Why do you...


live where you live?

So many people complain about where they are but never do anything
to change it.

Is that you don't have a choice?
Would you rather live somewhere else?
Do you prefer small town life or the bright lights big city?
Have you moved then moved back to where you started?
Is it family?

For me I've moved over 30 times in my life.
I've lived in 5 different states.
I'm now back where I started from.
This is where I was born and this will be where I die.
I've done small town and big city.
I now live in the country only a few miles from the city.
The best of both worlds for me.

Why do you live where you live?

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I live in the best city in a America, and I wanted to live here. I'm close to Hollywood, close to everything I need, but I'm not living in a crowded or dense area. It's a nice neighborhood and I even made sure to pick a street that didn't have a stoplight at either end, to reduce traffic cutting through.

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Have you ever lived in a small town or somewhere that isn't a neighborhood?

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I grew up in Bonner Springs, Kansas, which was a pretty small town. Always in neighborhoods, though. Never out in the boonies.

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Does it ever bother you having people right on top of you?
I look now and there are so many houses right on top of other houses.
I haven't lived like that in many years. I don't think I could ever go back to that.

I can go in my yard and crank my music and nobody would ever know I was there.
No noise, no traffic just peace.

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Sometimes, but I live in a pretty quiet spot, considering the area. The advantages and conveniences outweigh the density, for me.

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What made you move, was it work or just a change?

Good, I'm glad you found your spot.
It took me a long time to find it.
Turns out it was under my nose the whole time.

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I moved to SoCal many years ago to try getting into the movie business, and I've gotten pretty close so far. It's a long shot, but it's really all I'm interested in other than theoretical physics.

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Follow the dream.
Not many of us can say we did that.
We talk about it but never do it.

Hope it works out for you.

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An engineer, a physicist, a mathematician, and a mystic were asked to name the greatest invention of all times.

The engineer chose fire, which gave humanity power over matter.
The physicist chose the wheel, which gave humanity power over space.
The mathematician chose the alphabet, which gave humanity power over symbols.

The mystic chose the thermos bottle.
"Why a thermos bottle?" the others asked.
"Because the thermos keeps hot liquids hot in winter, and cold liquids cold in summer."
"Yes --- so what?"
"Think about it," said the mystic reverently. "That little bottle -- how does it know?"



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"No noise, no traffic just peace."

Again, that's what I'm after. Not that I do much (any!) music-cranking, in the yard or otherwise. Well, okay, maybe very *occasionally* inside ;p

Where I'd lived for many years was a quiet enough neighborhood, and small enough that we all knew one another and were friendly. But, it was too close to the freeway. Originally that wasn't a problem, but gradually traffic increased so no matter the time, day or night, there was always, always that white noise from the freeway.

So one of the things I looked for when I finally moved, was QUIET! And I got it. All I could hear was the sound of birds, sometimes kids playing, and sometimes (less pleasantly) leaf blowers, but not enough of the latter to bother me much.That was bliss.

It's similar where I am now, because it is something I value. Tonight, because it's rained and is nearing spring, I hear a lot of frogs croaking, and love that. Also like seeing the moon behind the stately old trees.

It's also reasonably sparsely populated. More here than the past two places I've lived. I like it, but there are other *cough, cough, wink* things I don't like about it, and I'll be out of here by May. Hopefully to somewhere that has the elements of all of these places that I like so much.

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Funny thing is until you experience it you never would miss it.

I was fine in a small town neighborhood and dealing with loud neighbors and all that.
Once I moved I knew I could never go back.
It also comes at a cost. It's not always cheap to find these places.
I was lucky enough to find a fixer upper and am constantly remodeling.
I do most of it myself so it's not that expensive but is more work.
Right now it sucks with the flooding but I still wouldn't change it for anything.

I couldn't imagine taking the pups into the city. They wouldn't know what to do.
The country is all they know.

You have some time and I'm sure you'll find something.




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What, the ability to crank up the music in the yard?

I can't, won't, deal with loud neighbours. Nope. Been there, done that, years ago. I don't care if one or two occasionally throws a party, but it can't be a regular thing, and they can't live too close.

From what I've been looking at, the farther out you go, the less expensive it is. You are lucky though, that you found your place, and that you are handy enough to do most of the work yourself. The flooding part does suck. What happened Thursday? I've been meaning to ask you. Did things get worse, stay the same, or ?

