"Obese” is the N word for plus-sized people
Calling people obese is more abusive and hateful than telling them they're fat. People need to control what goes out of their mouths and the slurs they use. Too many people are fatphobic and discriminatory against big-boned individuals. Being called obese is annoying, embarrassing, and tough to hear. I am a Fat-Affirming Dietician w/ a Ph.D. and I can positively tell you that having excessive body weight is NOT a choice.
So I ask all of you to be more considerate of your words and not to be fatphobic because fat lives do matter!