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Nicole needs to check herself

posted 8 years ago by Lazaka
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I'm disgusted in that sorry excuse for a mother! After last night's show, it showed why she was a teen mom. As a matter of fact, that's the show she should have tried out for instead and probably did.

First off, what the hell is up with her parents? She moves to TX to be with a guy at a young age, gets pregnant, no doubt on purpose, and he wants nothing to do with her obviously and she moves back home to have her child. They don't sit her down and tell her that she needs to focus on being a mother not looking for another man? She's still thinks like a child herself. She's the most immature mother I ever witnessed and the sorriest excuse for one. Who leaves a two year old for 5 weeks to jet off to Morocco (where she didn't even know where it was!) to meet a man she met on the internet? Not seeing your 2 year old for 5 weeks? Sounds like she wanted a break actually.

Then we have her "fiance'" Anuz is it? Sorry if I spelled his name incorrectly, but he seems like a genuine guy. I don't know his intentions but he needs to get the hell out while he can and I seriously hope this relationship goes nowhere. She's a big fat baby and whiny sex maniac! I mean the police showed up at their Inn to kick them out due to laws and she keeps wanting to break them and if he doesn't she kicks up a fit. She has ZERO respect for other country's laws or his religion. She's all about her, her sexual needs, her emotional needs, her lack of self esteem to be fed by this poor guy. I feel bad for him and it looks like she actually puts her hands on him soon.

I hope he gets out before she knifes him in his sleep. Her mother was worried about her? I thought we had another Danielle/Mohammed case, it seems it's the other way around. He seems to genuinely care about her and her health, she cares about bedding him and food. She's lazy, selfish and just an emotional mess.

I hope he doesn't think all American Women are like this. She's an embarrassment. What could they possibly have in common? He comes off so much more mature, much nicer, calmer and sweeter. She's a fat brat and takes everything so personal, including an entire religion and country's laws. SELFISH WHINY BRAT.

I truly can't stand her. Wow, I ranted lol.

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] AntwoinD 8 years ago

She's a perfect storm of immaturity, idiocy and desperation. She is too young to be that desperate. She acts like this is her last chance at love and marriage and is sinking her talons in. I think she's one of those women with issues who literally attaches herself to any man who gives her attention hoping one will love her in that Prince Charming way and give her everything she needs and wants.

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

You put it much nicer than me, I know I was harsh, but yes, I agree.

She is so emotionally immature it boggles my mind that her parents let her move to TX as a teen then she got pregnant, again I believe on purpose because she must have felt that guy pulling away, and she comes home to nest and they then encourage her behavior with Anaz by not only going on the show, but taking care of her child for 5 weeks, 5 weeks! I thought she was going for 2 which I thought would have been a lot, but 5 weeks?!

My children are teenagers now and the longest I've been away from one of them has been 4 weeks and that was because he was in the UK, but we facetimed once a week and and called almost everyday. He also doesn't have any children lol.

I mean seriously, this girl has emotional issues and problems.

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] Fluffytoo 8 years ago

Kudos. You nailed it.

He does seem sincere but I can't imagine how they got this far.

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

It looks like by their interviews he makes it to the states, she outed him by saying they had sex on tv in his country, wouldn't that be breaking his laws and he would be in trouble if he goes back now?

Sounds like he's stuck to me. We should start a GoFundMe for him lol.

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] I_Love_Reality_TV 8 years ago

I agree with everything written about Nicole. But there's something really off about Azan. He's skyping with a single mother who obviously has oatmeal for brains. She's grossly obese which all of a sudden is a problem for him. It's not like he couldn't see her before she showed up in Morocco. Now all of a sudden he's upset because all she wants to eat is junk food. What did he think she was eating alfalfa spouts and wheat thins? And what exactly is he bringing to the table. Does he have a job? Did he pay for her ticket? What about her lodging? Who's footing the bill for that. It doesn't seem to me like he wants to leave Morocco. What's in it for him?

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

To be honest I did address the skyping thing, I believe they have an app that makes you look thinner and she used it. It's in my other post.

I haven't seen her reach in her pockets yet, he's paid for everything it seems. I don't know if he paid for her ticket, but she can't afford wifi, she had to go to a cafe for free wifi. Someone paid for it, I wonder who though?

I think he was grossly disappointed in her appearance but not ready to throw in the towel until she started acting like a spoiled baby and not wanting to at least try. Her blatant disrespect is mind blowing. She's one to watch.

