What is so wrong with the damsel in distress?
This is how most women get when faced with terrifying situations. We still see it in modern horror films. At least, they're trying to be real. Do people want women to stay away from men? Do they want men to not give a sh!t or not know when to be a hero? If women don't need men, they can't actually love men. Look at hypergamy. Women will throw men under the bus more often for being unemployed or being a "loser" or "deadbeat" than the other way around.
Get off your soapbox while I play you a tune on the tiniest violin.