Which is my way of saying, the ending didn't shock me, I found the life he was living deprressing, and the movie to me seemed to be using the light-heartedness to actually study a serious topic. I was smiling but not feeling like I was watching a comedy, it was all dark to me.
i disagree and
i look at it at another perspective,
at the perspective of shy student.
people with social anxiety will understand it better than you, it's like you said, bruno really is rude - but in the same time he is not dangerous. he is not evil. he is not dark, he has no sinister part. it's like bruno is their antipode and an ideal which all shy people strive to be - carefree, social being, not afraid what will someone talk or think about you or say to you, bruno tells them off right from the start.
in comparison, Bonnie and Clyde is portrait of serial killers and thiefs. if someone tells you that you dance funny, or that you are a hick, it is not the same if he holds a gun at your head, demands your money and kills your dear ones. bruno encourages the student to speak to sexy chick. bruno explains him in his way, how silly is not to scream for help if you are stuck in the toilet, and no one notices hoe embarassing is, because people will look for their need, they won't think about you in this situation. you cannot understand this if you have no social anxiety, so you can't judge.
you see, in life you need to have social contact about every single thing you need. for people with social anxiety or extreme shyness this is great obstacle, hindering you in everything in life. they need help with this and if they become like bruno, they can do anything. yes, you'll say everyone feels anxiety when looking for a job, a sexual partner, great life decisions, and you also will feel discomfort varying in degree - but shy people really go through hell you cannot understand. if you are a good person inside, you would joke with people like bruno, make fun of them and yourself - that is not really rude. it just makes life easier. like the quote from the film "summer place": humour is tool of angels.
the last scene with both of them in the car - it's like they are both in heaven, the shy student is set free and he lives with his full lungs for the first time in his life. without meeting bruno he would live in self-created prison maybe for the rest of his life, always afraid of people, worrying and not taking chances. those two days in film were enough for this student that is extremly shy for his lifetime.
this film is not dark, it asks you a question:
if you die tomorrow, what would you regret not doing because of your fears?
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