Saw it coming...
I keep reading posts about the "twist" making people sick. Mostly men, that is.
However, I was not caught off guard by the twist. When I first heard/saw Dil in her initial beauty parlor scene, I immediately said, "That's a man." Although I think Jaye Davidson made a lovely woman, I still recognized his masculinity.
I was wondering if any of the other female viewers found it obvious as well.