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Why do some posters need to post for attention while others don't?


Psychologically, I know the reason for it; people have been shown to need a type of attention that psychologists call belonging. I mean Maslow put belonging in his fun little hierarchy of needs. How do we as a species benefit from benign postings meant to inflame, whilst garnering as many comments as possible?

I would say that intense competition to see how many times we can be on the first page in general discussion can benefit our self esteem. They do say that one way to seek attention is to do a lot of something. Those individuals are often extremely concerned with attention and social validation. They are likely to be less interested in the actual content itself, and more interested in having an audience and how the audience receives and responds to the information. Excessive attention-seeking is not a character flaw. It is a brain wiring response to early developmental trauma caused by neglect.

What do you say, is this just drama which causes the pituitary gland and hypothalamus to secrete endorphins? Perhaps those endorphins mimic opiates in the brain and become addictive?

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I’ve always used the analogy that I treat this place like my local pub. Somewhere to unwind with your mates and talk about interesting stuff; it could be films, tv, box sets, music, sport, holidays (remember them?), crazy stuff you’ve seen on the interweb or whatever.

They’ll be the regulars and occasionally some trouble makers (thankfully, they don’t tend to stick around). One or two may even get on your nerves, but that’s life, right?

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Is this about /user/MovieBuff224 ?

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What makes you say that? 😉

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There's too much garlic in his topics.

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It was about no one poster in particular.

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Lol, noooo of course not.

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Should I rephrase and say that it wasn't just about one poster?

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I'm just gently teasing you, however, it’s funny how several posters have joined the dots and come up with the same answer, lol.

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Isn't it though. hmmmmmm. Hahahaha!

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Yes, we do have attention whores here.

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I don't know anyone here, So I don't know why some might post for attention or to raise their number of posts. I'm not a leading man around here. Hah-hah.

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I've always preferred movies with an ensemble cast. 😁🥂

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Every production needs a good supporting cast.

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We all want attention, or at least recognition, at the most basic level. If we didn't, why bother to converse at all?
But I get what you're saying - some seem to crave it like an addiction. For some it really is.

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I POST FOR ATTENTION...I WANT EVERYONE TO LOVE ME...OR REALLY HATE ME...BOTH ARE EQUALLY APPEALING.🥳

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