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When a girl agrees to a 3rd date with "I guess it will be fun".


Does that mean she's not interested? Or playing "hard to get" or being aloof on purpose? I'm confused.

I feel if someone is genuinely interested or not playing games, they would say something like "I can't wait to meet up again!", "I'd love to see you again.", "Sounds great", etc.

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Depends how she said it. In a flirty way? In a doubtful way?

If said without obvious flirtiness then she's probably not sure about you or how things are going, so don't plan to spend too much money.

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I agree it's in the way it's said, but just the "...I guess it'll be....." part that'would be a bit of a red flag to me.

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I dunno. That sounds like musing. You're reading too much into it. "Hmmm. I guess that could be fun. Yeah, I'd enjoy that."

Just go for it. You're overthinking it.

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I overthink alot. It's a bad habit of mine.

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She's talking to you like a friend without guile. I might respond like that to my partner. It doesn't mean she's disinterested.

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Women are tough to figure out though. They give out mixed signals. I'm a dude. We like things direct and straightforward.

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Yeah, it's much easier to date men. I agree.

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Wolf, you have trouble figuring out the Alphabet. You think males give out “direct signals”? Males (not gonna use the word “men”) are usually verbally and socially illiterate. It never occurs to the likes of you that what YOU think (using the word loosely) is “direct” does not in any way describe how women process social information.

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This can be seen in the difference of how men and women shop. For women it's therapeutic. They will linger in a store for hours. Men usually know exactly what they want, go directly to those items and then exit the store just as directly.😉

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She's agreeing to another, so there must be some interest there. Unless maybe she's looking for a free dinner? I don't know.

Some people just aren't real demonstrative or excitable, so she might be looking forward to the date. What kind of person is she?

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Please get a vasectomy.

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