is this accurate depiction of reality?
if it is, i think i'd like to move to Russia where LGBT thing is almost illegal. there is a point when too much democracy and freedom backfires
btw i know that this point of view is very unpopular but come on people, have you ever considered that maybe, just maybe you take all this gender thing too seriously? enough to involve surgery?
most simple explanation of this that i can think of is this example: why iPhone is so popular. because it restricts choices that you can make about configuring phone while android increases choices. someone already worried about those choices and made best decisions. you just accept the result. and result is that less choices in trivial stuff means you can focus your energy on choices about things that are really important
if you BELIEVED that you dont have a choice in picking gender then you would not worry about possibilities of changing it and eventually you would accept reality. and no matter what reality is, person cant stay too unhappy or too happy for too long. they compared and when initial reaction passes even most rich person and most disabled person have the same level of happiness