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🐈 🐈 Any 2-cat owners here?


As many folks here know, I adopted two 6-month-old kittens last December just before Christmas. I've learned since then that taking care of cats is a lot more work than I thought, but that's fine. Things have gone along quite well...until late last Friday afternoon.

That's when my cats began fighting violently. I mean literally clumps of fur flying and even drawing blood (not a lot, thankfully). I have no idea what started this behavior. I only became aware when I heard the cats growling, hissing, and screaming as they came galloping up from the basement and tearing through the house. Owen was chasing Abby, but she was fighting back when she couldn't escape him. It was so violent that spraying them with the water bottle didn't faze them. Even dousing them with a cup of water didn't end it.

I was able to separate them and gave them time to cool down - a couple of hours. But as soon as they see each other, the fighting starts all over again. I realized that they would have to be separated overnight. In the middle of the night they began fighting through the door! As soon as Owen sensed Abby was by the door, the hissing and screaming would start. Later, at one point it sounded like Owen was throwing himself against the door. Naturally, as soon as Abby heard that, she had to go investigate, meaning another hissing-screaming match.

So all weekend I've had to keep them separated. One in the spare bedroom that I call the cat room (cat tree, toys, etc.), the other allowed to roam a bit. I switch them every once in a while. That involves closing one cat in my room so I can "release" the other one. Then the cat in my room goes into the cat room.

Yes, I will be calling the vet first thing Monday morning to find out how soon he can examine Owen to rule out a medical issue. I'm starting with him because he appears to be the aggressor in this mess.

Has anyone ever experienced something like this? Owen has always been a mellow fellow so this is totally unexpected.

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How about a kitty update. How are they doing?

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I got Owen to the vet that Monday morning and he said Owen is fine, physically. He prescribed Prozac to hopefully calm him down a bit. Good luck getting that into him! Hiding it in his food doesn't work - he just eats around it. Tried dissolving it in a bit of water and using a syringe. It took 3 days to get 2 doses in his mouth and mostly swallowed. The 3rd time he ended up spitting it out all over the floor. πŸ™„πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

I'm still playing musical rooms with them, but I think πŸ€žπŸ™πŸ˜¬ we've made a little bit of progress. I have two baby gates that I can 'stack' in the doorway. Keeps them separated but they can still see each other. The first few times I had the door open just enough so they could see each other but not get nose to nose. Snarling and hissing quickly ensued. But today, and even right now, the door is open (with the gates in place). They've looked at each other a few times, but mostly they've been ignoring each other. I'll stay with this step for a few days and see what happens.

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I've got my fingers crossed 🀞

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Thanks!

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OPEN HIS MOUTH...THROW THE PILL INTO HIS THROAT...HOLD HIS MOUTH SHUT WITH HIS HEAD POINTED UP AND MASSAGE HIS THROAT...DOWN GOES THE MEDICINE...IF HE GETS SCRATCHY OR FIGHTS...WRAP HIM IN A TOWEL TIGHTLY WITH ONLY HIS HEAD STICKING OUT AND GIVE HIM THE MEDS THE SAME WAY.

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I did wrap him in a towel but he fought like a tiger to get out, of course. The only doses I got into his mouth were when he opened his mouth to scream at me. After those times, anytime he saw me with a towel he'd run and hide. He still gets skittish around me.

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SOME OF MY MOTHER'S CATS ARE LIKE THAT...HER CUTE LITTLE SIAMESE BIT THE SHIT OUT OF ME...I AM SO THANKFUL I MANAGED TO ADOPT THE SIX MOST WELL BEVHAVED MALE FERAL CATS EVER.

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Sounds like a territorial dispute. Try giving each cat his own litterbox, feeding area, sleeping area, etc in separate rooms, far apart. Don’t switch because the cats will not like the smell of the other cat on their stuff.

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They have separate litter boxes, etc. Normally, they would both sleep in the cat tree in the spare room. Under current conditions, Owen sleeps in that room and Abby sleeps on my bed.