It'd be hard for pups who only know the peace and natural smells of the country to try to adapt to the noise and weird smells of the city. I think I'd like mine to be bi-city/country, just like me, although with an emphasis on the country part. Visit the city, live in the country.

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In my area at least, the smaller towns further out are cheaper.
Then it becomes about the daily commute to work.

I should have become a weatherman. Apparently you can be totally wrong
and it's all OK. You just give away a free umbrella or something and all is good.
We got nothing on Thursday.
The storm stayed south of us. Sorry for those south but I was happy.
Another few days to dry out until the next storm.
I still have water leaking into the basement.
The water table is so high right now It will take awhile.

I love bi-country!
My pups are NOT bi-country. They are country. My fault.
They don't get exposed to many other dogs
They do get exposed to people and usually bark for a few seconds but then are good.
They bark at anything strange.
Which is what I trained them for but not exactly everything I had hoped.
It's a fine line with my crew.

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YAY, no more flooding from Thursday's supposed Big Storm!!! Well damn, that's a huge relief. You sure as HECK didn't need any more salt (water) thrown on your already flooding basement. Sure, I'm sorry for your southernly neighbours, but am selfishly happy for YOU! About time you got a break, such as it was. Hoping for a dry spell so the earth has a chance to dry out some.

I got an umbrella, no thanks to the weathermen.

Yeah, if you'd exposed them to some city, they'd have been good with it. But really, what compelling reason would you have to do that? I'm going with "none."

My girly didn't know how to socialise with other dogs when I got her, but I taught her and she became so good and non-reactive, I used her to help other dogs who had problems. She was also a great guard dog. She'd bark if a dog came by, but soon I got to recognise when it was that kind of bark, and when it was an urgent "you'd better go out and look" kind of bark. She was fine with people, but at first iffy with kids. That made me nervous, and eventually I got her over that, although I wouldn't have trusted her with a toddler; they're too unpredictable.

Damn, I miss her. It never goes away. But once I'm able to have and can find my new dog, that'll help a ton. There were so many qualities she had that I'm going to be looking for again. The only quality she had I DO NOT want again is shedding more than any animal I've ever known.

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I'm selfishly happy for me too!
I'll take it at this point.

For me it isn't worth exposing them. They never leave the yard.
If I do walk them it's always on my property.
Most of the time they get free reign.

Ohhhhh, I know you miss her.
Even though I never met her I miss her too.
Two of mine are crazy shedders.
I could vacuum everyday but don't have the energy.
I only do it every other day and it's a lot.
I brush during the summer and it looks like a snowstorm hit!

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"I'm an old Kansas man myself"

The Wizard of Oz



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Well,it wasn't my decision.I lived in the city untill 2003,after that my parents bought a house and we moved on country - side.And i must say,i love to be a farmer.

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If you had a choice would you stay in the country or move to the city?

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I will never move in the city again.I like where i'm staying now,fresh air,without air polution,alot of hard work,but it's worth it.

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"Why do you live where you live?"

My spaceship is broken and so I'm stuck here 🙃

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Find some Reese's Pieces and a phone and just go home.

This is no excuse!

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You are right Dewey, there's no reason for me not to pick up a phone and give it a whirl.

It'll have to be a collect call though.

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You're not paying for it so what does it matter?

Although this is a pretty nice to be.
Hopefully you'll stick around.

Unless you're one of those weirdo Signs aliens who doesn't like water.
Then good luck to you.

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I'm pretty laid back but the alien mafia are after me and they'll not be nice people should they ever show up Dewey.

Fortunately they are afraid of talentless hacks and so at least Hollywood should be safe.

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OK, got it.
I've never even heard of you before.

Talentless hacks? Yes, you'll fit in nicely here.
Pull up a chair and stay awhile.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKzsbUtlHR4

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That is awesome!

At first I was like " what level of Pitfall is this?"
So I dated myself. Deal with it!

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Ah yes, Pitfall - the original Jumanji remake's prequel.

Need proof?

https://youtu.be/DA4V-n8Ft3g?t=5s

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You just blew my mind!

I actually remember that commercial.
I had no idea that was Jack Black.
That is just plain CRAZY.

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You think that's weird?

Wait till you find out that the main character of that game is based on me!

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Ha!

I always pictured you with a buzz cut and jumping over logs.
That's just me though.

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I actually got lucky with that one Dewey. I auditioned for the role of Indy in Raiders of the Lost Ark for the twenty six hundred from Ah-Tah-Ree and was thankfully turned down for it.

