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How to NOT be a whore


How does a woman NOT be a whore, because we're getting mixed messages.


We're called whores if we sleep with men for financial gain, and we're called whores if we sleep with a man for no reason at all other than the fact that we enjoy the sex.


So.....how does a woman have sex and not be a whore?

Apparently the only way this happens is if you have sex with your husband, or have sex with your boyfriend whom you then plan to marry one day...and most guys cheat.

It's bad enough that we have to deal with the whole pregnancy consequence of sex, and that we're not guaranteed orgasms every time we have it like men are, not to mention the rape factor and a bunch of others things that make this a man's world.

So a little perspective would be nice.




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The answer is obvious: http://youtu.be/AxPbNqGvDg0?t=2s

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You cannot avoid it at all. "whore" is an invective and not a professional title. So if you are cooler, prettier, wealthier, more styles, more physically fit, taller, more tanned, or smarter than any other woman, you are a whore in her eyes.

And to all guy for whom you are out of reach you are a whore anyway, unless their vast vocabulary does accommodate the term "slut", then you might get upgraded to that one.

So why bother? I long stopped being bothered to be called called a racist or sexist or able-ist or age-ist by liberal-marxist f###tards. I wear those attributes like a badge of honor.

You should embrace whoredom, I reckon.

> ..and that we're not guaranteed orgasms every time we have it like men are, not to mention the rape factor..

Men are not guaranteed an orgasm ... where did you get that idea from? And what on Earth is a rape factor? Are you trying to get mutual orgasms with a guy without having sex? I don't quite understand.

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You cannot avoid it at all. "whore" is an invective and not a professional title. So if you are cooler, prettier, wealthier, more styles, more physically fit, taller, more tanned, or smarter than any other woman, you are a whore in her eyes.


I guess you bring up a solid point. I was labelled "slut" by the girls in school at the ripe young age of 12, when I hadn't even so much as kissed a boy at that point.

So perhaps I shouldn't feel so frustrated, since there isn't much I can do about ignorant, insecure people. I should just feel sorry for them.




Men are not guaranteed an orgasm ... where did you get that idea from? And what on Earth is a rape factor? Are you trying to get mutual orgasms with a guy without having sex? I don't quite understand.


Because it doesn't take much for a man to orgasm. As Dante said in Clerks, "Insert somewhere tight, preferably moist, thrust and repeat."

For women, only certain men (and certain dicks) can get us to orgasm. Maybe that's not true of all women, but it is for a lot of us.

What I mean by "rape factor" is the fact that women are the ones who have to worry about rape. Men pretty much only have to worry about it in prison, or when they're boys. Women have to worry about it at all ages, in all walks of life.







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> As Dante said in Clerks, "Insert somewhere tight, preferably moist, thrust and repeat."

You probably choose men with stamina. When I leave a plane after 26 hours in the air, the thing doesn't work for a day. Nor does it after a weekend in the lab. But at least yes, we can tell most of the time, if we had an orgasm ...

> For women, only certain men (and certain dicks) can get us to orgasm.
Certainly true but also not surprising. 80% of all females, I would also not touch.

> Men pretty much only have to worry about it in prison, or when they're boys. Women have to worry about it at all ages, in all walks of life.

Did you had a juvenile phase where your urges and idealistic world views made you date outcasts? I know many girls who have experienced their sexual assaults in these 'relationships' with ex convicts or refugees or fringe minorities.

Other that - are you also worried to be caught in a bank robbery or a workplace shooting or an attack by a religious nutcase? If not then "being worried" is pretty much a choice. Unless you date risky men, indulge in binge drinking, and count drunk but consenting sex as rape, I see zero reason why you should spend time worrying about it. It 'could' hypothetically happen to both women and men at any time but these cases don't reach a worrisome likelihood.

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Totally right on girl. Preach. Its sickening double standards and female oppression


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"we're called whores if we sleep with a man for no reason at all other than the fact that we enjoy the sex"

Those people who say that are wrong.

There isn't that much rape in this world, too.

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Those people who say that are wrong.



The gd dictionary.com reference says it:


http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/whore?s=t


Whore

noun
1.
a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.


It's having the word "usually" in that definition that bugs me about this.




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> 1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

> It's having the word "usually" in that definition that bugs me about this.


I should not! The word long stopped being a designator for a specific type of sexworker and now is a pure swearword. Usually used by unsuccessful men or sexually less successful women who direct it at superior competitors.

So if you had two boyfriends and are better looking than your jealous adversary, you ARE a whore.

Men use it with an even lower threshold - any woman who in our valuable opinion overdresses and annoys as is a whore. If she doesn't annoy us, the same whore would be a babe.

So yes, you do not have to take money for sex in order to be a whore. And the 'usually' component is probably form 1830 when the dictionary was written. It is the common use now.

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