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Lucy's Mother in Law was a Real Sweetheart...but Ricky's Mother in Law...Ay-Yi-Yi-Yi-Yi!


I just watched the episode where Lucy meets Ricky's mother and she was such a sweetheart! So nice and sympathetic to Lucy, despite all the mishaps that occurred from Lucy's efforts to impress her. The actress who played her, was also charming. You could see why Lucy liked her so much. It also was one of the best episodes I've seen that showed Lucy in a sympathetic light. She's really upset at the thought that Ricky's mom won't approve of her. (Tearfully To Ethel: "I wouldn't be surprised if she had our marriage annulled!"

But LUCY'S mother ("Mrs. McGillicoody" as Ricky calls her), what a GHOUL FOR SCHOOL she was! I think Katherine Card, the actress who played her, did a great job with what they gave her to do, but is it really supposed to be funny that she's such a gorgon toward Ricky? She can't even get his name right, and she never passes up an opportunity to insult/belittle him. It frustrates me that Lucy never tries to defend Ricky or tell her mother off for the way she treats him.

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"Mrs. McGillicoody" was hilarious though. Classic evil mother-in-law.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/w8qbegdoWkE

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I know many people find the character hilarious, and, as I said, I think Katherine Card did a really good job of playing the character as written. I just don't find her very funny because she's so awful to Ricky, and without provocation.

I might feel differently if Ricky fought back when she insulted him, like Darrin Stephens and Endora on "Bewitched," but he usually doesn't.

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I think they were old school where the husband just endured it. Darrin, the second one especially, was a bit of a bitch.

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Well I think Lucy's mother was bad in more of a passive-aggressive sense. She wasn't really outright hostile to Ricky like Alice's mother was to Ralph on The Honeymooners.

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I've always wondered just what Lucy's mother had against Ricky. He was a good husband and a good provider. Lucy was very happy with him and I'm sure her mother knew it. Maybe it was a deep down buried envy that her own husband wasn't so great and Lucy managed to land a great guy.

Mrs. MacGillicuddy was just a dippy woman, always calling him "Mickey". On Bewitched, Endora always messed up Darrin's name, but she did that on purpose. Lucy's mother just seemed "out there" and confused.

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Mrs. MacGillicuddy was certainly a dippy woman, as that letter she wrote to Lucy but sent to Ethel and several other incidents (her crazy telegram informing them she was arriving in Hollywood, etc.), but I think there was real calculated malice/contempt in the way she treated Ricky. At least as "calculated" as a dippy woman like Mrs. MacGillicuddy could manage!

Endora's messing up Darrin's name was unquestionably intentional and intended to show her contempt for her son-in-law, and she wasn't alone. Most of Samantha's relatives had insulting monikers for Darrin.

I always thought Samantha was pretty passive in defending Darrin during Endora's verbal assaults. I think Samantha should have made it clear to Endora and her family in general that they weren't welcome in the Stephens' home or around Tabitha and Adam if they couldn't at least be civil to Darrin during their visits.

Even I wish Samantha had been more authoritative with her family about their treatment of Darrin, she was more proactive than Lucy in defending Ricky from her mother. I guess Lucy figured her mom was too "gone" for it to do any good.

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True, Mrs. MacGillicuddy wasn't as outright hostile to Ricky like Alice's mother was to Ralph, but she was pretty contemptuous toward him: shrieking with laughter when Lucy tells her Ricky is being groomed by MGM as another "Rudolph Valentino," never addressing him by his correct name and badmouthing him at just about every opportunity. Of course, she doesn't in any way appreciate that she wouldn't be in Hollywood at all if it weren't for Ricky and his successful career.

Incidentally, in the episode where Lucy and Ethel steal John Wayne's footprints from the forecourt of Grauman's Chinese Theatre, it begins with Lucy and the Mertzes throwing a party for Ricky to celebrate the completion of his picture. Where is Mrs. MacGillicuddy during the celebration? I caught this scene a few days ago, and I don't recall seeing her or anyone mentioning her or explaining her absence. Usually, she's the one who tends to Little Ricky, but even though he makes an appearance, she doesn't.

