My interpretation of the film
The film is a metaphor for how society looks upon relationships. In real life, society pushes everyone to be in a relationship. If you are currently not in a relationship then you are looked upon as strange and out of step. Perhaps there is something wrong with you. The film makes the exaggeration and takes it to the level where if you are not in a deep relationship then you really have no place in our society (thus the change you to an animal). The loners are the "weirdos" in society. The ones who do not choose to be in a relationship. However, society also looks down upon people who flirt, kiss, or fk outside of a dedicated relationship. In real life, they are called promiscuous, sluts, whores, etc. In the film they are severely punished.
The movie also touches upon on how people choose a mate. People (in real life) seem to be fixated on having something in common. Sometimes they are so desperate to be in a relationship mostly because they want to "fit in" to society that they may fixate on something they have in common no matter how trivial and certainly not something to build a complete relationship on. You see it a lot in life that people bond over something such as having the same taste for movies or music or simply enjoying the sex they have together and seem to build the relationship around it often ignoring the many other things they loathe about each other just to remain in the relationship because of the pressure of the outside world to be in one or be doomed to be looked upon as weird. This is where the absurd match-ups in the film come in. It is an exaggeration of what people do in real life.
The digging of the grave was also a metaphor for when people say if you don't get married or are in a relationship then who will take care of you when you die? Will you be found by your stink weeks later? I knew right away before even looking it up that this film had to be written by either a Spanish or Mediterranean background because they are SO pressured to get married. I also think people who never felt this pressure would not understand the movie and be fixated on the literal world and ask questions like how did the world end up like this, etc.
Anyways, I loved the film. From Latin background myself where if you are not married by the time you are 30 they start asking if you are in the closet.
The Lobster (2015) - 8 outta 10 stars
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