Raiders was a vast improvement on E.T. and helped establish the adventure game genre further but Pitfall! was what all the cool kids were playing and so I landed on my feet (Pardon the pun) with that one.

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One of the regrets of my life.
I never finished E.T.
I'm not sure it had an ending. It seemed to go on forever.

You did land on your feet.
You landed right here on MC!

My favorite thing about Pitfall was going in a pit, climbing up the ladder
and waiting for the log to roll by.
Just pop your head up when it went by.
It really did sound like you were getting a buzz cut.

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The audio in those early games wasn't up to scratch in my opinion. That's why I went for the Impossible Mission clip way up at the top of this chain.

Slightly off-topic but do you think that Stephen Hawkings's voice when he's inner monologuing is the same as the automated voice he's been using for decades now or do you think he still thinks in his original voice?

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That's a good question.

It would almost have to be automated.
I mean that's what he hears all the time.
Over time he would have to forget his real voice.

What I'm wondering is if he does impressions?

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What, like in his head or over his audio assistance hardware?

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Both.

In his head he can do a DeNiro but it sounds the same
as his Brando when it comes out.
That would be frustrating.

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That would be really frustrating Dewey!

It's a great idea for a YouTube channel though 😋

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A friend insisted on taking me to see ET, because she thought it was so great. I fell asleep. First and last time ever falling asleep in a theatre.

Since then I've seen it all the way through. It was cute, although I can't help thinking ET was based too much on a Galapogus tortoise. The head anyway. Not great, but okay. A nice change from aliens are ebil in any event.

Hey, Juror 8, welcome! I loved Raiders. Best adventure movie ever, IMO.

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Thanks Catbookss!

Raiders was a great adventure movie, I think I prefer Last Crusade over it but that's probably because they got all the characters down tightly by then.

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I hope you'll stick around, Juror!

Having Connery playing Indy's dad was a lot of fun, but for me the romance angle was shoehorned in and who cared? Whereas Marion was a great character, and integral to Raiders' story. Plus it was so fresh at the time. So IMO it's the best adventure, matinee film ever made.

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Thanks Catbookss!

Marion and Indy's relationship with her did give Raiders that big boost in appeal as well as it being a great adventure as it was.

The romantic foil in Crusade is only fun because of the implication she'd slept with both Jones' at some point. Beyond that her character isn't too important whereas Marion is threaded throughout the story of Raiders from before we meet her right up until the end.

Each Indiana Jones movie has its own style but certainly the two which are on their top game are these two.

I enjoyed them all to a degree but Raiders and Crusade are sublime in their storytelling and ability to thrill.

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Yes, it certainly did. She was a great character, at least in Raiders. Allen and Ford had such great chemistry in it! Similar to the chemistry between Ford and Connery, which was also great.

But Raiders had so many great characters: Belloq, the Peter Lorre-esque guy, Indy's friend Sallah, even the captain of the boat.

To me the implication that she slept with both Indy and his father was throw-away, and she just wasn't interesting.

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I agree that the fraulein character was a bit throwaway beyond her sexual promiscuity but I suppose her being a doctor challenges the assumptions of educated women of that era.

Crusade has Hitler sign the Grail diary for Indy, that's pretty top notch topical comedy right there.

Maybe not up there with the Arabic sword fighter scene from Raiders but memorable nonetheless.

I think the crocodiles being thrown into the water at the end of Temple of Doom is another of my favourite Indy moments (Albeit comedic on accident).

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Personally, I didn't find either her promiscuity or the fact that she was a doctor interesting.

"Crusade has Hitler sign the Grail diary for Indy, that's pretty top notch topical comedy right there."

😂 Hilarious! And memorable, although I have to confess I don't remember that. I assume my attention drifted a lot when Ford and Connery weren't on the screen.

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Lol.



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The schools are amazing
There are woods and ponds and trails everywhere
My neighbors are all decent people
Almost no crime
Larger homes and a nice yard are affordable if you dont mind a bit of a commute to the gig
Lots of wildlife...

Im never living in or near a city again
Thanks for asking...fun thread

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Sounds awesome!

It's always about the commute isn't it.
My old place was about 50 miles from where I worked at that time.
100 miles a day.
It got to be too much of a drive. Especially in the winter.

I was lucky enough to find the place I'm at now.
I'm with you I would never live in the city again.
I'm not sure I would even live in a small town.
Once you don't have immediate neighbors it's awful hard to back to having them.

