If the very first time, one may still pursue.
If you continue to get a negative response - at some point you have to let it go and move on.
This can be easier said than done. You've got a girl in your head, you're having trouble evaporating her.
Well, then it becomes a matter of - Who is stronger, me or you (the urge to contact the girl)?
Or you can go to what I go to, a Bruce Lee quote.....
"Defeat is a state of mind; no one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality”.
IOW - you don't accept defeat (making an ass of yourself by continuing to contact a non interested party). You accept the girl isn't interested, and you move on.
Within two weeks you'll be into something else.
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