Meetup


Have any of you Movie Chatters ever met up with someone you had previously established an anonymous online relationship with? Not really talking about quick sex hookups or anything like that, but more meeting someone you chatted with quite a bit but only knew as a username. This site or others, and if not, would you?

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I have a few Facebook friends from IMDb Prometheus board.
I wouldn't meet someone personally but I wouldn't say people shouldn't as long as they were cautious.

Have you?

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Nope. I was curious if anyone had, looks like frogarama did and went well. I thought of it because this is the first online community I've been a part of that I actually find myself wondering about people in real life, and wouldn't mind doing it, depending on the users.

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I don't want to meet up with people I've spoke to online.

I'd rather keep them in their Platonic ideal state rather than have reality spoil any considerations I have of them.

Not that I have to fear the reverse.

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No,never

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I was a member of a private forum many years ago, I went to at least two or three meetups we did for the members in the LA area. I even hosted one at the apartment I lived in at the time. It was a good group and we all knew each other very well.

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Still in touch with them?

The wider community I mean, not the people that you met up with personally.

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Nope. This was all around 2005 to 2007.

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I think it was more common back then, but I've found myself pondering about what y'all are like IRL

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There was once a thread where we posted what we thought the others were like.

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Well here's a photo of me meeting my new girlfriend for the first time:
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/91/55/42/9155429943a24a098e747a2aa622d6b0.jpg

I miss her. R.I.P.

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What did she die of, puberty?

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Fair enough. I've kept in touch with some people over the years - but not all of them.

Learned most of my skills of not meeting up with people from the stories of those who did.

A few marriages and children came from Internet communities I was a part of, certainly not all bad having real life experiences with online friends.

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2005 I was at tvtome.
2005 to 2007 I was at tvrage.

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Why ruin the illusion???

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I've never met anyone from online but I know of those who have.

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I've met dozens of chatters.... The last one was an editor at the SF Chronicle (during the last days of IMDB chat) and we only started talking because of our mutual love of similar movies/music... Then one day I mentioned SF, and he said he was there, so we met up and talked a bunch.

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