Oh and I'll lose my ish if she comes home with him and her hillbilly family grills him and his intentions lol

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] acand187-2 8 years ago

I thought these two were going to be Danielle and Mohammed 2.0, but he does seem to be affectionate. Mohammed could barely hug Danielle without getting a pained look on his face. Azan(sp?) was affectionate when they were behind closed doors.

And as my fellow posters have said, she's all over him even after he has repeatedly told her what is acceptable in his country. He actually seems very respectable regarding intimacy, she acted like a giddy teen-age boy who had just nailed his girlfriend for the first time. I thought I was going to feel sorry for her...but I feel sorry for him!

My feet have wings, barf bag.

[–] sfinfam 8 years ago

I started out feeling sorry for her too, but no more. She needs a teddy-bear, not a husband. I nearly puked when she said he was her soul mate! She makes no effort to learn anything about him. She's a giant honey Boo-Boo. Spouting off whatever she wants and thinking it's cute. I do believe she thinks she's cute- like a naughty little kid- but she's nauseating.
Everyone on this show has an agenda, but whatever his is, it can't possibly be worth it.

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

 Giant Honey Boo Boo

Seriously though, she has no shame! She's like a 14 year old in a 22 year old overweight woman's body.

She should be more mature for her age because she's a mother, not acting half her age. The way she drapes herself on him and yells at him and apparently we get to see her get physical with him too.

I can't believe her mother was worried about her, she should have been worried about Anaz and what her daughter would do to her next victim.

You're right, they all have an agenda, whether it's to get their partner over here for free, to hurry the process, or to scam the system and get away with it like Mohamed is doing, they all have an agenda. His seem genuine and was willing to work with her because he didn't come off superficial. Something tells me he will use her for the greencard in the end and I won't even care, I just hope he doubled down on the condoms!

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

acand187, I too thought we were looking at Danny and Mo squared and would have felt a bit bad for her because she's much younger, but then I watched her in action vs. him and boy what a flip.

He keeps telling her he loves her and does seem affectionate, but she's really wearing on him, and me. That whole "we had sex!" scene was so uncomfortable when they were talking to the camera. He was trying to be nice by saying they had a nice intimate evening, but she couldn't wait to scream to the cameras and everyone back home that she nailed him. Her actions are disgusting in my opinion.

I'll go back to my theory that she got pregnant on purpose, most likely tricked some guy into believing she was on birth control, or poked holes in his condom because she felt him pulling away from her and when he found out she was pregnant, he told her to hit the bricks.

I too feel bad for him. I honestly think his intentions were good, trying to get her healthy by buying her healthy food and her scoffing at it. Her wanting to stop at every food tent she passes. Gritting her teeth at him in public in his own country. He has the patience of a saint, but after that full day at the market, you could tell he was done.

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] blacknyellowsquid 8 years ago

What's in it for him?

That's exactly my question. No way it could have been true love, all that. Just over a few weeks of skyping. And he doesn't seem to like anything about her.

But yeah I'm bothered at how blatantly disrespectful of his culture she's being. She does seem very insecure. Thinking he's her soulmate? Whatever gave her that impression, lol?

[–] FreyjaAlexa 8 years ago

We haven't learned too much about him so far, but he must really want U.S. citizenship. After seeing some of the crazy Americans on this show I must say some of the foreign fiancees really work hard for that green card! This poor guy is in a for a rough haul and you just know she's going to get pregnant asap.

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

I know a lot of people may not believe this, but perhaps he really loved her. She's not an ugly girl, just an ugly personality. Again, he may not have known she was that big of a baby and spoiled brat and instead of being totally disgusted by her, he tried, or is trying. I was shocked he didn't act like Mohamed, he showed her kindness and affection until she gritted her teeth at him and grabbed him by the waste in public. Very disrespectful. That night was the first night I saw disgust in his eyes when they parted for bed.

He seems happy in Morocco, it's a beautiful country, he seems to love it there, but he maybe looking for an independent American wife instead of a submissive, traditional Islamic wife. Or perhaps he accidentally fell in love and then fell out of it after seeing her true colors.

We don't know enough about him yet, but she sure has shown enough for me to dislike her and know what her intentions are.

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] blacknyellowsquid 8 years ago

I don't know, not buying it. And I'm not ruling out it being real love because of her appearance. I just don't get why someone would propose marriage on Skype after such a short time when, clearly, they don't really know each other that well.