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Yeah the drive is long but i have the satellite radio...never out of music!

And agreed on the neighbor thing-
I like STFU time with my radio, a drink and a smoke after work...none of this 'pop in' shit
These neighbors of mine are all on an acre or two with shrubby treelines blocking us off from each other
Very nice people though

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"These neighbors of mine are all on an acre or two with shrubby treelines blocking us off from each other
Very nice people though"

Sounds great to me! And the woods, ponds, trails everywhere part. Woods, ponds, streams, creeks, that's the environment that's always felt like home to me, even though I've yet to live in it. You go, Shogie!

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The world should never be out of music.

My whole life is STFU so I'm in!
Neighbors are always hit or miss.
I've noticed once you get out of the city the people are more trusting and friendly.
Even if it's just a few miles.

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"I now live in the country only a few miles from the city."

That sounds idea to me. I love the beauty and the peace of the country, but am also a sucker for culture. I also like the friendliness of small towns. I'm still looking for my version of what you have, and am not sure where in the country it is. Sooner or later, I'll finally find where I belong.

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Best of luck to you
You will find your perfect place
You deserve it!

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Thank you!

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I know you'll find it.

There are many places like this out there.
I'm completely isolated but in 10 minutes I can be surrounded by everything.

Nobody deserves it more than you do.
Keep the dream alive!

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I don't want to be completely isolated. I want nice neighbours, in a situation like Shogie has. And I also don't want to live where I'll have more natural (or unnatural) disasters to contend with! Enough already.

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I hear you.

That place exists. It's just a matter of finding it.
It does seem though wherever you got there is something doesn't it?
Whether it be floods, blizzards, mudslides, earthquakes, hurricanes or tornadoes.

Enough is ENOUGH!!!!

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Yeah. My dear friend in Florida wants me to get the hell out of CA, asap. She thinks it isn't safe. As I told her before, where the hell IS it safe?? She'd told me before if it's deadly, it's in FL. Then I sweated bullets for her over Irma, and she was hardly the first hurricane to hit FL, nor the last.

I know I don't want to live in tornado alley, or hurricane alley, or where blizzards are likely, or floods and mudslides (!! I've been through a few disasters, and this was by far the worse). Or another major earthquake. Or a tsunami.

Fires can happen anywhere, but it's worse where there's a drought, and there have been times in the past 5 years where it's felt like the entire state was on fire.

I also don't want to suffer every single summer because the humidity is unbearable. I can deal with some, even though it's never pleasant.

So yeah, the Somewhere has to exist. Somewhere. But where, is the million dollar question? Dunno yet.

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Out of the places that I've lived Utah was the most beautiful.
I don't remember anything bad happening.
I was also young and we weren't there that long.

Arizona was/is nice but it is the desert.

Where I am now is green and has lakes and all that but the winters can be
harsh and tornadoes are always on the table. No mudslides or fires though.
The summers are awesome and the falls are amazing.
We do have our share of humidity but nothing like Florida or some of those states.
I always choose the lesser of all the evils.

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When I drove through AZ, and maybe Utah? Probably not Utah, now that I think of it. Anyway, there were parts I thought were beautiful in its way. The rock formations. Same as in New Mexico. But it's just not *my* natural habitat, you know?

I'm drawn to woods, forests, creeks, streams, ponds, that kind of thing. GREEN, give me green! And water.

... Ha! Just read the rest of your post where you say it's green. I'm more drawn to ponds, creeks, and streams, than lakes, although lakes are nice too. Having now read about heartworm, I'm going to avoid standing water (ponds), and I'm more attracted to running water anyway. Love the sound! Also, visually, it does something for me. Nothing like sitting or lying next to a running creek or stream, IMO.

Yeah, I don't want harsh winters. My native CA blood is too thin for that. Which is but one reason why Asheville sounded so great to me. A snowfall or two a year that melts within 24 hours, that sounds like fun! I could deal with that. Blizzards, not so much. Tornadoes scare the pants off of me.

Aren't summers in WI very humid? I thought they were.

FL is OUT! I've been there twice and they have no air. Plus ... other reasons.

I too am looking for the lesser of the evils. Part of me is very attracted to Seattle, or outside of. But I know I couldn't handle that much rain and overcast, as beautiful as it is, and as much as the culture attracts me. Similar, but not quite as attractive to me, is Oregon.

