Why keep up the charade?

He knows good and we'll he is gay or bisexual. I understand he probably felt pressure and thought he was honoring God by marrying a woman. This men continue to tell themselves lies to live that life and think by possibly their keeping the family together which is a good thing. I get the struggle to come to terms to your sexuality but don't bring a wife and child into this. Why would he family plan? Even if he comes out later in marriage it will hurt his family. I just wish men like him wouldn't be so afraid to live their life and feel the need to live this way. In the past I could see there being more of a need to hide who you are but know it is so much easier to come out.Cheating happens and I get that but this goes a lot deeper than that. They could make it work if that's what she wants but he has to tell her but he shouldn't keep this up. It takes people longer than some to come out and maybe he didn't realize it until now but to co. Does he not we how he is hurting his wife already? Kevin may feel like he's too far into it to back out now but it's never to late. It would be hard to leave her while she's pregnant and I understand if he doesn't tell her right now although I still think he should. Kevin shouldn't have been trying to have kids with her knowing how he is. Maybe he's confused about what he wants out of life but being gay don't change. It will be a big blow up and cause a lot of pain to his wife. I just wish he would have loved his life from the beginning or at least tell her before they got married. I understand he may have just realized he was gay but that doesn't make it right possibly go out of the marriage. If she still wants to stay in the marriage after he tells her than that's up to her. He might think it would be better to stay because of the children but it's not better. I try not to judge and understand his struggles I just wish babies weren't brought into this and he would have loved his life. It would be almost impossible now to get out with the kids. It's a tough situation he got himself into and he needs to get himself out. I feel like he will eventually cheat or already had with how long he spends at the gym.