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I had this problem. My solution was getting rid of the aggressive cat, which happened to be the newest addition to the household. Then I introduced another cat but had it separated for a week in a room. Seemed to have worked. No one fights beside normal playing. Not sure if this helps or if over time they will stop. Sorry to hear about your situation.

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Thanks. The vet said I may have to consider rehoming one of them if I can't get this situation solved.

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Yes. Sadly this may be the only option. If you get another cat consider isolating the new cat for a week so they can just smell each other. Worked for me. Now I have 3 that get along great.

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Have they been spayed/neutered ?

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Yes, they have. The local Humane Society does it to all dogs and cats before they put them up for adoption.

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Ah ok, I thought it may be hormonal. How are they getting along now?

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We're making slow progress. After several days of letting them see each other through a crack in the door, last evening I let them be in the same room. They spent a very wary five minutes together before the hissing and snarling started. Obviously we still have a ways to go but things are better than they were 3 weeks ago!

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It's a strange situation. Good luck to you. And the cats 😸🀞🀞🀞

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Thanks!

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At great risk of jinxing myself, I will say that this is the end of day 3 with cat peace. 🀞 The gradual re-introduction of the two of them seems to have worked. For the most part, they are behaving with only play-fighting. I still keep a very close eye on them and if I feel they're getting a little too violent, all it takes is an "easy" as I pick up the water spray bottle and they cool it. I don't even have to pull the trigger. πŸ™‚ I'm cautiously optimistic. πŸ™

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Congratulations GE !!!

Well done !!!

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I also use a SPRAY BOTTLE once in a blue moon as a way to discipline mine sometimes.

Yelling "NO FIGHTING" at the strays I work with at night also seems to work well as well whenever they HISS and GROWL at each other over the food they're fed.

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I had a fight between my 15 year old girl and my 4 year old girl. I had to spank and lock up my 4 year old girl. She did learn her lesson.

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I'm actually wondering if separating my two for those three weeks or so made them realize that life's more fun with a buddy to play with. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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I AM NOW OFFICIALLY A TEN CAT OWNER.😣


COUPLE DAYS IN...AFTER ADOPTING THE LASTAND FINAL FOUR I WILL TAKE EVERYONE IS GETTING ALONG AND PLAYING...EXCEPT TWO OF MY ORIGINAL CATS ARE NOW FIGHTING...MY NEIGHBORS ARE HEARING A LOT OF "NO..STOP IT...GUYS,COME ON...YOU'RE BROTHERS!"

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🀣 I wondered what my neighbors would think if they heard me, especially when the fur was flying and I was trying to separate them! Okay, Bozo next door couldn't care less. I doubt the new Ms Neighbor was even home, so I'm probably good. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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#1 is protect the older cats.. Gia is #1, when I saw my younger cat attacking her in the the litter box, I went crazy. Spanked her hard, she hid and now learned her lesson.

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How are the cats doing?

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We're sort of living one day at a time. Some days they're fine, and other days they decide to escalate things again. I step in immediately and separate them and thankfully, this seems to cool things off before they get totally out of hand. I still need to do cautious re-introducing these two in order to achieve "world" peace. πŸ˜‰ Maybe it's some sort of phase they're going through that will subside eventually. I hope so, since most days they appear to get along okay.

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It was watching this that made me think of them...but it is not the same situation as your cats were together from the beginning, which makes it so confusing as to why they suddenly decided to declare war.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abDDgi2SSUg

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I sometimes wonder if my situation stems from Abby being a bit of a bully towards Owen. He'll be napping peacefully on the cat tree's "penthouse" and Abby decides to climb up there, wake him up, and then annoys him until he's had enough. Then he vacates the penthouse and finds another spot to continue his nap. Naturally, Abby takes over the penthouse for her own nap. I'm never quite sure if I should interfere or not. πŸ€”πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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