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Danneel Haters Please Read

posted 14 years ago by jeffersonstarship
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I happened to stumble upon this message board by chance because I was looking up a movie Danneel was in. I started reading posts, and I have got to say some of you say the rudest things I have ever read. Before you start jumping to conclusions, I am NOT Danneel, her family, or friend, I do not know her, and I have never met her before. I am simply a fan of her and her husband. That being said, what is with all the hate? Why have you chosen to single her out specifically? What particularly bugs me is the comments on her having Botox (whether she has had or not I dont know). If you are going to hate on her for a procedure that she may or may not have done, why not hate on Courtney Cox, Jennifer Anniston, and Nicole Kidman? All have clearly had some type of cosmetic procedure done, but you only seem to direct your hate towards Danneel. Why? Because she is a gorgeous woman with a gorgeous husband that you secretly want and fantasize about, and you hope that someday he will leave her for you? Wake up girls, that isnt going to happen.

Also, why would someone make a big deal about her changing her last name? When a man and women get married, most generally the woman changes her last name. It has been going on for years. It doesnt mean she is trying to use his last name to boast her career. Has anyone ever thought that maybe Jensen wanted her to change her last name? Im sure its hard enough living across the country from her husband, only to read comments that she doesnt love him and is only using him for her benefit. Why is it that girls must say such vicious things about others girls to make themselves feel better? Why cant we be supportive of others? What message are we sending to our daughters, little sisters, and those young girls that look up to us? There is always going to be someone for whatever reason you wont like, but that doesnt mean you belittle them. Bottom line, whether its to your face or online words can hurt. Most of you are not old enough to realize the effect that you may have on someone else. Its really sad that you girls have nothing better to do with your life than to say hurtful things. And its really sad, that I feel the need to sit here and defend a woman that I dont even know because people are so rude.

[–] summer_wine7 12 years ago

A friend of mine once dated a celebrity. I'm not talking tv-show fanbase of regulars but I'm talking he was a movie star - I'm happy to say his name but it wouldn't add anything, and I don't feel comfortable throwing more of her business out there than necessary. Anyway, she was dating a BIG heartthrob famous actor guy.

She was obviously being torn apart online, *especially* on IMDB because let's face it Fansite generally censor this kind of stuff so that the celebrities themselves don't become shy to have a look at their own fansites. IMDB is known as the place of the slightly more decayed and rotten opinions, as well as conspiracy theories. I saw her being shredded to pieces here in a very unfair way by an army of fangirls who really didn't have a leg to stand on. The problem was she read it and it hurt her. It hurt her to the point where it put a strain on their relationship. They have been broken up for a few years now but I will never forget how all the absolute flat out lies got to her (not to mention she LET it get to her by READING IT when she didn't have to and her life would not become better or worse for not reading it).

This is why I don't rip on the girlfriends of actors. Because I've seen the other side and I know rationally that it's just not fair.

That said, if we have a crush on a celebrity (harmless as it on its own is) we all WANT to believe their girlfriends are evil bitches from Hades. That is how we want to see it because it enables our mind to create more interesting and vivid fantasies. And some of us, sometimes, need those fantasies to deal with life. I've been there. Plenty of times. Life is harsh and it only seems to be getting more harsh. And if those girls need to tell themselves that their fantasies are more enjoyable if they imagine Jensen will be single again at some point in the future, well, I say let them have the sad.

I say if you have a good relationship, you have the career you wanted, you're well off enough not to have to worry about bills, and you have a loving family around you, why not let the people who are so low down they need to tune out have their little jabs. What's it gonna do? It's not going to affect Danneel in any way unless she lets it. I reckon she's probably a very lucky woman so I hope she finds it in herself to realize she shouldn't even be reading any of this if she loves herself and she can just let the girls who probably don't even have half as a fulfilling life have their little fantasies where she's the evil witch. Because IMDB dirt never gets beyond IMDB. There is no reason for her to care.

I for one hope she's a massive bitch, which she probably isn't, so I can continue to have my little daydreams without feeling like the idiot it probably makes me. The end.