Roses88,
I have a theory based on experience: I was married to an abusive man when I was a young woman (not on the level of this story). Ive also seen or experienced this in other kinds of situations too
so ... you know how sometimes a little event seems just .... kinda strange, or just doesnt really make sense?
Or a certain behavior in someone kinda seems 'off' ...
But people tend to isolate such things - you just sorta shrug it off at the time...
but in reality, your intuition was trying to operate. Still, we typically dont jump to assuming everyone playin loud music, or keepin' a dog in a separate room, has a human being tied & gagged.
Still, the fact is, when a persons actions raise more questions in your mind than logical answers you tend to wonder, and yet, we will still kinda tilt our head & shrug ...
But then, LATER when the whole truth comes out, you suddenly realize the exact reasons you questioned, wondered ...
every little slightly strange incident suddenly fits together confirming your own previous intuitive 'feeling' ...
It's like Oh, NOW that other thing he said, or that other thing he did, NOW I can what was being accepted as isolated erratic behavior, etc
Thats how every one in proximity of this guy felt.
Particularly family. I can almost 100% assure you, they had doubts, 'feelings' but kinda shrugged it off, but with family, you kinda know 'how far you can go' with questions and doubts. Some people will drop right into extreme drama. Sometimes we dont question strange behaviour of people out of embarrassment ...
for example, that house had to have had a septic reek to it ... but when people came to visit, they probably just blew it off as him being a really bad housekeeper, even though it was extreme ...
When the truth came out, it completley filled in the blanks for them.
That is but one example of an isolated 'thing' that creates illogic in the mind that we as humans, in an attempt to remain rational, will accept answers for regardless of intuition.
Then when the truth comes out, we go back and pick up all those isolated moments ... slap the forehead & solve the puzzles created by the perpetrator ...
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