!

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Many years ago, I was approached by a homeless/semi-drunk guy on the street who told me how he and his 10 year old son just arrived from out of town and how he's trying to round up enough money for bus fare to get back home. I wasn't quite in the mood for any of his BS so I said to him, "May I see your driver's license?"
He's asking for bus fare, and you want to see his driver's licence?

"How do you know I didn't just kill some Upper East Side debutante and her rich socialite mother and tore their fancy Prada suits off their still-warm bodies, huh? How do you know I didn't just kill someone for her clothes, huh? SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!"

He sure got the hell away from me quite fast.
After a rant like that, I imagine everyone within earshot was "getting the hell away from you quite fast".

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I saw a homeless guy with a puppy once. He asked for food money, and while he looked like a skeleton, my psychic powers told me he just wanted drugs. So I stomped his puppy to death. After enjoying watching him sob for a few minutes I told him "get a job and then you can afford a new puppy! I know there's a job crisis, but whatever!" That sure showed him. Then I spent the 60 cents I could have given him on a snickers bar to stuff my already fat ass with and went on with my day. High five, everyone!

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Wow Brad what a great story and is it really true? Now in Albuquerque, NM
there are so many native American males who spend every day panhandling
at gasoline stations, 7-Eleven stores and the Walmart Supercenters. This
is because the great majority of those Indians live at or below the
state's poverty level. And the majority of them are too lazy or just
uncaring to look for work and so they feel that they are entitled to
ask strangers for money. I was approached at gas stations during my
time out there and all of the panhandlers were native americans and
I never gave them any cash!


Lorenzo Sunny Arizona


Call me a sailor or a swabby just don't call me a squid!

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Canadian guy here, I live in a small town so my girlfriend and I like to take a bus up to Toronto and stay for the weekend at a Marriot (she gets pretty good deals there because her sister works there but I digress). So we were waiting in line for the Bus to take us back home, and of course a homeless guy comes by. Usually we just ignore them because even where I live 99% of the time the money just goes to inabiling drug use or something to that effect and I'd rather not inable people seeing as how one of my friends dad is an alcoholic and it ruined his life.

Now I never have change on hand, absolutely ever so even when people ask me for money I say no and if it's for food I offer to go and get them food myself. So back to my story, this guy comes around and is asking every single person in line for money for food. I can't remember his story and I might be pulling at straws here but I'm pretty sure he just got laid off of his job a few months ago or something like that and really needed money for food. So he came to us, now we were near the front of the line and it was getting pretty long, so this guy literally asked everyone that could fit on this coach bus. So he asked us if we had money to spare for food. My girlfriend is a really fit girl, she's all into being healthy and eating protein bars and what not and she always makes a point to bring some with her on our trips because I get grouchy when I'm hungry šŸ˜ so she pulled out all the larabars we had (quite a few actually) and a bag of almonds since we were heading home and had no need for them. We thought he would just walk off but we got the most surprising response. He actually took the bars and was extremely gracious for them and walked off and started eating them.

For once in my life I saw someone who actually was honest with what he was asking. It's only a pity that there are some out there that actually make it harder for those in need to actually get some spare change or some food.

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