I know Asheville can get quite humid, but is also supposed to be pretty temperate. Far inland enough (as west as you can get in NC) so it doesn't take the brunt of storms. Although, the very nice real estate agent I met there and am still in touch with told me a few weeks ago it was 7 degrees!!! Yikes.

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I'm all about the green too.

Truth be told heartworm isn't that big of a deal.
I mean it's serious if the pups get it but it's not that common.

Winters are a crapshoot. Some are harsh others are nothing.
For me it's a trade off.

Tornadoes are scary but so are hurricanes.
WI is humid. Not terribly so. Certain times of the summer it's really humid.
It's usually only a few weeks out of the whole year so you live with it.
It also is part of why it's so green. Once again, it's a trade off.

Hopefully you can still make something work in NC.
That would be wonderful.

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Green is crucial to me, and water. Hand in hand.

It's the preventative heartworm medication that bothers me. But we've discussed that on another board.

Tornadoes, hurricanes, and tsunamis scare me. I'm used to earthquakes, but when it's a big one, it is scary.

If it's only humid a few weeks out of the year, that I could deal with. Air conditioning in car and house would pretty much take care of that. Or so I think. Hope.

For some reason for all of my life people have assumed I'm either from Europe or the east coast. Not about to move to Europe, however great southern France sounds, so maybe I *do* belong there in NC. Even though I asked Nice Real Estate Agent Guy how likely it'd be I'd run into you-know-who, and he said pretty likely about every 6 months. Which isn't terrible, but would be unpleasant. I just don't know.

Meanwhile, the mere idea of finding a nice place here, in some form of nature but also safe, where I can have a nice PRIVATE garden and a dog, and things be familiar and stable, for a year, to recover from everything, sounds like heaven.

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As you know I don't like the heartworm medication either but heartworm is much worse.
My pups are only on it for half the year. Not during the winter.

When those days of high temps and high humidity happen you just close the windows
and turn on the air. It's not that bad at all.

NC is a big state. I'm sure there are other areas.
It would suck to run into you know who but is it enough to ruin your life?

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But Cat, chasing tornadoes is a WHOLE bunch of fun, and an incredible Adrenalin rush!



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In my adult life I've lived in several places in different countries... Big cities like London and New York as well as spending a few months at a time in smaller places like Malta, Stockholm and such...

I've been lucky, but most of my 20s was spent inside of office buildings slaving away for old men... 😂

I love the idea of living in the country or by the sea while being close enough to spend time in a metropolitain or sizable city... End game... Right now I live in Dubai, which is like a small coastal town that looks and feels like a city 😉 ... or a mall/hotel 😂 ...

Family matters to me a lot... Very much in touch with my extended family as I visit my hometown monthly... But earning a living keeps me where I am at the moment...

I don't have a crazy lifestyle, unlike most of my peers who spend all they earn, so that gives me flexibility to move around a bit and to pursue things that matter to me in my personal life and work... And movies! Lots of movies 😎

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Dubai- or a mall/hotel 😂
That literally made me laugh.

Sounds like you've been able to live in some great places.
You've had the chance that many don't get and have seen many places.
So when you are ready to settle down you can just pick your favorite.

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Small town living for life! I'd love to buy some land in the country someday. City is a toilet, can't stand it.

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I'm with you.

I'd never go back to living in a city.
I like my peace and quiet too much.

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Guess I'm the only one who doesn't love where they live?

I live in a small town with a reputation, I guess one would call it, for not being the best of places. That's putting it mildly. It's not a great place to raise kids or slap on a real estate advertisement. But it's cheap to rent here and there's something oddly comforting about being in a place you're used to, over being somewhere that's only potentially better but unfamiliar.

I would move if I was in the financial position to, but I'm not mad about where I am either.

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I don't think I would say everybody loves where they live.

I think like you said everybody likes what they have and it's familiar to them.
Sometimes that's all you need.
I've packed up and moved cross country a couple times.
I went from extremely small town to a large city. I didn't like it at first but after while I grew not to hate it
and appreciate what it had to offer.
I think we all can adapt to our surroundings.

For me I'm in the best place that I can be for what I'm looking for at this point in my life.
I'm sure there are better places out there but I haven't seen them so I don't know what I'm missing.
Being comfortable and familiar I think has a lot to do with it.

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That's pretty cool. It's a good position to be in. I hope to be in a place like that someday , where familiar and comfortable are synonymous with a little more than temporarily content - like happy.

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