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Yes, I wondered where she was too! But she did mention a few other guests in the hotel, like the one who babysat Little Ricky in "Hollywood Anniversary". Maybe she took a last minute sightseeing tour with one of them.

Lucy's mom was primarily along as babysitter. I'm sure she enjoyed the time she spent with her grandson. But there were other things I wondered about, like when Lucy would order breakfast from room service. But she only ordered for herself and Ricky! Did her mother take the baby to the coffee shop every morning?

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I also wondered if Mrs. MacGillicoody was out visiting someone at the time of the party. I recall her mentioning that snooty lady in a neighboring hotel room who "thinks her daughter is such-a-MUCH!" I think this was also the "Hollywood Anniversary" episode?

Maybe she was hanging out with her "good friend Hedda Hooper!"

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You know also I was thinking about what you said about Lucy's mother-in-law, who definitely was a nice lady. But of course, Lucy did have Uncle Alberto, who was a major prick and clearly thought very highly of himself. Lucy did manage to win him over, but of course that was only because of Little Ricky, and nothing really do with her. And who knows how long that would have lasted anyway? I think it's pretty obvious the guy would still have some resentment towards Lucy for not being Cuban, Little Ricky or not.

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Yes, Uncle Alberto definitely had a chip on his shoulder when it came to Lucy since he had wanted Ricky to marry "a Cuban girl," and apparently thought Cuban women generally superior to American women. Still, I didn't get the impression that he would continue to resent Lucy after he saw not only how talented Little Ricky was, but how steeped Little Ricky was in Cuban music and culture.While much of this would have come from Ricky, Lucy was Little Ricky's primary parental caretaker, and Little Ricky's demeanor and talent obviously were a refection of her wanting him to be proud of his Dad's Cuban roots.

In any case, despite Ricky's increasingly successful career, which included starring in a Hollywood film and becoming such a successful international celebrity that he made a successful tour of Europe, NOTHING he ever did impressed the vituperative "Mrs. MacGillicoody!" lol

Watching this episode makes me wonder when Ricky's dad passed away because Ricky mentions that Uncle Alberto practically raised him.

Another interesting aspect of this episode for me, and other viewers like me who often find the "Lucy Ricardo" character selfish and unlikable, is how sympathetically Lucy is portrayed here. Unlike most episodes in which her "wacky" behavior arises from her ruthless, single-minded ambition to prove that she can be a star no matter what the cost to Ricky or to get back at Ricky for some slight ("The Mr. and Mrs. TV Show" episode), etc., here we get to see how much Lucy's marriage means to her. The only reason she keeps making the wrong impression on Uncle Alberto is because she's so nervous about making a good impression on him (and Ricky's many other relatives) that she just can't be herself.

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Lucy's mother was hilarious - wish she was in more episodes. And anyway, without conflict, there can't be comedy.

But, yes, you're correct, technically, that she was very rude to Ricky. Nobody has mentioned that, perhaps, she was a racist.

Ralph Kramden's mother was horrible to him, but she was genuinely angry that her (beautiful) daughter married an obese loser. We GET why she's hostile. What was totally absurd was Alice's siding with her mother, when she clearly should've defended her husband.

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I'm sorry. I can't stand Lucy's mother. She's so awful to Ricky, I don't understand why anyone finds that funny.

That said, you're not alone. Many people think she was the greatest comedic thing since sliced bread and find her treatment of Ricky hilarious, and appropriate.

I liked the actress (Kathryn Card) much more in the episode where she played the frump who had a "date" with Ricky, courtesy of his agent's wild publicity stunt. Card was a talented actress, and she did a good job playing "Mrs. McGillicoody" as written by the ILL writing team. I just don't like the character.

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Corry, is there anything about this show that you DO like?

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Sure Gary, Lucy's Mother in law. lol

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