yep absolutely right, Greatornot. My general impression too.
And WORLD, know this: we are all entitled to our every opinion.
The same goes for you. Just do be AWARE we are all judging each other every single move you make.
And please don't try to argue otherwise!
Again, we ALL judge every single thing we come into contact with, very often, knowingly or at minimum, on subliminal level.
It's a good thing we do so.
That's how life works. Also usually helps us enormously.
And fortunately, our eyes, using them to observe, are part of what helps us assess things, situations (the true nature or context of them) & most of all, people.
We assert WHO we are to others in many, many ways.
From the moment we get up until we fall asleep, that is happening.
One HUGE signal to others is how we choose to appear.
Another, what we choose to say. Still plenty of others exist...how we treat others, our values & such.
So ALL of life contains a heck of a LOT of judgment.
Insecurity is RIGHT!
If not, like OP writes, WHY so defensive?
Just wear your tattoo proudly and be on your merry way.
But yes.... KNOW....we--and it's many of us, not all OLD-- will judge you silently. Some maybe not so silently (in form of looks & such).
Why? Because you speak volumes through your tattoos, piercings & clothes (among other things)
IF anyone thinks (and I do quite often) you might not be very bright, why care?
Yes, it's my hypothesis (and most others) that it's one of your ways to call out attention to yourself;
most of us rightly assume you're craving to to be noticed (in a pretty stupid, for-now trendy & permanent way), that's about it.
But hey....you can run on my lawn anytime.
Way to go returning a stereotype. Which yep, you're FREE to do in YOUR own opinion!!
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