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Criticise Your Heroes and Compliment Your Enemies


Keep your heroes humble, and give your enemies the opportunity to display their decency.

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George Washington married for money and owned slaves

Joseph Stalin was a man of great ambition and I admire ambition

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Stalin was also a metrosexual hipster in his younger years:

http://www.quickmeme.com/img/f4/f4a9e1e27789a387a65d1a7bdf2a1b119e07fb42182a0d12486d1b3646fee00d.jpg

Not sure if that's good or bad.🤔

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Joey was quite the handsome monster!

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bad

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He's not so badlooking in that mugshot, though.

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he had great hair

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He did. He must've switched hairdresser later in life, though.

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I have a feeling if you called him a metrosexual you would have ended up in the gulag.

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I assume his first hairdresser did wind up in the gulag😳

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But look where his ambition led him. ..to be one of the most despicable human beings right along with Hitler. You really admire Stalin?????

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Tongue in cheek slimone😉

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criticize in private, praise in public

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I like that, although there are occasional instances where one has to publicly criticise, particularly where politicians are concerned.

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it's a business model for dealing with employees

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It's a good model for dealing with people. Period.

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The nail that sticks out gets hammered.

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The squeaky wheel gets the electric chair.

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When there's two are more people whose viewpoints are different from each other's, rather than taking sides leading to division, it is more useful to say, "I like this one idea from that person but the other person does have a point there." Think and weigh each thought independently, separate from the individuals. It's easier to accomplish goals this way and see people for who they really are.

~~/o/

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I blame Jesus for this.

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You're my kind of "mean" person (in a good way)! (^_^)

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I agree (we shouldn't dismiss anyone simply on account of existing prejudices), but that's a separate argument to the one I'm making. I'm saying that we shouldn't make anyone a hero or a zero. Unfortunately, that seems to be the trend, especially thanks to the media. People are either heroes or villains, and often times both. Most tend to go from hero to villain, very few go from villain to hero, although it can, on rare occasion, happen (I'm thinking of David Beckham who was utterly despised by much of England for lashing out and getting sent off in a 1998 World Cup game, so much so that people were burning effigies of him in the streets, only for him to be treated by the country as some sort of Football Jesus in the years that followed - for what it's worth, I think both characterisations of the man were wildly OTT). However, the reality is that few people are all good or all evil; which is to say that we shouldn't be blind to our heroes' flaws nor should we wholly demonise our enemies.

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John Wayne smoked too much

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Elvis ate too much and took too many meds.

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Lincoln suspended habeas corpus

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