I’m only 24
Should I start searching for a girlfriend now? I hear dating gets much harder when you’re older.
shareShould I start searching for a girlfriend now? I hear dating gets much harder when you’re older.
shareIt all depends how much money/income you have and what your goals in life are.
If you're an average earner and want a decent life while having a family with children, you're done before you get started, because that's logically impossible to achieve, a single average income isn't enough to finance a family with children from a single income without dropping the whole family below the poverty line.
If you "only" want a girlfriend, that still depends on how much money/income you have and how much of it you're willing to spend on your girlfriend.
In this case the first thing you have to realize is that there is no amount of money that could make a gold digging girl stay with you, even Jeff Bezos, the richest man in the world at the time, couldn't make his wife stay with him and had to pay her $100bln when they divorced.
The second thing you have to realize is that well over 90% of all girls in their 20s are gold diggers, all looking for men with enough money so they can become a stay at home mom and since an average earner cannot finance that, you have to exclude these from your search.
The remaining 10% of women in their 20s who aren't gold diggers are really hard to find because on first view you cannot tell whether they are good girls or gold diggers and most of the good ones are taken already, I would suggest you don't even try finding one of them.
That out of the way, you simply look into the real world and figure out the options.
Fact is, 75% of all men in their 20s never had a girlfriend, because all the gold diggers never even look at an average earner and that just doesn't leave enough young girls so that the young men could all find one.
Fact is, all the women "hit the wall" when they turn 30, they find out the hard way that there was no rich prince for them while they were in their 20s and being over 30 means the rich men don't even want them for a one night stand anymore.
Use your logic, 75% of the men in their 20s are single, 90% of the women in their 30s are single, where can average men in their 20s find a girlfriend?
Subtracting the single mothers and the ones who maintained their attitude of wanting a rich man, there are roughly 75% of all women in their 30s, who turn their life around when they turn 30, start their own career, make their own money, looking for a man to join on equal terms.
It may seem against everything you believed up to now, but I can tell you from my own experience, I was 29 when I had my first long term girlfriend, she was 40 at the time and to this day it's been the best 4 years I had in my life.
- An experienced woman will teach a young man without experience things in the bedroom beyond his wildest dreams.
- Since she will teach him what she likes she'll be happy with it as well.
- She'll pay at least half, if not more of the bills.
- She'll remain loyal to the man, because she knows how hard it was finding him.
- The man has the option to decide for how long he wants to keep her, because for him there's an overload of alternatives of other women in their 30s.
- The man doesn't have to compete with other men who have more money, because those men do not want these women.
Just let it come naturally. I'm almost 59 and prefer older women who aren't into all of this Title IX crap and if I hit on you or compliment you, it's not harassment or stalking for Christ sake
shareYou shouldn't "search" for a girlfriend. You should live your life fully, helping others, having hobbies, going to church, volunteering, etc. If you meet someone doing something you love, you'll be more likely to commit to that person because you already have things in common. If you don't meet someone, you're still having a fulfilling life.
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