The Worst hairstyle you ever had
90’s bowl cut (Mushroom) back in high school
shareThat mullet I had for a short time made me look like a working class Aussie from the 70's or 80's. Think Mad Max.
shareI also had a mullet back in the 80, at its longest it reached my waist (but only if you pulled it straight, I have curly hair).
It started as a rat tail in my youth.
..Nothing I hate more than a rat tail.
shareCurly, or even wavy hair, both tend to spring up, thereby making the length look shorter than it actually is. My hair, which is very curly, goes into these sort of long ringlets that now go down to just below my shoulders, but, if they're pulled down straight, they go down to my waist.
When I was a baby, I had short ringlets around my head, and wore it very short as a small child. In transition, first, second and third grade, I wore my hair, which was then quite long, in two braided pigtails. At the end of third grade and fourth grade, and through the summer of 1961, when we all went abroad for several months, I had short hair, and in fifth, sixth and seventh grade, had it medium length, and wore two shorter pigtails.
In the summer before entering 8th grade, I was forced to cut it short, as always, and then I was adamant about growing it out again, despite my mom giving me a hard time. All through high school, I had longish hair, which I set on jumbo-sized plastic rollers to straighten it after shampooing it once a week, since long, straight hair was in fashion during the mid to late 1960's, when I attended high school. At the end of my Senior year, I experimented with having sort of a bob, which didn't work out very well, and in the fall of 1969, I had short hair once again. In the spring of 1970, my hair was then medium-length, and I decided, despite suggestions from people to get a little afro, to grow it long. I've kept it long since. Even at my last job, some people thought that I should cut my hair short. I told them to mind their own business (which got me called in by the boss of my department.), and they sullenly decided not to hassle me any longer.
Yeah I think mine qualifies more for "wavy," which it starts to do if I go too long between haircuts now. The spirals in my long hair would probably have an inner diameter of an inch or more, like if I let one hair curl up by itself on a tabletop to measure it.
I'm getting the impression your hair is probably a tighter curl, would that be right?
Yup. My hair's a tighter curl than yours, but it's not this really kinky-curly type of hair that some people have. My hair goes into these long corkscrew curls, which I like.
shareAlso, many people, including myself, know more about how to deal with really curly hair than they did when I was growing up. Curly hair (and I'm sure, to an extent, wavy hair, as well--correct me if I'm wrong.) tends to be drier, since the hair shaft of curly hair is more ribbon-shaped, and therefore, unlike straight hair, misses the distribution of the natural oils of the scalp down the hair shaft.
In her pre-teen and young teen years, my sister's hair, which was mousy-brown, was as straight as they come. When she got up into her teens, she'd constantly complain about how oily her hair was, and about how she'd have to wash it every two days. One day, when she, mom and myself were embroiled in a discussion about hair, my sister complained "There's so much that you can do for dry hair." The more I think about it, the more I think that my younger sister had a point; it's way easier to add extra oils and/or creams to dry hair, but removing excessive oil from hair that tends to be quite oily can be virtually, if not downright impossible.
Frequent shampooing has been found to stimulate the sebaceous glands in the scalp to produce even more oil, which, for a person with very oily hair, can be even tougher, if one gets the drift. it's a vicious circle.
Yeah that's interesting. Like most things, there is an up side and a down side.
I've always thought it would be better to have straighter hair, which is why I keep it so short now, but I would NOT want it to be more oily.
Maybe I'm better off with what I have.
Back in the mid to late-1960's, when I attended high school, straight hair, especially long, straight hair, was in fashion. One night, after I'd used a home-straightening product called "Curl-Free", when the family was sitting down to dinner, my dad pointed out, "You don't follow certain styles and patterns. You make the best of what you have, and make it attractive."
What dad meant by this was pretty obvious: He would've preferred me to wear my hair very short--and close-cropped, which I refused to do. Now that I'm a lot older, however, I do see dad's point, but I can still have long, naturally curly hair and still make it attractive. The people who used to say to me "Oh, Miki! You have beautiful hair! It's not meant for having long." were too entrenched in their own agendas and ideas of how curly hair should be worn.
Went in only for a trim of the existing style, ended up with a short, bland no-style cut I didn't even realize was getting so short while she was cutting my hair (wet so harder to tell).
I was only 16 and went home in tears. I have never been a person that looked my best with short hair. Took forever to grow out. I still think the woman actually did it deliberately.
I had bad haircuts too, deliberately or incompetent hairstylist.
shareSorry to hear that, pop-actor. Most hair stylists will do what people request them to do, after telling them how they want to keep their hair, but, as I pointed out on another post on this thread, some hair stylists are into their own selfish and stupid-assed agenda, and they don't give a shit what their clients want.
I had a friend who had hair similar to mine--curly, and she went to have it trimmed and styled. The hairdresser she had said to her "I'm going to cut it short.", which he did. I, myself, would never, ever accept that. I'd walk right out.
