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Prove me wrong: the term coming-of-age is just a fancy way of saying that a movie is about absolutely nothing.


If you put "coming-of-age" in a synopsis, the following sentence is usually just descriptive word (a boy, a girl) followed by struggling to come to terms with something. These movies are boring.

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They can be boring because of the term "Coming of age" something about the way it sounds makes it far more important or serious than what it is. In the movie world, in most cases these films revolve around (usually) a group of teen males trying to get laid.

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They can be boring because of the term "Coming of age" something about the way it sounds makes it far more important or serious than what it is


That's exactly what it is. I can have a movie about four high school kids doing nothing all summer and word the premise like: "a coming-of-age story of a group of friends who spend one summer together figuring out life's lessons". It's not about anything, but hey, adding "coming-of-age" makes it work.

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Stand By Me was a coming of age story; the boys do a lot of growing up over the span of a short weekend and that was not a boring movie

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But that's got the whole dead body/Kiefer Sutherland chasing them thing.

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True, but a proper 'coming of age' story has to be about something...

Take Dirty Dancing:

A young sheltered girl everyone calls 'Baby' experiences issues of classism, stands up for herself, falls in love, proves to her rigid but decent father that she is in fact a woman now, helps other people and becomes one of the best dancers the 60s era Catskills has ever seen...NOBODY puts Baby in a corner!

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I don't think it has to be about anything. Lady Bird was loved by many and that movie is about nothing.

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Yep, my reaction to Lady Bird was "huh?" Lots of hubbub surrounding it, but I kept waiting for the good part.

I imagine everyone's "coming of age" is different. Some filled with drama, but I imagine most aren't.

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I thought those types of fiction were called "slice of life"....

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Could be that too.

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They can be about nothing in particular and they can be about something specifically. They are not automatically boring.

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No. They could be like Stand By Me like ShogunOfYonkers said.

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Coming-of-age stories are not my favourite genre. However, the French movie My Father's Glory and its sequel My Mother's Castle are prime examples of the kind that's about "nothing", but I still find enjoyable and very touching.

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There are also "mood" movies which I enjoy. There isn't much story but it's about experiencing the mood. Coming-of-age movies just seem so safe.

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Yup, you nailed it. These movies are boring.

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I know that whenever I see the term “coming of age” or “heartfelt drama” in a movie’s synopsis, I immediately know to steer clear.

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I apply the same judgement to any movie, book, or opinion piece that contains the word "lyrical."

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How do you feel about "whimsical?" 😉

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AAAAAAAAGH!!!!!

runs screaming from room....

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I'm right behind you!

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I’m not too keen on “quirky”either

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I find it often means "just plain weird."

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well said!

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I don’t know, sometimes it is gratifying or reassuring or cathartic to see the ordinary, daily shit we all deal with played out by actors on the big silver screen.

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Sometimes, but rarely.

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I always took the expression to mean the time when people are in that transition between being a kid and an adult. I've likes some of these movies. Stand By Me comes to mind right away.

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It's very rare where these movies can be intriguing. Most of the time they offer nothing new.

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From the Hip (1987) comes to mind for me. Judd Nelson plays a freshman lawyer that goes from frat boy lawyer antics to receiving a murder defendant.

the movie itself comes of age in tone from a youthful fun and games first half to serious and responsibility second half.

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