I agree he didn't know what he was getting in to, though. And I don't think he's some evil man. Just...I'm suspicious. And the other friend hanging out, it seemed a lot like he was just playing along with the 'love' thing to me.

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

Well he hasn't properly proposed, she's going over there, leaving her 2 year old, for 5 weeks to see if it works out and if it does, he'll come back on a K1. That's when the engagement begins.

For all we know he thought they were just going to meet, she's the only one who's brought up marriage, right? has he even spoken of it?

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] blacknyellowsquid 8 years ago

I thought he had, however, I could be getting different stories mixed up. I thought in the first episode from August, she said they talked on skype and after like two weeks he proposed to marry her. But again...maybe that was a different story? I'll have to go back and see if I can find it.

[–] blacknyellowsquid 8 years ago

Yep, just rewatched it. You can find it on TLC's site. She said she started online dating because most men in the USA don't want to date a woman with a kid.

Then HE (Azan) messaged HER saying he wanted to get to know her. Then "three weeks in" they began talking about marriage, and then he sent her a message that said "Will you marry me?" with a little ring emoji. So she said yes.

But to get a K-1 visa, you need proof of a relationship. So, since they'd never actually met or anything, she's in Morocco now to kind of establish/prove they have a relationship.

So...there you go lol

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

Yes she said that though. He never properly proposed. I thought the one who proposed properly after 2 weeks was Pedro, no?

I'd have to rewatch myself, now with the Happily Ever After show I can't keep up.

I do think I recall him saying in one of his interviews he wanted his wife or fiance' to be healthy but I don't see a ring on her finger. These interviews are the ones that are taking place in what looks like America.

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] blacknyellowsquid 8 years ago

What I wrote above is almost verbatim what she said when describing what happened. Though of course it was coming from her, not Azan. I just don't think his intentions are as innocent as genuine interest online turned sour by how weird she acts in person. I think he had his designs on her for whatever ulterior reason, and was willing to go with it as a nice guy, hoping it'll work out for both of them... but she's quickly turning him off from even wanting to move forward with her (whatever his intention is).

[–] JJandS 8 years ago

As an American female, she and Danielle are embarrassing to all American women. When I was in college, I got the chance to befriend Muslim's and Hindu's because our all female house was close to the international student housing. I soaked in everything I could learn from them. I still remember our first gathering at a barbeque, we had hot dogs for the Hindu's and Hamburgers for the Muslim's. I also had a couple Ethiopian room mates and got to try their cuisine making as well as my Hindu friends goat curry. My Hindu friend brought me back a beautiful bracelet from Nepal as a gift on our Christmas vacation.

I am guessing TLC must pay for these trips. I could never imagine going to Africa and not researching culture and trying new things. Heck her PDA is more than I would want here in America.

That said, I hope other countries are kind of embarrassed about the people that are representing them badly as well.

[–] Lazaka 8 years ago

One would think this dope would have researched his country, his religious beliefs and their culture going to his country for 5 weeks and how to respect it. Instead, she breaks the law (well the both did) and tries to get rid of his best friend who was there as a buffer in case things went wrong and then toss him into the sack. Real classy.

I would have loved to have the chance to go to Morocco and take in the culture, try new food, enjoy the market, the people, the scenery. Not her, she just wants to spend her time in the sack with this guy. She's never had anyone as close to him as far as looks obviously, but that is no excuse for not respecting his country or his people.

I wish they arrested her and deported her, that would have taught her. He truly looks scared, I feel bad for him.

Oh just to add, when I have parties, I make sure I have all sorts of food put out for all the cultures and the allergies or vegetarians, vegans, etc. at my get togethers to make everyone feel at home, same with drinks. It's just what you do as a good hostess and a nice person. Nicole is not nice, she is a selfish girl with selfish motives, which is why she is a teen mom who had no qualms about leaving her precious 2 year old for 5 weeks with a young sister to fly off to meet a man she met on the internet for what she thought was 5 weeks of sex.

Joon:you're out of your tree Sam: it's not my tree 

[–] Nac89 8 years ago

I came on here to rant about Nicole! Looks like you did it all for me! I agree 100% to everything you said. I will just add that she makes my skin crawl every time they show her!
I do feel bad for the child. She has to live with this sorry pathetic mother!!

[–] TorontoBlueJay 8 years ago

Nicole is trailer trash.