Haircuts are expensive now, if your lucky to find one under £20 + tip...
For some people this almost a two hour shift for a 15 minutes haircut.
I’m lucky to be a men cos my wife spends like over £60 on her hair.
Getting a decent hair cut or trim is expensive. Many years ago, I went to a Super-Cuts hair salon in Harvard Square (which I don't think is there any longer), to have my hair trimmed. What the woman who trimmed my hair did just cut my hair straight across, instead of trimming it in sections, like one is supposed to do with curly hair. Subsequently, my hair grew back in kind of weird. That was years ago.
I'd never, ever go to a Super-Cuts or even a Great Cuts hair salon, because those are sort of Assembly-line type hair places, if one gets the drift.
Here's another advantage of keeping my hair long: I go twice a year (i. e. every 6-8 months), rather than every 6-8 weeks, thus spending much less money on my hair than I would if I kept my hair short.
That's too bad, Prelude. Sorry to hear that you went in for a trim, and ended up with a super-short haircut instead. That woman sounds like she was into her own stupid, nasty agenda, and that she did what she wanted to do. I would've been pissed off no end at her, and told her what I thought of her for what she did, but that's me.
shareAt the time I was very young and not very assertive -- had to learn to be much, much later! If it were today, it either wouldn't go that far in the first place or if it did, yes, she'd never hear the end of it from me, lol!
But back then I just fled in tears.
I never trusted a hair stylist since that day. I started cutting my own hair and have now been doing that all these years!
Hi, Prelude.
Sorry that you've had such bad experiences with hair stylists. Trimming one's own hair can save a person lots of time and money, but, since my hair is very curly, it has to be trimmed in sections, and it's easier and better for me to have a stylist do it.
After going to a number of stylists that turned out to not be so good (One hairstylist that I went to for quite a long time even turned out to be a heroin addict, who's now serving time in prison, and he had two kids, aged 12 and 16.), and had a very high turnover rate, my mom, knowing that I'm adamant about keeping my hair long, recommended a hair stylist for me that I find really fabulous. This was 3 or 4 years ago, and I've been going to this particular hairstylist every since!
I cut my own too, I use a razor
shareI stupidly got a Mohawk done years ago. Ended up as a full skinhead the next day to save the embarrassment.
shareI used to sport '90s DiCaprio-esque curtains hairstyle. It looked stupid because I didn't have the also needed DiCaprio-esque face.
sharePut me down for kind of a rocker, permy, mullet thing I had when I was younger.
Worst is very subjective. I like the term BEST!
It's a horrible, horrible memory, that could never be too distant.
Someone talked me into getting what was supposed to be a body wave -- just loose waves. Except, in reality, it became a very curly perm. I looked like a poodle!
It was a very, very bad look on me.
Same here. A long time ago perms looked terrible and I had this 'fro ~ hated it
shareI have very curly hair that I've always been adamant about keeping long (I've had short hair, hated it, and couldn't wait for it to grow long again.), and therefore, have had extremely judgmental people tell me that I should cut it all off and get an Afro. That was back in the 1970's, and the 1960's, as well. It took my getting really nasty and insulting towards these judgmental people to shut them up.
shareThat's too bad. What business is it of theirs what you do with *your* hair anyway? 😬
shareIt wasn't any of their business. I believe, however, that at least in part, it was a personality conflict, also. The people who did that were also people who intensely disliked me as a person, and they sort of used the fact that I kept my very naturally curly hair long as a topper, if one gets the drift. But that's how some people are. I didn't really like these particular people, either.
shareI'd have a personality conflict with anyone who thought what I did with my own hair was their business. They sound like bullies 👎
shareThank you for your kind response to my post. They were bullies, but I stood up to them, by refusing to cut my naturally curly hair and keeping it long, and even pointedly telling them where to get off, when they were too obnoxiously persistent. .
shareYou're welcome, and I'm glad you stood up to them. That was terrible behaviour on their part, so they needed to be put in their place.
shareThanks again for your support, Catbookss. Standing up to people who are bullies is important, especially bullies who are obnoxiously persistent in their ways.
I also think that bullies who make it their business how someone wears their hair have issues of their own that they're projecting, or attempting to project onto somebody that they really don't like as a person for other reasons.
You have my sympathies 😌
Some people look great with curly hair and 'fros, others not!
The only people who look good with 'fros are people with what's called type 4 hair, which is even tighter than what I've got.
What's funny is that there was a time, especially back in the mid to late 1960's, and throughout much of the 1970's is that the way in which various people wore their hair had sort of a political statement to it. Many people wore afros back in the 1970's as a sign of pride in their heritage. Long hair and beards on men was supposedly a sign of idealism and decency. Short hair, on men especially crew cuts, and being clean-shaven, supposedly indicated whiskey-drinking, tough, bigoted, nasty and more conservative individuals. Very long hair on girls and/or women was also a sign of idealism and gentleness. Now I realize that all the political statements that hair supposedly made were just simply a mirage.