So what's the through-line here?
SPOILERS!!!
Did something happen in the resolution of this film that was supposed to let me not feel gross about it? I think I'm missing something. Here are the pieces I have:
As far as I can tell this could be a story of overcoming a life of shame. Shame gets mentioned a couple of times in reference to what happened when Michele was 10.
She's happy that her planned visit to her father prompts his suicide, maybe taking some of her power back from the event.
There seemed to be a turning point when she told her friend (Anna?) that she had been having sex with her husband. It was a conscious choice to stop lying.
The film starts with an assault, after which she takes no action, perhaps because she somehow feels she deserves it, although she does imagine bashing his head in. By the end she seems to orchestrate his downfall.
Two things make me feel gross about the end. The wife being grateful to Michele for being able to give her husband what he needed for a time. F-ing twisted. And then when she's talking to Anna about Robert at the end, she has no regrets about sleeping with her friend's husband! I mean, it's good to get over shame to the point of feeling you don't deserve to be abused, but losing your shame to the point of amorality seems excessive.
I don't think this film would be the critics favorite it is unless I were missing something. Thoughts? Interpretations?