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Sense of humor?


(Sense of) humor:
1. A comic, absurd, or incongruous quality causing amusement.
2. The faculty of perceiving or expressing what is amusing or comical.

Do you think you’re born with it? Or is it something that develops as you grow? If you don’t have a sense of humor, can you acquire one?

Most people are able to experience humour—be amused or laugh at something funny—and are considered to have a sense of humor. A person lacking a sense of humor would likely find the behavior causing it to be strange, or even irrational.

I think the degree to which a person finds something funny depends on things like maturity, intelligence, culture and, of course, context. Kids can understand the humor of slapstick and outright silliness in cartoons, for example. But to appreciate satire, a person needs a level of maturity and the ability to understand context and social meaning. I tend to think a sense of humor develops as you mature, but it makes me wonder about people who don’t have one. What kind of environment might they have grown up in to have missed this development?

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You need a reasonable amount of intelligence but yes, I believe if you hang out with witty people who are funny or have good taste in comedy, you will become more quick witted yourself. I'm not talking about a few hours... but have a long friendship or relationship with these types. Conversely, if you lose exposure to these people, you will become less funny. Not that you won't be funny anymore or appreciate it, but the quickness will disappear.

There is a natural component to this... I think native intelligence helps a lot... a lot of comedy relies on memory so you can either do sharp impressions of people, or quickly reference pop culture ideas and memes. But there definitely is a lot of conditioning and environment as well. So yeah, if you hung around people that were quiet, or never said anything funny... and you didn't watch any funny shows, it would be hard to have a sense of humor unless you picked up a group a friends later on in life who were.

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Most people consider me "cold as a fish".

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Maybe you should put on a coat.
(just kidding)

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i think if you are in a humourless environment in your formative years, particularly one where you are surrounded by pedantic literal-minded people, it could impair your development of a sense of humour...

I feek for young people in university in the USA... Gladly, it is too late in their development to cause permenant impairment but it could stunt a few...

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Not all satire is funny, nor is it intended to be. Swift's "A Modest Proposal," is prima facie horrific, yet is a classic satire.

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Some people just don't seem to have it.

At least it can be taught to artificial intelligence. Like R2D2 using his zapper or teasing Yoda. Or V.I.C.K.I. playing a prank on Mrs. Poole.

Sadly, robots may never learn to love.

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The degree to which a person is funny depends on how much talent s/he was born with. I have been funny since I've been able to speak. When I was a little boy, asleep in bed, and my parents had a cocktail party, their friends would always say, "Let's wake up the funny kid," and they would wake me, and I would stand in front of the party and tell them jokes I had seen on TV on things like The Tonight Show and The Steve Allen show. It's a very powerful thing, being able to make an entire room of people laugh, especially when the room is filled with adults are you are 5 years old. Obviously, it gave me confidence.

Telling jokes you've stolen, and did not create yourself, is still hard to do, and get laughs. There's a wonderful scene in the film, My Favorite Year, where TV comedy writer Benjy Stone is teaching his girlfriend how to do stand-up, with a prefab joke. He shows her the importance of body language (never tell a joke seated, talk with your hands), diction (it's never "a man," it's always "this guy") and, most important of all--TIMING!

Once you have your confidence, you learn what makes people laugh from experience, and you start to get confidence enough to create your own stuff. I can do stand-up, but I can do literary humor. You have all seen me. Written humor is hard, because there is no audience in front of you. You have to KNOW how they are going to react, and it takes real guts to do chancy, edgy funny stuff in print. It can also entertain a huge audience. It is also, believe me, The Jazz.

In 1991, I was a guest when Walt Disney World held its 25th Anniversary Celebration. President Bush was also a guest. There were over 10,000 of us at the closing ceremony. The Master of Ceremonies, speaking on a public address system, said, "Ladies and gentlemen, let's all say thank you to President Bush," and I, in a split nanosecond, before the applause could start, cupped my hands around my mouth and yelled at the top of my lungs, "THANKS, GEORGE!," and the

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crowd exploded in laughter. Truly funny people think very fast, it is true, but most of us, over time, build up a library of material that we can repurpose at the drop of a hat to make us appear faster than we are. But the simple, direct, unsophisticated "Thanks, George!" joke illustrates one of what I think are the two fundamental rules of humor. The first, from Andrew Marvell: "Wit is nature to advantage dressed/What oft was thought, but ne'er so well expressed." The other rule, from R_Kane is: the truer the joke is, the funnier the joke is.

I hope you never underestimate the real power of humor, and the tremendous healing power of laughter.

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Cool story, bro

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I believe it's something which develops as you grow.

A new college student asks a professor: "Where's the library at?"
He responds: "You shouldn't end a sentence with a preposition."
The student replies: "Okay, where's the library at, asshole?"




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I think you have one or you don't.

There are different kinds of humor.
I can't tell a joke to save my life but can usually come up with some comment after
somebody says something. Usually a smart-ass response.
Which begs the question If you say something funny to you and nobody laughs is it still funny?

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It might be. Humor professionals rarely actually laugh, no matter how keen their wits. What we say among ourselves is, and this is genuine and not sarcasm, "That's funny." Being truly, and consistently, funny takes an unusual combination of confidence, relaxation and near-superhuman calculation, very much like being an Olympic gold medalist. Emotion is not part of the equation. The emotion the equation evokes, though, is beyond price.

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I do believe confidence is a very large aspect.

I've known extremely quiet and reserved people who are very funny.
They would never say anything in a large group but get them in a one on one situation they are hysterical.
Not to mention you can never have a fear of failing. (This is a great life rule.)
Sometimes it goes over people's heads or you're not on the same wavelength.
Either way never stop trying to make people laugh or smile.
Laughter really is the best medicine.

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