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Well? What's the story? Have you finally grown a pair and told her what happened?
I hate cliffhangers!
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I will depart from most of the advice here and say this:
If there is absolutely no chance she will ever find out, absent your confession, don't do it. It is my belief that, in such a case, you are only serving your own interests of relieving guilt and anxiety by going through the confession-forgiveness cycle.
Depends man. Is it an ongoing affair or was it a one time drunken mistake with someone you will never see again?
shareYou know whats worse than cheating? Pretending it never happened. You fucked up and its time to man up.
shareHave you ever noticed what the immediate go-to response is for a busted cheater ?
" It didn't mean anything. "
I don't understand why people who aren't in an unhappy relationship still cheat. I mean, do they seriously have that little self control and lack of respect for their partners?
" It didn't mean anything. "
Tell me about it! Talk about adding insult to injury. If it didn't mean anything, why did it happen, and what does that say about the loving relationship that this fool is suppose to have with his girlfriend???
Totally random but I am binge watching Party of 5 right now and on season 1 Charlie thought he got a way with it, till Kirsten found a lipstick thing in his truck and knew right away. Women are very smart when it comes to this. Guys have a certain stink they give off when they are guilty. Women just know. As well they should.
shareThey give it off in their demeanor.
I think it really is a crappy thing to do, but it's made worse if they try to get away with it by not saying anything.
Sorry I meant to post that in the main thread not as a reply. But yes I agree. Now there are two ways of thinking about it.
1. If it happened as a 1 time thing, perhaps in a drunken stuper with someone you will never ever see again (baring STD and pregnancy scares) with no emotional attachment is that at least forgivable as apposed to
2. A fling with someone where there is an emotional connection as well, and there is constant lying.
Also I have no idea of the age of this person, but based on the comment that they are living together. Was it sex or kissing or other.
Now I am not saying cheating is ok, but some people choose to forgive. and some people can't.
And then a lot of times, Margo, they don’t have any idea WHAT to say, like the OP, so they stupidly hope for the best. It’s like what Travolta said in Get Shorty: “You’re trying to say that you fucked up without sounding stupid, and that’s hard to do.”
shareI’ve seen only one reply from the OP in the course of this topic, so I can’t take him seriously any longer. I’m thinking this is yet another pity-plea troll topic, like the celebrated dead-fiancée hoax.
shareYes, I have also been wondering where he got off to..... unless he told her and all hell broke loose. In that case, maybe he'd rather not deal with anyone.... least of all us.
shareCould be right.
shareAnd for a man it is medicinal at times. The difference twixt masturbation & copulation is worlds apart. This old adage holds fast=
What's the quickest way to make a woman stop having sex with you? Marry her. It's maddening.
The man can drive himself nutty nuts trying to fathom this phenomenon, but, it does not matter (why). Man must bust nut in woman.
And for a man it is medicinal at times.
I agree insomuch that sex, for a man, is primarily about stress relief. And there's science that confirms that ejaculation is beneficial to male health and longevity.
For a woman, there's usually an emotional component involved.
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She changed her job to move in...can’t put her through it.
shareWeak ass excuse. Stop being selfish and tell her the truth. Maybe take an online test for Sociopathy?
shareAnd you’re realizing this after the f/act? There’s this thing called a foreseeable consequence. The reality is that you ARE putting her through it, because “it” has already happened. The question is, HOW are you going to move ahead: with love, honor and strength, or are you going to hope that she never finds out? Will you take the effort to learn WHY you did this to THE BOTH OF YOU, so you can be certain that you will never betray her again? Because, if you marry and you do it again, a divorce is a hell of a bigger emotional, financial, social and professional shit storm than a girlfriend and boyfriend breaking up; and there could be children in the picture, as well.
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Is the 'other woman' hot ???
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