Was the forced mind-meld 'rape'?
I had a discussion with someone the other day who was insistent that Spock forcing a mind-meld on Valeris was essentially rape.
I'm not sure I agree, though. It was a gross violation, no doubt about it, and it's glossed over a little bit too hastily by the crew considering the amount of distress it clearly caused Valeris. But I would have said that rape is an explicitly sexual act, and that's not what Spock was doing. Severe mental torture seems like a more appropriate way to describe it.
Compare it with Shinzon getting inside Troi's mind in Nemesis, which clearly was rape, or attempted rape at least, because he tried to take Riker's place during their lovemaking.
Thoughts?