Esther's character too nasty
There's an episode in season 8 called "The Inspiration" that Ralph Waite directed when Esther comes back to "inspire" one of the Baldwin sisters to get cataract surgery.
I know the show intimately and of course Esther's character is "feisty" as some call it. In my younger years I found Esther to be endearing and funny. Now that I'm 50, her behavior in this episode is outright cruel.
I'm referring to her reaction to Rose in this episode. What an ugly scene when Esther arrives and greets the family and her smile quickly disappears when she sees Rose. Why pick on Rose?! She's such a sweetheart and fans can say what they want, but Grandma is a nasty piece of work for making Rose feel even worse about her situation. Maybe it's the poor script, but that kind of nastiness is not feisty. It's ugly and very far from the welcoming Christian behavior one would expect.