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Since Jane has kissed guys


She's not really Jane the Virgin anymore, is she?

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You can`t loose virginity with kissing. Since Jane haven't had sex she is virgin, though giving birth should have broke her hymen.

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I am assuming you are not a troll but have genuine curiosities and I will answer accordingly.

Firstly, the one word answer to your question would be No. Kissing a guy does not make you lose your 'virginity'.

Having said that, the bigger concern is what is virginity?
Now, this virginity is a very dubious concept. Scientifically it means a person with an intact hymen. However socially it is associated with having sex. But in reality you can lose your virginity, which is actually break your hymen in number of ways. Using tampons, rigorous work outs, accidents etc. Some people also do not have a hymen to begin with, or a torn one. In that case having sex does not change anything.

Your idea of linking virginity with an amorous yet non-sexual behavior like kissing is inaccurate and to put it politely, almost juvenile. But it does reflect on the socially constructed notion of virginity and how people react to it.

I hope this clears your query.

Excuse my English, it's not my native tongue.

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Relevant video about sex and virginity

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ikXim4wevc

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Ah, sweet sweet abstinence-only education. Man, if you think kissing=loss of virginity, you're gonna be blown away when you actually have sex.

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Nonsense - passionate kissing can be intensely sexual, especially for women. I mean, women are capable of orgasming through thought alone. Sex and virginity tend to be defined in patriarchal terms. Virginity is a purely socially constructed concept to maintain male control over women's bodies historically anyway, so these days it needs to be either completely thrown away or redefined in more female-friendly terms.

IMO, any sexual contact you wouldn't do with your partner in public counts as sex and you stop being a virgin whenever you have a first satisfying experience of whatever sexual contact you've engaged in.

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Nonsense - passionate kissing can be intensely sexual, especially for women. I mean, women are capable of orgasming through thought alone. Sex and virginity tend to be defined in patriarchal terms. Virginity is a purely socially constructed concept to maintain male control over women's bodies historically anyway, so these days it needs to be either completely thrown away or redefined in more female-friendly terms.

IMO, any sexual contact you wouldn't do with your partner in public counts as sex and you stop being a virgin whenever you have a first satisfying experience of whatever sexual contact you've engaged in.



Ahhhh... shows like this seem to only contribute to the blind ignorance of some. It's like watching the Fast and the Furious, and the kids that come out of the movie theater thinking cars can really do that kind of stuff....

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Blind ignorance in regard to what?

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No, You get pregnant from kissing!! Duh

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