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Should men always pay for the first date?

posted 5 years ago by Eric56 (4580)
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I think so. But it seems times are a-changing and this may not be such a steadfast rule these days. However, it would make me feel 'less of a man' if we splitted bills on first date.

I guess it also depends on culture and region too. Certain areas of the world have different rules.

[–] sslssg (35199) 5 years ago

I prefer to split. I don't like to feel obligated for anything in return.

[–] Who (5146) 5 years ago

I think it is better to split the tab on the first dates, if they are just opportunities to get to know each other better.

[–] Eric56 (4580) 5 years ago

Women will be turned off by that. They want a man 'in charge'.

[–] Kawada_Kira (7282) 5 years ago

That's an old-fashioned and highly questionable generalization.

[–] kukuxu (5409) 5 years ago

Women will be turned off by that. They want a man 'in charge'.

So man up, take charge, and make clear that you have decided to split the tab.

[–] actionkamen (23176) 5 years ago

Or better, charge her the amount of the bill!

[–] jewoogle (2269) 5 years ago

dont be a cheap bozo, just take her on a cheap date if ur broke

[–] actionkamen (23176) 5 years ago

Yeah, that's confusing. What if they are gay men. So the man who is more manly pays?

[–] Artisan (3464) 5 years ago

Or lesbians? I have heard comments from bi women about how terrible it is to date women because of all the mind games and entitlement.

[–] zack14 (347) 5 years ago

Always pay. Dont be a cheap asshole

[–] kukuxu (5409) 5 years ago

Not anymore.

[–] AndyKing1967 (39865) 5 years ago

I would if I was in that situation.

[–] Artisan (3464) 5 years ago

Nope. Never. Equality rules.

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

Yes. He does.